Byakunze kugwa mumatwi yumukobwa ntushobora kumva niba abahisemo bafite ibyiyumvo binini kandi byiza cyangwa bigarukira ku byishimo, inyungu zisambanye? Abahanga mu by'imitekerereze yo kubafasha gutanga ibimenyetso by'urukundo abagabo bakunda umugore, tekereza ko nshaka mubintu hepfo.
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Mbere yuko utangira gutekereza ku rukundo rwabagabo nabagore basinyira, reka tuvuge itandukaniro riri hagati y'urukundo no kumva urukundo rukuze? Muri ibi tuzafasha psychologue yaroslav Samolov.
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Ukurikije impuguke, Ikimenyetso cya mbere kandi nyamukuru ukunda (cyangwa ugukunda) - Umuntu ukunda burigihe ashaka umunezero watowe / umutware we, utitaye ko bazabana cyangwa batabana. Azanezezwa abikuye ku mutima umuntu yakundaga, kabone niyo yaba afite umunezero nundi muntu, nubwo byumvikana gute.
Birumvikana, mw'isi ya none, biragoye cyane guhaza urukundo nk'urwo (hafi bidashoboka). Kubwibyo, duhindukirira ibimenyetso byinshi "byataka" byurukundo no murukundo. Hamwe nuru rukundo, abafatanyabikorwa biteguye gukorera hamwe kugirango babone ibibazo byose bibategurira kubategurira: byaba uburwayi, kwamburwa namafaranga cyangwa ikindi kintu. Umuntu ukunda uhora yizera mugenzi we, ariko yiteguye kuba hafi, uko byagenda kose.
Ariko, kurwana nibihe ni ikintu kimwe, kandi kurwana na we biratandukanye rwose. Birashobora kubaho ko umuntu yemeza ko hariho urukundo rwurukundo rwimpamvu yinyungu zayo (kurugero, kugirango tuyumfe). Gukunda umugabo / umugore cyangwa murukundo? Ikibazo nticyoroshye kandi igisubizo kiri imbere muri wewe, gusa urashobora kubisanga mugusesengura ibyiyumvo byawe.
Ntukitiranya urukundo nurukundo ndetse birenze cyane hamwe no kwizizirwa, guhangayikishwa nibintu byinzozi ze. Irangwa no kugaragara byihuse kwimikorere yinyamanswa-ibyiyumvo, birashira vuba. Kubijyanye no kwishingikiriza, hari ubwenge bwimpuhwe zambere mu kumva duhuza umufatanyabikorwa, bisa nkaho ari ugukuraho.
Ikimenyetso kiranga umubano ushingiye - Ubuzima bugaragara bifite inenge, yahumetswe rwose kandi nta busobanuro butagira umufatanyabikorwa. Iyi ni inzogera itangaje, igomba kwitondera no gutangira gukora kumibanire mibi.
Niba utabikora ku gihe, noneho iyi nyuma irashobora gusuzumwa cyane, ariko rwose yahumetswe: kuvanga kuva mu bwihebe cyane, kugerageza gukurikirana ikintu cy'irari, kugira ngo kwangiza umubano we n'abandi bantu badahuje igitsina Kandi, mubihe bibi cyane, ndetse biza kuri ubutaka bwo kwiyahura bwa "urukundo" rudashoboye. Abaganga b'indwara zo mu mutwe bazi inkuru nyinshi zisa.
Kugirango wirinde iterambere ribi ryibihe, ningirakamaro mugihe cyo kuvugana ninzobere, ako kanya, nkikibazo (ni ukuvuga, gukunda kwishingikiriza) byagaragaye. No gusuzuma urukundo rutari rwiza, ibintu ntarengwa bigomba gukoreshwa buri gihe, udashyize "ibirahure byijimye" kandi ntugerageze kubeshya, mbere ya byose, ubwabyo.
Ibikurikira, Yaroslav ubwe atanga Ibimenyetso 3 byibanze bitandukanya urukundo nurukundo:
- Kandi mubambere, kandi murubanza rwa kabiri, umuntu arimo amarangamutima yose ajyanye nikintu cyo gusubiza mu buzima busanzwe (iyi ni yo shyaka n'ubwuzu, n'impuhwe n'indi marangamutima). Ariko niba turimo kuvuga Urukundo Ibyiyumvo byose byashyizwe ku rutonde bifitanye isano nubujyakuzimu bwinshi nubusobanuro. Kandi muri uru rubanza Mwiza - Bagenda ubwayo, ntibihungabana. Umugabo ukunda arashobora guhindura vuba cyane byibandwaho, guta urukundo mungangano. Kubwukuri Urukundo Ibiranga birambuye, utitaye ku bihe. Urukundo ntirushobora guhindura impuhwe, bitandukanye nurukundo.
