Tikukhala m'dziko laukadaulo wapamwamba pakakhala chibwenzi ndi kulumikizana pang'onopang'ono kuti anyamuke. Pankhani yolumikizirana pa intaneti ndi oimira kugonana mwamphamvu, atsikana ali ndi mafunso ambiri: zomwe zingalembedwe, ndipo zosatheka bwanji? Momwe mungasangalalire ndi zitsanzo za psychology za munthu zojambula za munthu zikuganiza za masiku ano.
Komwe mungamudziwe ndi munthu pa intaneti
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Kuphatikiza apo, mutha kudziwa bwino za forum kapena mgululi - ndiye kuti pali mwayi waukulu wokumana ndi munthu wamalingaliro, kenako kukhalapo kwa zokonda zomwe zimabweretsa.
Kodi ndiyenera kulemba uthenga?
Funsoli nthawi zambiri limazunzidwa ndi atsikana akapeza mafunso a mnyamata wokongola. Mbali imodzi, zikuwoneka ngati mwanjira ina mayiyo woyamba kuti akhazikitsidwe, ndipo mwadzidzidzi, mwadzidzidzi tsoka lanu, ndipo mudzadutsa chifukwa cha kuyika pagulu?
Kuphatikiza apo, pa intaneti pa malo ochezera kapena mu malo ochezera ena pali njira zokwanira kukopa chidwi: zolembetsa, hundu, ndemanga. Koma ngati chinthucho sichimachitika chifukwa cha zoterezi, mutha kuyesa kumulembera uthenga kwa iye. Ngakhale kuyesako kukanalephera - musataye mtima, poyamba, simudzataya chilichonse, koma chachiwiri, zolephera ndizosavuta pa intaneti kuposa m'moyo weniweni.
Osangoganizira zotsatira zake, ndipo pepani - ndani akudziwa, mwina, zidzapambana.
Zoyenera kulemba mu uthenga woyamba bambo
Momwe mungayambitsire kulumikizana ndi mlendo kuti amukonde ndipo nthawi yomweyo amakonzekera? Kutaya Msasa Lakale Monga "Moni, uli bwanji?". Mauthengawa ndi "omwe adalowa" ogwiritsa ntchito malo ochezera a pa Intaneti ndi malo okhala ndi chibwenzi chomwe nthawi zambiri samawaganizira. Bwerani ndi njira yosangalatsa ya mawuwo. Ndikofunika kuyika nthabwala nthawi yomweyo.
Cholinga cha uthenga wanu ndikulumikiza munthu kapena munthu, kuti amulimbikitse kuyankha. Osawopa kuwonetsa zakukhosi kwanu kuti uthengawo ukhale wosangalatsa. Fotokozerani mafunso otseguka, omwe sangathe kungokhala ndi chipinda chimodzi "ayi" kapena "inde."
Tiyeni tiwone zitsanzo za zopambana osati mauthenga.
Momwe mungalembere sikofunikira: "Ndi mphaka wokongola bwanji pazithunzi."
Momwe mungalembe kuti: "Ndikuwona kuti mumakonda mphaka wanu kwambiri. Chifukwa chiyani mwasankha Maine Kun - ngati nyama zazikulu komanso zofatsa kapena kodi wagonjetsa zomwe adalemba? "
Simuyenera kulemba kuti: "Kodi mumamvetsera nyimbo yotani?".
Sinthani: "Ndi chithunzi ndikuwona kuti ndinu wokonda gulu lopsompsona. Kodi mwakhala pa konsati yawo yomaliza mumzinda wathu? Ndikufuna kupita kwa iye. "
Momwe mungasangalalire ndi psychology
Pali njira zingapo zachinyengo zamaganizidwe omwe adzasowa mu omwe ali ndi chidwi ndi chidwi chanu.- Nthawi zonse samalani ndi kuwerenga kwa mauthenga anu. Zolakwika zoyipa "zodulidwa" maso ndikuwongolera kwa munthu. Sizokayikitsa kuti mumenezi mumakufuna kuti mulowe mu maubale ndi mtsikana wosaphunzira, womwe mwachionekere umapanga zotsika, kapena waulesi kwambiri kuti mupeze malamulo a chilankhulo cha Russia.
