How to understand that a person is lying: working advice of a psychologist

There are a lot of false people now. According to the latest data of sociologists and psychologists, the average resident of the Earth for a day is deceiving several times. At the same time, it can lie and lie to him, maybe not everyone. Only a liar manipulator is able to control their behavior so that its deception is not visible to others. Physiognomists and psychologists and psychologists are able to identify a lie, if they are professionals. It is enough for them to observe for a while for some time.

However, a simple person from another sphere can detect detect if they will replenish the luggage of their knowledge and listen to the advice of specialists.

What is a lie?

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There are several definitions. Logic interprets it as a statement that is opposed to the truth. It cannot meet the truth. The deception is usually called in everyday life. Psychologists argue that when a person is lying, he specifically wants to form a certain conviction from the interlocutor as faithful. Although the liar himself knows perfectly about the existing inconsistency. Consciously speaking, he follows a certain tactic suitable, in his opinion, at the moment.

Varia varieties great many. That's just some:

• simulation;
• bluff;
• hoax;
• fairy tales;
• falsification;
• slander;
• plagiarism;
• flattery;
• self-shaped, self-deception;
• Fale for good and so on.

It can be pathological when a person just can not lie. May happen in captivity. Extremely widespread children's.

Why lies man

Cheating hovers around. People lie. Why does this happen so often? Usually in everyday life, the person faces only with the hidiment of small information. Most often because many do not want to spoil the relationship, for simply there is a desire to seem significantly.

The most weighty lies are in close connection with something significant for the face. Sometimes it can have a big destructive power for a person, his character and even fate. The dishonest lives, always straining, because it is afraid to say or that his truth will ever pop up onto the surface. Often it happens that leads to unpleasant consequences.

In science there are a pair of versions about the conscious lies of people. Even such when they know exactly what it leads to a dead end.

1. Fear to telete the truth.
2. Solid faith in the need to discuss. The one who lied, thinks that the truth will be destructive for the interlocutor.

How to define a lie?

For most pronunciation of lies - stress. Emotions are usually unpleasant, lead the body into excitement. Changes occur even at the physiological level. This is expressed in the fact that the deception itself shows verbally and non-verbally.

The main signs of lying

Is it possible to find out, lying a man or is it honest before the interlocutor? It turns out signs that help in this understand, exist. However, on the other hand, they cannot be direct evidence of lies. Even if they are not, does not mean that there is no deception.

For more correct output, the entire behavior of the interlocutor is applied. Some actions are tracked in aggregate with all manifestations of attitudes towards a person. It is easier to calculate the liar if he is familiar, then his momentary behavior is compared with the usual. It is usually different. If we are talking about a stranger, then it is more difficult for it in a lies.

Thinking how to find out that a person is lying, he is being observed. There is a mental comparison of situational and normal behavior. You can bring the interlocutor to clean water by checking the information received, or when you yourself know the real position of things.

Lie indicators

There are many signals and signs that a person composes and tells a lie. However, all of them can be disselected in two types:

1. verbal;
2. non-verbal.

In the first case, there is an expression in verbal form. You can understand the evasive conversation that it does not want the interlocutor to discuss the topic presented, avoids it either simply changes. In this case, there are shorter, speech is too dry and thought out so as not to run out. You can also hear hot oaths and so on.

If the question is asked, and in response it is too long a pause, then, most likely, the interlocutor comes up with something. He may even be roughly flattered and rub in confidence, seeking location. Lyubunshiki also love to press on pity, so that everyone thought that a person was so bad that he was not up to the lies. Sometimes there is too openly demonstrated a disinterest in the question.

In the second - there is a division on:

• Physiological (damaged, man sweats, sections of the face are covered with moisture, palms are also wet, the heart beats more often, the color of the face, the abnormal breathing);
• Mimic (pupils narrow, frequent blink begins, the glance is given or rests overly intended in the interlocutor, the curve smile, frowning eyebrows),
• Slastic (frequent meaningless touch to different areas of the face, heads, hide the brushes of the hands, jerked the limbs either cross).

Of course, this can be seen with strong human excitement. To not be confused, it is important to compare words and further actions.

Conclusion

People cheated each other at all times. However, it is enough to assimilate the gestures and behavior characteristic of deceivers, and then understand that a person is lying, it will be much easier.

• Modern psychologists help distinguish, where a truthful story, and where is a lie.
• In order not to fall asleep on the hook, it is worth being observing and remember some indicators of the deceit of the interlocutor.