- Nanone, itandukaniro ryurukundo no mu rukundo ni ryiza cyane rirashobora gukurikiranwa mugihe dutandukanijwe. Niba kandi abantu bakundana ntibahindura ibyiyumvo byabo, bazaba abizerwa kubantu bahisemo / batoranijwe, noneho bakunda - borohewe, bazagenda babinyujije mumahame kubwumunezero wigihe gito. Kandi amarangamutima yabo arahita, akimara kuba hafi.
- N'ikimenyetso cya nyuma, aho urukundo rutandukanye nurukundo, ni igitambo. Ikimenyetso kigaragara cyurukundo cyiteguye gutanga ikintu icyo aricyo cyose kumuntu uwo ari we wese ukundwa, mugihe yihebye, inyungu ze. Abantu beza batanga intego kubyo bakeneye, kandi gukenera kurengera aba nyuma bazabonwa nabo birababaje.
Umugabo akunda umugore: Ibimenyetso byukuri
Noneho reka turebe ibimenyetso byingenzi umugabo agukunda rwose.Imibonano mpuzabitsina ntabwo ari ngombwa
Kandi bisa nkaho, iyi ni itangazo rigaragara, ariko abakobwa benshi binangiye bamwanda. Ariko ikigaragara ni uko - niba umuntu akunda rwose, noneho umugore we ahuza neza ntabwo akora imibonano mpuzabitsina gusa. Umugabo wuje urukundo akora nkumuntu uhanga, ukora ukora ibikorwa bimwe na bimwe aho yahisemo, ni ibikorwa, ntabwo ari amagambo n'amasezerano yubusa.
Kandi umukobwa abonwa na we ntabwo ari nyirabuja ushimishije, ahubwo nanone nkinshuti, ariko wenda numufatanyabikorwa wubucuruzi. Akenshi, ubucuruzi bwumuryango bwatangiye mumibanire ikomeye mumibanire ikomeye, ariko uruhare umugore yemera. Kandi arashima ubufasha bwa kabiri, kuri we ni ngombwa cyane.
Ntabwo aribijyanye nuko imibonano mpuzabitsina ntacyo itwaye mumibanire yabantu bakunda - birumvikana, gukina, ariko ntabwo ariho.
Kwita ku Bakunzwe
Kandi aravuka nkingaruka zo kwizera umugore urimo. Umugore wizera kumugabo akora diyama nyayo, azaba yiteguye kwitondera, kubakunda no kubishimira (niba, birumvikana ko akunda mubyukuri).
Nibyo, mugihe cyambere cyo gukundana, uhagarariye imibonano mpuzabitsina ikomeye azagaragaza ibimenyetso bya Malomal bizerekana ibimenyetso bya Malomal: gukingura ikiganza cyawe, ukureho ikoti hamwe no gushyushya umukobwa ukonje. Ibikurikira, biraba bigaragara kumyitwarire yumuntu, haba hari ibyiyumvo bikomeye cyangwa igihe cyiza kuri we.
Kurugero, umugabo wuje urukundo azitaho umukunzi we mbere, muri gahunda yibintu, kuko ari kumugabo. Kandi azishimira kumutera ifunguro rya mugitondo, uzane ikawa kuryama, ibuka ingano akunda cyane kandi izabaha kandi.
Icyizere Cyuzuye
Umugabo wuje urukundo ako kanya afunguye kumuryango we watoraniraga ahantu hijimye kandi bwimbitse kubugingo bwe. Ariko ibi bibaho, ntabwo birumvikana, ntabwo kuva kumunsi wambere, ariko mugihe runaka. Inyigisho zose hamwe nishyaka ryabagabo ryagenewe kwerekana umugore ko adatunganye, afite ibibazo bye, nkumuntu wese, ariko yemera ko umukunzi we azamujyana hamwe nabo.Mu buryo nk'ubwo, azafata kandi umukobwa - amufata uko ari, icyo aricyo, ntagerageza guhindura ibintu bimwe na bimwe bigaragara cyangwa imiterere muri yo.
Icyifuzo cyo gukora umuryango
Niba umuntu akunda rwose umugore, ntatinya kumukorera inshingano. Ntabwo afite ubwoba ku bukwe n'abana b'ejo hazaza. Ibinyuranye, yahise avugana n'izi ngingo, ibashyigikira. Umunsi umwe uzana impeta ishimishije cyane.