- Gwiritsani ntchito zolondola. Pazoyenera kulinganiza, kusokonezeka kumatha kuchitika ndi tanthauzo la mauthenga. Popewa izi, ikani kumwetulira, tsindizani zomwe tikunena.
- Kuyambira pachiyambi cha kulumikizana, onetsani kuti ndinu munthu wabwino, chifukwa palibe amene amafuna kuthana ndi ndevu ndi omwe ali ndi nkhawa mpaka kalekale.
Pamwambapa, tidayang'ana pa Malamulo Awiri, ndipo tsopano titembenuzire ku upangiri wothandiza 10, momwe angapangire chidwi cha munthu kudzera pa intaneti.
UTHENGA 1. Ndiuzeni "ayi" ma basiya
Mawu amitundu ndi achikhalidwe chogwirizanitsidwa ndi kusungulumwa. Achiwerewere amawunikiridwa kwambiri ndi mauthenga achilendo, othandiza maluso. Ndi thandizo lawo, mumadziperekera ngati chodabwitsa, munthu wosangalatsa.
Koma samalani nkhope - musayese kufumbi m'maso mwa mawu okongola ndi zolemba kuchokera pa intaneti, ngati simugwiritsa ntchito poyankhulana kwenikweni. Kupanda kutero, yemwe amamuimbirawo adzakhumudwitsidwa m'moyo.
Langizo 2. Osatchula zovuta zanu
Munthu wina sangazindikire kuti alipo, koma ngati munganene za iwo za iwo, osasamala bwanji pano?Ngati mwayamba kulumikizana, zimawoneka zoseketsa kwambiri - dzilimbikitsani kudzikayikira nokha modzidalira, zomwe sizifanana ndi iye. Kupatula apo, zikakhala kuti chilichonse chikadzidalira - munthu sadzadzidzudzula, m'malo mwake, ayimitse zabwino zake. Kupatula kungakhale ngati mukudzitenga nokha, chinthu ngati "eh, sindine malo ogona osatha."
Kotero kuti zinali zokongola, ndi chikondi.
Langizo 3. Yang'anani mitu yatsopano yolumikizirana
Kulankhulana pafupipafupi ndi munthu, mumayika pangozi mndandanda wa mitu yoyambira. Popewa nthawi yobereka, sankhani zingapo kuchokera pamndandanda wotsatira:
- ziweto;
- Mawonekedwe a zochitika zake;
- osadziwika, esoteric;
- Zomwe amayembekeza kulandira pazibwenzi, zomwe malingaliro ake pa moyo wabanja, abambo ndi amai.
Pomaliza, mutha kuuza wina ndi mnzake nthawi zonse, koma nkhani zoseketsa kwambiri.
Kumbukirani kuti kudzera mu kulemberana makalatanu muyenera kumvetsetsa kuti munthuyu ndi woyenera kwa inu. Chifukwa chake, mufunseni kuti akulipireni mafunso.
Langizo 4. Musalole mayankho owuma
Mayankho owuma kapena amodzi akuwonetsa kuti kulumikizana sikosasangalatsa kwa inu, kumathandizidwa mwadongosolo. Ndipo zosiyana - malingana ndi zomwe zimachitika m'maganizo, Mch akudziwa kuti chidwi chimakhudzidwa, zimalimbikitsa kupitiliza zokambiranazo.
