Sama da shekaru ashirin da na yi aiki a cikin iyali na iyali. A tsawon shekaru, na yi aiki tare da dubunnan ma'auratan dangi kuma na yarda da daya - matsalolin yawancin mutane suna da kama da warwarewa. Kuma a cikin sabon dangantaka, kuma cikin dogon dangi rayuwa, daya daga cikin mafi yawan matsalolin da suka zama masu kishi ne.
Wannan jin sau da yawa yana lalata ƙauna, saboda kishi yana ɗaukar idanun mutane, yana sa ikon sarrafawa da kuma yin ayyuka masu ban tsoro. Kishi ya zama dalilin rashin kunya, bayan da dangantakar da ma'aurata tana fashewa a kan seams. Sabili da haka, a cikin wannan labarin na yanke shawarar gaya game da manyan dalilan da abin da ya faru da kuma bayyana yadda za a magance shi.
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Kuna iya jin zargin da zargin game da kishi - kuma cewa hakan bai tasowa daga karce, kuma cewa tabbacin ƙauna ne. Amma a zahiri, wannan jin yana da amfani gaba daya kuma kawai ya kashe jijiyoyin biyu. Gaskiyar ita ce idan akwai dalilin irin wannan ji, to, matsalar ta fi yawa kuma mafi wahala, kuma idan babu wani dalili, to kawai kuna wahala a cikin ɗakin kwana. Me yasa kishi ya tashi?
- Kishi shine tsoron rasa ƙaunataccen. Sau da yawa wanda ya samo asali ne saboda rashin tsaro a kansa - to alama a gare ku masu fafatawa ne a kusa da abokin tarayya waɗanda suka fi kyau a gare ku.
- Ma'anar dukiya da hypercontrollle. Sau da yawa, mutane suna da kishi ne kawai saboda suna son samun cikakkiyar iko akan rayuwar abokin tarayya. Tare da wannan wajibi ne don yaƙi da aiki, irin wannan sha'awar ba mahaukaci bane.
- Da yawa lokaci kyauta. Sau da yawa, mutane kawai ba su da al'amuran kansu da kuma abubuwan hutu, kuma lokacin da abokin tarayya ya fara ƙoƙarin yin wani abu tare da nasa, suna fushi kuma su fara kishi.
- Yanayin mara kyau. Duk muna da wasu nau'ikan dangantakar abokantaka, banda, mun ga labarin iyayenmu. Kuma waɗanda suka ga cinikinta suna fara jin kishi har ma da aminci, masu gaskiya kuma gabaɗaya cikakke abokan tarayya.
Yadda za a rabu da wannan ji?
- Gane dalilin. Ka yi tunani: Shin kishi kake da dalilai na gaske, ko kuwa ka ƙirƙira ka?
- Kada ku nemi dalili. Karka yi kokarin nemo wani abu mai shakku. Mutanen da suka kama kishi sau da yawa fara hawa wurin abokin tarayya a cikin tarho, duba m kan hanyoyin sadarwar zamantakewa ko abubuwan bincike. Irin waɗannan matakan koyaushe suna da kyau. Kuna wulakanci kanku, wulakanta mutuncin ƙaunarku kuma, a lokaci guda, zaku iya yin wani abu da ba abin fahimta ba kuma ku tsara abin kunya daga annobe. Idan akwai shakku, zai fi kyau buɗe hanyar sadarwar zamantakewa ko wayar hannu.
- Ka ɗauki kanka abubuwa masu ban sha'awa da kuka yi matukar son zuciya. Nemo abin sha'awa cewa gaskiya zata wuce ka, amma wannan sha'awar ta zama kawai naka - ba da kanka abokin tarayya.
- Goyan bayan ƙaunarka. Taimaka shi a cikin dukkan al'amura, a cikin akwati ba sa lalata abin da ya ciyar da lokacinsa. Tallafawa, motsa - kuma mutum yana son ya more rayuwa, kuma za ku zama mai nutsuwa.
- Yi abokai tare da abokai. Ee Ee! Ofaya daga cikin kuskuren m mutum ne ko mace ba mace ce tare da haruffan ƙaunataccen, suna fara jayayya, tsokani suna da ban tsoro. Ba shi yiwuwa cewa zai yi aiki - ba da jimawa ba ko kuma daga baya mutum ko ya ƙi cika buƙatunku, ko fara sadarwa tare da kamfanin yana asirce. Kuma idan abokai suna son ku, to, zaku yi tafiya tare, kuma a yanayin wani yanayi mara kyau da kuka koya nan da nan game da komai.
- Gaskiya da gaskiya game da abubuwan da kuka samu, ba tare da abin kunya da bugawa ba. Idan tashin hankali saboda kishin ba su zama mummunan abin kunya ba, to, gwada magana kawai. Faɗa mana a hankali abin da daidai ku - wataƙila, don ƙaunataccen, yana da matsala, zai sauƙaƙe wani abu mara kyau. Babban dokar a wannan lokacin shine magana cikin nutsuwa kuma kada ku zargi. A akasin wannan, sanya komai akan kanku: "Yi haƙuri, na fahimci cewa wawa ne, amma ina hauka, taimake ni rabu da wannan ji." A cikin nau'in buƙatun, muna yawanci yin farin cikin aiwatarwa.
Kuma idan akwai wani dalili?
Idan akwai dalilin kishi, wato, ka canza, ka yi rayuwa, kuma kuna da hujjoji masu amfani da kai, to, kuna da wuya a iya yin magana game da kawar da kishi. Nan da nan, ba tare da nadama ba, hawaye irin wannan dangantakar - kamar yadda zasu sami damar ci gaba.Nan da nan rasa mutuminka, zai iya zama mai tsoro sosai. Muhimmancin ku zai karu sosai, zai fara rasa da baƙin ciki cin amana. Idan yana da wasu ji kafin hakan, abokin aikin zai yi komai don dawo da ƙaunarku da dogaro.
Bari mu taƙaita
- Kishi yana daya daga cikin manyan matsaloli a cikin dangantaka. Ya shafi waɗannan ma'aurilu da suka yarda da su kwanan nan da waɗanda suka kasance tare tsawon shekaru.
- Kishi yana faruwa ne saboda dalilai daban-daban, kuma galibi babu dalilin da ba daidai ba ne a gare ta. Don kawar da wannan jin, kuna buƙatar fahimtar inda ya bayyana.
- Idan dalilin kishi shine abokin zama da gaskiya yana kama da gefe, ba ya da ma'ana don yakar wannan jin, dole ne mu juya dangantakar.
- Idan babu wasu dalilai masu mahimmanci game da kishi, kuna buƙatar ƙoƙarin kawar da kishi. Ka ɗauki kanka abubuwa masu ban sha'awa kuma magana ta gaskiya game da yadda kake ji.
- Kada ku haramta wani abin ƙaunataccena kuma kada ku iyakance shi. Zai fi kyau a akasin haka - sha'awar da al'amuran sa, yi ƙoƙarin gina kyakkyawar dangantaka tare da abokansa. Don haka kun kwantar da kanku kuma kawai sake shawo da ƙaunarka - ba za ku iya rasa ku ba.