Hano twakagombye kumenya ko ugereranije babiri mbere yo gushaka, tubisanga mumyaka mike. Umuntu ni uw'abashakanye mu gucirwaho iteka, kandi umuntu nyuma yabo abaye umugore na mama wishimye. Ku giti cyanjye, nizera ko ibintu byose ari kugiti cyawe, ugomba kumenya wenyine, nibisanzwe kuri wewe cyangwa utabigenewe. Byongeye kandi, buriwese afite ubuzima butandukanye, imyaka itandukanye yo gukundana, umwanya wimari nibindi.
Ibyo ari byo byose, niba umuntu akunda, ntatinya gufata inshingano zawe: ntitinya byibuze, abavandimwe, inshuti, gutanga kubana, kandi ntabwo ari uguhurira muri wikendi . Ntabwo bizazana urwitwazo rudasobanutse, kandi ruzatwara ibikorwa nyabyo.
Ubudahemuka
Niba umugabo ahuza ibyiyumvo byimbitse numugore, ntazabona igitekerezo cyundi muntu mudahuje igitsina mumutwe (ikintu kimwe kibaho nabakundana. Ubundi se, tumaze kureba iki, igihe yasangaga - urukundo rwonyine rwubuzima?
Niba umuntu ahora ajya ibumoso cyangwa avugana nabandi bagore, none kuki ukeneye umugabo nkuyu?
Kwiyegurira Imana
Kugirango umuntu wese ari umweke, hamwe nibikenewe byose, umugabo araho kubushake ko byari bihenze: umudendezo we, azakora ikintu cyose, yanga ingeso mbi, hamwe nabambara Isabato Azasimbuza inshuti mugutandukanya umugore we ... Azakora ibintu byinshi, kuko afite kubandi.Icyizere mu byiyumvo
Umugabo wuje urukundo ntiruvuka mumutwe wibitekerezo kugirango asaba umukobwa kugirango ajye impaka urukundo rwe. Ntabwo akeneye gusa ibimenyetso, kuko urukundo nyarwo, ubwitange buranga.
Ubwiyunge
Abantu bose rimwe na rimwe batongana, kandi barakunzwe barabihagarika. Kandi mumakimbirane (cyangwa aho, mucyemezo cyabo), urashobora kandi kubona ibyemezo cyangwa guhakana urukundo rwabantu. Nyuma rero gato yo gutongana, umugabo wuje urukundo azaharanira kubanza kwiyunga (wenda atari mubihe byose, ariko byibuze kenshi). Kandi afata kandi amakosa y'abakundwa, atagerageza kurwana nabo, wenyine "kuri we."Kubaha
Ntanubira no kuganira ku kuba umugabo wuje urukundo atazemera ko asuzugura umugore we amagambo cyangwa, cyane cyane ibikorwa byumubiri. Abona kandi icyubahiro cyubuzima bwe, isi yose, idini, nubwo byose bitandukana cyane na we. Nyuma ya byose, kubwukuri, kwemeza umuntu yahisemo biraranga.
Abagabo rwose beza nawe
Ntabwo arambiwe nawe, ariko utari kumwe - muburyo bunyuranye. Urabona ururimi rusanzwe, burigihe ufite icyo uvuga, ukunda gusetsa, urashobora kugumaho igihe kirekire, kandi hamwe numukunzi wawe ntazababara.
Nibyo, abantu bose rimwe na rimwe bakeneye umwanya wawe, kumarana buri masaha 24 kumunsi nabo ntabwo bashyira mu gaciro. Rimwe na rimwe, inyungu nazo zizana gutandukana, kuruhukira by'agateganyo. N'ubundi kandi, bazabura igice cya kabiri, kora umunezero winama inshuro nyinshi.
Ariko iyo uri kumwe, ntabwo uhura namarangamutima mabi, uba werohewe kurwego rwingufu, umuntu wawe ukunda afatwa nka kavukire. Kandi urashobora kubana nawe wenyine - nta mpamvu yo kwambara mask no gukina undi muntu. Ntushobora gutinya kugaragara asekeje kandi birasekeje, kuba udatunganye, ariko bihenze kandi bifite agaciro kuri buriwese. Ibi birashoboka ko ari ikimenyetso kidasubirwaho cyurukundo nyarwo, nukuri!
Ibi nibimenyetso byibyo ukunda. Uru rutonde, rurumvikana, rushobora kuzuzwa nibindi bintu, kuko urukundo ruragwiriye cyane. Twarebye ibyibanze, bitabaye ibyiyumvo byinshi bidashoboka.
Nkwifurije gukunda no gukundwa!