TATFT 5. Lumikizanani ndi munthu dzina
Dzinali ndilo mawu osangalatsa kwambiri kwa munthu aliyense. Kutembenukira ku malo othandizana ndi dzina, inu mukugogomeza umunthu wake ndi kufunika kwake padziko lapansi. Onetsetsani kuti dzinalo molondola, popanda kulondola. Funsani, ndi iti mwa njira zomwe munthuyu amakonda kwambiri - kwathunthu kapena wachidule.Tip 6. Zovuta
Nkhani yokopa ikhoza kukhala patokha kapena icho. Anthu amadziganizira okha, motero amapangitsa mnyamata kuganiza za inu mu Kuwala kwatsopano. Mwachitsanzo, lembani china chake kuchokera patsamba lotsatirali:
- "Mukudziwa, ndimamvetsetsa za inu china chake ..."
- "Kodi mumamva bwanji mukaganizira?".
- "Mudauzidwa kuti muli ndi zachilendo?".
Musakhale owongoka kwambiri - okongoletsedwa ndi anzanu. Tiyerekeze, musayankhe funsolo, koma sindikudziwa zosintha "O, sindikudziwa kuti zikuyenera kukuwuzani." Lankhulani ndi mawonekedwe owoneka bwino kuti mwamunayo akhale wosangalatsa.
Tip 7. Kupirira kupuma
Simuyenera kuyankha uthengawo mutalandira. Kupanda kutero, inu mumawonjezera "mfundo": Pangani chithunzi cha munthu wotanganidwa komanso wosagwirizana. Nawonso anthu oterewa amakhala ndi chidwi. Koma, inde, tikulankhula za kupumira pang'ono - mu mphindi 10-20, koma osati masiku ochepa.Muyeneranso kusamala ndi liwiro la kuyankha kwa intloctior. Zolemba zake: Ngati sayankha kwa maola ambiri, simungakwanitse kuthamanga ndi yankho. Ayi, ayi, motero. Tiyeni mwayi wogwira ntchito yolankhulana.
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Langizo 8. Simungayankhule nthawi zonse.
Ngati munthu akatiuza zakukhosi kwa iye yekha wokondedwa, zikuwoneka kuti mwina amakumana, kapena akusowa kwambiri, kapena amafunitsitsa kuzindikira mbali. Mulimonsemo, yemwe ali nawo yemwe ali ndi chidwi cha zokambirana amakhala otopetsa, chikhumbo chimodzi chimachitika - kuchichotsa.
Kulankhulana ndi mnyamata kumayambiriro kwa omwe akudziwako, palibe chifukwa chowatsanulira miyoyo yonse konse, kuuza zonse zovulala, zochititsa chidwi zake, zokondweretsa. Apatseni mwayi wopita, afunseni mafunso, chidwi chenicheni.
Zosangalatsa! Ngati kuchokera ku dialog yoyamba ya Mch yekhayo kumayamba kuyankhula za kugonana - musawanyalanyaze, ndikuuzeni kuti simunadziwe bwino nkhani zofananira.
TIPO 9. Pewani mitu iyi
Pali mitu ingapo yomwe ndikofunikira kudutsa msewu wakhumi koyambirira kwa chibwenzi, kuti asapangitse munthu wopanda pake.- Kuchuluka kwake - sizokayikitsa kuti munthu azichita chidwi ndi mkazi wachimereka;
- Ubale wake wakale - kuwakumbukira nthawi zambiri kumakhala osasangalatsa, sikuyenera kuvulazidwanso ndi yemwe akuwathandiza.
- Mwamwayi - mwinanso mudzakhala mukupezeka mosavuta komanso zopanda pake.
Osapitiretsa zakale zanu - sizokayikitsa kuti chidziwitsochi chidzakhala chosangalatsa komanso chothandiza. Osatembenukira zakale.
TIMOS 10. Osamapanga mapulani okonda
Chifukwa chake mudzapulumutsa maselo amitsempha michere ndi kusangalala kwanu ngati pali cholakwika. Kumayambiriro kwa chibwenzi ndi maubale, zimakhala zovuta kuneneratu zotsatira zawo. Ndipo, zikutanthauza kuti, ndibwino kuti musalowe pasadakhale, koma ingonani kulankhulana.
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