Abashakanye benshi bahura nikibazo nkishyaka ryishyaka runaka ryimibanire: Iyo imisemburo ituje gato, kuhiba ni ukubisimburwa urukundo rukuze, ingeso, wongeyeho ubuzima buhoraho bwongeyeho, gahunda. Mubyukuri, mubihe nkibi, biragoye cyane kubungabunga ibyambere kuri mugenzi wawe, niko ikibazo kivuka kenshi: "Nigute wasubiza ishyaka rijyanye n'umugabo wanjye / umugore wanjye?" Nibyiza, reka tugerageze gushaka igisubizo kuri bikoresho byuyu munsi.
Aho kandi ni ukubera iki ishyaka?
Mbere yo gusubiza ikibazo, byatanzwe mugitangira ingingo, birakenewe kugirango dusobanukirwe nimpamvu zingenzi zo kubura ishyaka ryabashakanye. Kugirango ukore ibi, reba amakuru yatanzwe na psychologue yamamare Yaroslav Samoilov. Umuhanga atekereza iki?
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Iyo abantu bakundana, hari inzira idasanzwe yimiti mu bwonko bwabo, muhakane hari ishyaka rikomeye, gukurura hamwe nibyifuzo byimibonano mpuzabitsina. Mumeze neza, nkuko mubizi, ntibihoraho, hamwe no kuzimira buhoro buhoro bimanuka buhoro buhoro no kutagira inyota yibintu byimbitse. Ariko ni izihe mpamvu zo kugabanya ishyaka? Hariho benshi muri bo.
Kubura umurava kuva mu ntangiriro yumubano . Ati: "Nibyiza ukuri kurenza ikinyoma cyiza" - Umugani uzwi cyane urashaka kandi koko ashaka gusaba muriki gice. Mubyukuri, akenshi ibura ryihuse riterwa nubwitonzi bwabanje kutita ku bafatanyabikorwa.
Mugihe batagerageza gukemura ibibazo byabo mumibonano mpuzabitsina, ariko tuzabahindura kubushake bwibyishimo - kandi ibi birashobora kuranga haba kubagore ndetse nabagabo. Mubisanzwe, mugihe, bitwaza kurambirwa kandi umufatanyabikorwa / umufatanyabikorwa atangira "kwishingikiriza" mumirwano ye.
IDYL YUZUYE MU MURYANGO . Akenshi ikibazo cyo gusubiza mubusabane butangwa nuwitwa "abashakanye b'intangarugero" batubahirije inyuma yubaha kandi urukundo ruvuye ku mutima. Abatezimbere bo muri iki kibazo baravuga kuri paradox yo kwiteza imbere: Bakunda cyane, bafite imyumvire idahwitse, ariko kubwibyo, umubano ntabwo ubona ibintu bitandukanye, amarangamutima, biganisha ku kurogerwa no kuzimangana kwibira ryimibonano mpuzabitsina.
Icyizere ko "uwo mwashakanye / uwo mwashakanye ntazajya ahantu hose" . Ibi bintu biranga abashakanye, igihe kirekire kibaho mubumwe bwemewe. Babona ko kashe muri pasiporo ari ubwoko bw'ingwate 100% ko umufatanyabikorwa azaba hafi yigihe cyose, nubwo yaba afite ibibazo mubucuti.
Mubyukuri, ntakindi uretse kwibeshya, ariko ni ukubera ko, abakobwa benshi / abagore bareka kwitondera cyane isura yabo. Kandi abahagarariye igorofa rikomeye zibagirwa ibintu byiza kandi byingenzi: gushima nuwo mwashakanye, impano. Kugira ngo ikibazo, ni ngombwa gutangira gukora ku mibanire, nko mu ntangiriro z'abashakanye.
Gutandukanya ibitekerezo by "urukundo" n "" ishyaka " . Rimwe na rimwe, abantu bakora gutandukana hagati yumugereka wamarangamutima no mumutwe no gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina. Ku ishusho yabo yisi, imibonano mpuzabitsina nurukundo ntabwo bihujwe, kugirango urukundo rurangirire neza rwatoranijwe neza cyangwa umutware, icyarimwe kumwanya cyangwa byibuze kurota.
