Kuti mumvetsetse zomwe alendo akuwomberedwa, kumbukirani mayeso odziwika bwino amisala, omwe mudapatsidwanso nyama yopangidwa ndi anthu osawerengeka. Kutengera magawo a nyama yosadziwika, kumasulira kwa umunthu wanu womwe amafunsidwa. Chimodzimodzi ndi alendo.
Ndi Kusintha Kwina - Ngakhale palibe amene wawonapo alendo enieni, pali sitampu inayake yapamwamba kwambiri komanso yopanda pake ndi osalimba komanso anyani. Pafupifupi anthu onse omwe amadziwa zambiri zokhudzana ndi maumboni, zizolowezi zawo, zizolowezi zawo, zakudya ndi malo, ngakhale kwenikweni ndizongopeka chabe. Kungolumikizana kokha ndipo nthawi zambiri kuvomerezedwa.
Ubwino weniweni wa alendo m'maloto ndi wosazizwitsa komanso wosamvetsetseka.
Mtengo weniweni wa kugona
Ngakhale atakhala odala, kugona ndi alendo ali ndi tanthauzo lenileni. Mwachitsanzo, munayang'ana mafilimu ambiri kapena makanema owoneka bwino, osakhumudwitsidwa pabwalo lachinsinsi, osadziwika komanso osawoneka bwino - ubongo ungathe kuyankha mwa kugona ndi ziphuphu.
Kuti muthane ndi mavutowo, muyenera kunena zabwino m'maloto ndi mlendo, yemwe adzathetsereni chilichonse, adzapereka dzanja la thandizo, adzakusiyanidi ndalama zochokera padziko lapansi Crypton. Mlendo wamphamvu womwe mungawerengere nokha. Mulibe ena.
Tanthauzo lalikulu la kugona ndi alendo
- Kuti muwone m'malo otonthoza alendo, chidzamva kusowa kwanu pankhani zomwe zili pano, zinthu sizikugwirizana ndi inu, simukufuna kufunafuna kutuluka kwenikweni ndikuyembekeza kuti mudzapeze thandizo kuchokera kunja. Zimasiyidwa mu positi ya Lilac - osachepera yankho lotani. Simuyenera kukhala ndi moyo wanu, koma simungathe kuzisintha.
- Mukulankhula ndi alendo, gawani zolinga zanu, lankhulani miyoyo. Kodi simulankhulanso ndi ndani? Siyani anthu okuzungulirani. Mwina zikuwoneka kuti simukumvetsa, mawu anu ndi zochita zanu sizikugwira ntchito, musayamikire. Ndipo mumamvetsetsa bwino kwambiri? Yesani kumvetsetsa oyandikana nawo musanadziwe anthu osawadziwa.
- Ngati mungalore zokolola za alendo - ndizodabwitsa kwambiri "amayi, makolo kumbuyo" kapena "ndipatse dziko lina." M'malo mwake, maloto amawonetsedwa ndi zenizeni zanu, ndipo zimawalepheretsa. Ngakhale mutalota kuti mumakhudzidwa ndi zokumana nazo zoopsa kapena kufunsa kuti musangalale ndi chinthu chochititsa chidwi, ngakhale ngati mawonekedwe a magazi ndi. Pezani blog za moyo wanu ndikuyika pa intaneti, ikani zithunzi. Mudzadabwa, anthu ambiri adzakondwerera kuona moyo wanu, makamaka kuyambira mayiko ena. Muli ndi china chouza anthu kuposa kugawana. Sambani diary yanu theka la ola patsiku - ndi pang'ono. Mutha kugula.
- Zowopsa za mtundu wopanda utoto wopanda utoto, wokhala ndi maso ambiri ndi mahema amawombera pafupipafupi ndi atsikana. Ku Japan, pali mtundu wonse wamabuku okhala ndi zithunzi, komwe zimphongo zazikuluzing'ono zimasochera atsikana achichepere, amawagwiririra ndikuwadyetsa ndi mphamvu zawo. Zachidziwikire, ndikungogonana. Palibe chowopsa. Mukufuna zogonana zabwino ndipo simukufuna kukumana ndi zotsatira zosasangalatsa. Kodi ndikofunikira kukoka munthu pabedi? Mwasankha. Kungakhale koyenera ngati munthu ameneyo ali woyera, kosangalatsa polumikizana ndipo ali wokonzeka kusamalira chitetezo cha kugonana. Komabe, chiopsezo cha atsikana ndichokwera kwambiri. Ngati munthu wosangalatsa ameneyo sanawonedwe patali, adalamula tetnakl wokongola kudzera pa intaneti. Kuvutika ndi mahormonal onenepa kwambiri komanso madontho osokoneza bongo chifukwa chakhalidwe zapamwamba sizoyenera. Ndi mkuntho wamphamvu womwe umakhala woyambitsa ma hysteria achikazi, kukomoka chifukwa chodziletsa. Ndipo kuti apadera apadera akuwonekera m'maofesi azachipatala kale. Ndi bwino kwambiri.
- Ngati mukuwombera mlendo kuchokera ku kanema yemweyo, pitani kukaphunzira kujambula. Ntchito za giger yayikulu sizimalota. Muli ndi zabwino. Akatswiri ochita zachipongwe amasintha akatswiri olemba mbiri okwatirana ndi ziyeso zogonana za luso la zogonana, ndipo ntchito imeneyi sizimawavuta kwa zaka zambiri. Tikhulupirira kuti chikondi chanu komanso mwayi wanu wosakonzekera akukupulumutsani kuchokera mkati komanso mwachangu.
Tanthauzo la alendo
Mabuku ambiri amalonjeza thandizo ndi kusamalira abwenzi ngati alendowo adali kuti alankhule. Ngati mungakhale ndi zingwe zamagazi ndi amisala, akulota za kugwidwa ndikuwononga dziko lino, simungadalire anzanu.
Onani alendo m'maloto - zikutanthauza kuti mukufuna kukhala achilendo.
Mukulota china chake ngati "olumikizana kwambiri" - alendo amakusankhirani kuwuluka padziko lapansi, zikuwoneka kuti mumasankhidwa kuchokera ku malingaliro awo. Izi zikutanthauza kuti mukuyang'ana chikondi chopanda malire. Kwa munthu wina amakukondani chifukwa cha zomwe inu muli, momwe mumakondera ana angwiro makolo angwiro m'mabuku komanso kutsatsa chakudya cha ana.
Tsoka ilo, m'moyo uno, maubale abwino ndi osowa. Kuti mukwaniritse chikondi cha anthu ena, zoyesayesa zimafunikira, kugwira ntchito, gwiritsani ntchito zinthu zina. Palibe cholakwika ndi kulota za chikondi changwiro. Koma khalani okonzeka kulipira kwathunthu komanso motsatizana.
Mapeto
Maloto a Adventon, osadziwika bwino, zolengedwa zachilendo ndi chikhalidwe chachilengedwe cha munthu. Kulota alendo kumatanthauza kukhala ndi loto. Nthawi yomweyo simukukhulupirira nokha, kuwopa kudziko lazungulira, anthu ozungulira inu ndi osamveka, ngati alendo. Khalani ndi nthawi yochepa kuti mudziwe bwino dziko lino, pangani ubale ndi Iye. Mwinanso n'zomveka kuyendera katswiri wazamankhwala ndikuyang'ana yankho ku lingaliro limodzi - izi zidzakhala thandizo la mlendo wosaziza.