For more than twenty years I was engaged in family psychology - worked as a psychologist and a sexologist, the problems of the couple decided. As practice shows, it is sometimes worth abandoning psychological techniques and techniques and seek help to "people's" methods. Now I will tell you about what we are talking.
Now I work in the center of rehabilitation for women. One of the most frequent causes of divorce - treason. And, despite any psychological assistance, I have to note - usually rehabilitated to women helps revenge with his mistress. It is not always beautiful and noble, but effectively and helps to regain self-esteem.
Treason: What to do?
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Practice shows: Treason is always a blow, even if the woman suspected the infidelity of her husband or a guy. The relationship is extruded, no confidence, self-esteem and self-esteem - at the bottom.
The first thing to be done is to put your own emotions. Try to distract, breathe deeply, make a workout, sleep sleep. The main thing, do not commit too sharp actions, do not go crazy. Let the time to think about what happened and decide what exactly you want to do.
How to revenge?
As a rule, it will be restored after treason, women helps revenge with his mistress. Small and not very accurates that can extremely spoil the life of an opponent and seriously embroil her with your man.
- Tell her surrounding. When a woman agrees to the role of his mistress, she immediately appreciates the risks for his reputation. If you unobtrusively inform someone from the surroundings of the direction of such a situation, it will be very soon for her back, they will begin to whisper and condemn. And this will seriously reinforce the spinner of the nerves.
- Send flowers or SMS from anonymous. Everything is simple here - send parcels with ambiguous inscriptions. Your exertion will begin to ask questions, and the mistress will not be able to answer. Thus, a quarrel breaks between them, and a man thinks - maybe he is not alone.
- Tell your husband that during the next inspection of the doctor, you have found a dangerous infection. Bear that she causes infertility, "the man exactly will find out the relationship to the deliberate. And when the quarrel between them has already developed, let me know in the hospital and did not give you your analysis. Trust in their pair will be destroyed.
- If you know the address of the mistress, then the Internet to help you. Fish heads, eggs, meat - With the help of all this in the apartment you can create an unsurpassed fragrance, which will not contribute to romance and sex.
- If you are not familiar with the deliberate, meet! Be with her friendly and affectionate, tell what a good person is your husband. A woman swept the feeling of guilt, because you reacted to her with such kindness!
- If you have a mistress number, it's wonderful! Leave the questionnaire from her name on a dating site or prostitutes. Endless calls will quickly bring the deliberate to the nervous breakdown, and the man will begin to doubt.
- Try to look good. Of course, it is not easy in such a state, but do not start drinking or forget about yourself. Clean clothing, neat styling, fresh manicure is a minimum that should always be with you.
What to do, so that the husband threw his mistress?
- Remove sex and romance from your relationship, but be the most adequate in any other areas - if you have children, then quietly let them see with your father. The mistress will probably go crazy and quickly bring your husband.
- Post joint photos on social networks. From vacations, joint events. Write cute signatures - the direction for sure is watching your social networks. Even if she knows that the photos are old, it will still act on her nerves and makes doubt the loyalty of a man.
- Ask a husband to leave, even if you are ready forgive. Tell me what you see that he is bad with you and that you are sorry. What do you ask him to go to her and do not torment yourself or you. What do you want happiness and do not hold evil. Such a beautiful act will certainly touch the man, and he will seriously think.
- Do not hug and do not rudely in the open. Of course, I immediately want to throw the richly the rightest messages, but it is not profitable for you. Refuse to communicate with her, and if suddenly I had to go to some kind of contact, be cold, but polite.
- Do not insult her with her husband. Tell me that this woman is beautiful and obviously smart. What do you regret that he lied to you, and did not go right away, but you understand his choice. The fact is that the mistress probably has already picked you up with mud. And so beautiful, noble behavior will make her husband think seriously - whether he needs this hysteric, or he will save his family better.
Briefly about the main thing
- Keep adequacy. Even if you firmly decided to take revenge, wait until the emotions are attended, do not start haggling to do nonsense. Otherwise, you can simply show yourself completely inadequate, and the mistress - just the opposite, ideal.
- In any case, do not demonstrate your hatred with your husband - talk about the mistress is respectful or do not speak at all. In this case, you will show yourself in a more advantageous light, especially if the rival starts to water you mud.
- Do not try to be a wife's husband - take away sex and romance from relationships. But keep full adequacy and friendliness in other matters, and it pulls it to you.
- Through the mistress can be unobtrusively told about her role to surround. No one likes a spoiled reputation, including your husband.
- Watch your appearance - elementary wear clean and tidy clothes, wash your head, make a simple makeup.