Gutongana . Bakora ibyo abicanyi batunganye kugirango bifuza imibonano mpuzabitsina. Iki kibazo kiranga cyane cyane ko abantu bafunze batazi uburyo bwo kubyutsa kumugaragaro mumaso igice cya kabiri, ariko imyaka yo kubyara ibitutsi mubwimbitse bwumutima wabo. Nubwo bisanzwe bisobanurwa byihuse umubano nabyosenya cyane ibitsina byahoze. Gukemura ikibazo, ni ngombwa kongera kwiga kugirango utangire kubaha hamwe no gusobanukirwa hagati.
Gukurura ibitsina bidahagije . Rimwe na rimwe, umwe mubafatanyabikorwa yirinda gahunda yo kugaruka kugaruka kumpamvu zidasanzwe: ntabwo yumva yishimye cyane. Kandi hano biracyakenewe kugirango twumve muburyo nyabwo bwo kugabanuka kugirango dukure - gutangirana no gusuzuma neza kwa muganga. Nubwo bishoboka ko umukunzi wawe adakurikiranwa gusa: urarakaye n'umunuko w'ibyuya, yakize cyane nibindi.
Icyitegererezo kitari cyo . Mu mibanire yumuryango, ni ngombwa cyane kuba abashakanye babanje gufata imyanya iboneye - ni ukuvuga ko bakoze inshingano zabo nyabyo. Ariko akenshi birashoboka kwitegereza ibintu bitandukanye bitandukanye byo gutandukana: Reka tuvuge ko iyo umugore atangiye kubana numukunzi we atari umuntu ukuze, ahubwo ahinduka umwana muto, ahindukirira "mama". Mubisanzwe, kurwego rwibibazo, umugabo ntiyemerera kugaragara kwifuza kw'imibonano mpuzabitsina ku "babyeyi" be, bityo, imibonano mpuzabitsina ishobora kuzimira ifitanye.
Umugore mu kuganduka . Bamwe mu bahagarariye abanyantege nke bizeye ko nibatangira gusohoza buri fumm yabo abizerwa, noneho ibikorwa nkibi bizaba ibyiyumvo bikonje. Mubyukuri, umugabo arashobora kwemeranya numwanya nk'uwo, ariko rero abura uwo bashakanye. Dukurikije ibisubizo, ishyaka rishira, akenshi kubafatanyabikorwa bombi.
Imibonano mpuzabitsina ntabwo izana umunezero . Birumvikana ko muriki kibazo hariho "icyemezo" gisanzwe cyibihe - kubihagarika gusa. Ibi birasanzwe kubagore batize kugira orgazim no kubagabo barwaye imibonano mpuzabitsina. Basabana kwimenyekanisha imibonano mpuzabitsina gusa no gutsindwa, bigira ingaruka kumirongo (nubwiza) bwo kumenya neza.
Ibibazo byo mu mutwe mubafatanyabikorwa . Kubwifuzo byimibonano mpuzabitsina, ibintu byo hanze bigira ingaruka zikomeye, nko guhangayika (kandi ntibishobora kuba mubucuti, ariko, kurugero, kukazi), guhuza uburozi nabavandimwe cyangwa umunaniro.
Indi mpamvu rusange ni ihohoterwa rishingiye ku gitsina cyangwa uburere budakwiye, ubwo, kuva mu bwana, ababyeyi bashishikarije umwana kugirana ubucuti, biteye isoni n'ikimwaro kibi, isoni n'ibibi n'ibibi n'ibibi n'ibibi n'ibibi n'ibibi n'ibibi n'ibibi n'ibibi n'ibibi n'ibibi. Noneho ingorane zirari ziba igizagungiri giteganijwe. Kugira ngo ukemure ibibazo, inzobere mu byifuzo birakenewe - Umuhanga mu by'imitekerereze, psychotherapiste cyangwa igitsina.
Ingaruka yo kwimura . Abashakanye baragaragara, igihe kirekire babana mubukwe, kikaba kimenyereye cyane, kidasubirwaho bitangira kubona ko amatoD / CHIOITe nka mwene wabo. Ariko gukundana nabavandimwe ntibishoboka, bityo rero hafi yingenzi kugirango tumenye ikintu kibujijwe. Rimwe na rimwe kwimura biranga abo bashakanye aho umwe mubashakanye yifashe amarangamutima cyane kubavandimwe, kurugero, Mama cyangwa Papa. Ibyo aribyo byose, ni ngombwa ku cyemezo cyo guhindukirira inzobere.
Nigute ushobora gusubiza ishyaka mubucuti: Ibyifuzo byabagore
Niba ubonye gukomera kwimibanire yawe ya hafi numukunzi wawe, ariko ibintu ntabwo ari ngombwa, urashobora kugerageza kurimbura byose, udasaba imitekerereze. Kandi hano inama zikurikira kuri Yaroslav Samolov na Lara Litvinova bazatabara.Inama 1: rimwe na rimwe kuruhuka
Impamvu izwi cyane yo guhungabana mumibanire ya hafi mugihe cyubukwe burebure nuko abashakanye bamarana umwanya munini. Hanyuma, ubanza birakenewe rwose, mugihe kizaza kiganisha ku ngaruka mbi - kumva hamwe.
Abahanga mu by'imitekerereze kugira ngo bagire inama muri uru rubanza kugira ngo baruhuke mugenzi we uruhuke inshuti ye - kugirango bakomeze amarangamutima meza muri babiri. Guhagarika by'agateganyo bifasha cyane hano: Genda icyumweru ugana undi mujyi cyangwa reka nkore uwo mwashakanye. Munsi yintera no kutanyurwa, bidashoboka kubona uwo ukunda, ibyiyumvo byiyongera cyane.
Mubi, gerageza uryamye mubyumba bitandukanye (niba ahantu ho kuba wemerera). Ibikorwa byashyizwe ku rutonde bizagufasha kubura no gushimangira icyifuzo cyo kumenya neza.
Inama 2: Ba frank cyane muburiri
Tangira mugihe cyimibonano mpuzabitsina kugirango usobanure ibyo wumva uwo wumva umukunzi wawe, andika ibyiyumvo byawe byose, urashobora gukoresha ibyo wongeyeho, kwibuka, amashusho cyangwa ibitekerezo. Kandi ntiwumve, ntukibagirwe kuvuga ukundwa kubyo ukunda udakunda mubikorwa bye, kubiyobora muburyo bwiza.
Ubundi se, niba ucecetse, birashoboka ko umugabo wawe azumva uburyo bwo kukuzana kwishima? Kubwibyo, ni ngombwa cyane kuvuga ibyiyumvo byawe, ntukibagirwe kandi kubyerekeye ibyiyumvo bya mugenzi wawe. Ubuvumo bugira uruhare mu kwiyongera kwa Libido kandi bizashimangira icyifuzo cya ba Munyamu bakomeye, kongera uburyo bwiza.
Inama 3: Wibagiwe ibibazo
Nukuri abantu bose rimwe na rimwe batongana bamenya umubano. Kandi ibi nibisanzwe, kubera ko umuryango ari ubumwe bwabantu babiri batandukanye bafite ibitekerezo bitandukanye, imyizerere, inyungu. Ikintu cyingenzi gikeneye gukorwa nukwiga kubabarira, kuhara inzika no kwibagirwa ibishoboka byose.Inama 4: Ntutekereze kubintu byose
Kenshi cyane, umwanzi nyamukuru wo kutishimira kuva hafi ni ibitekerezo byacu kubibazo bitandukanye bya buri munsi muriki gikorwa. Wige kubasiga bose kuruhande mugihe ugiye gukunda umugabo wanjye. Kugirango ukore ibi, urashobora kwibwira ko wowe ubwawe, uzahora uhungabanya muburyo bwifuzwa, ukure mubihugu byose: urugero, kwiyuhagira hamwe na foam.
Inama 5: Gerageza kwifuza wenyine
Kandi ibi ntabwo ari byose bijyanye no gutandukana n'imibonano mpuzabitsina, ahubwo ni urukundo ruvuye ku mutima, rutagira icyo rukunda wenyine kandi rukwiye. Isi ku isi ni indorerwamo nini itugaragariza. Kurugero, mugihe tubabaza cyane imico runaka yundi muntu - bivuze ko tutabyemera, mbere ya byose, muri wewe.
Niba wifuza kuzura icyifuzo cyahoze - tangira nawe wowe ubwawe nubuzima bwawe. Ntushake kubikura muri mugenzi wawe, ariko ubanza utange. Tekereza niba koko wikunda? Urahagije kuri wewe, uhitamo ibintu bishya ukunda cyangwa inzira zo kwisiga? Nigute ukuri kwawe kugenda, gukora ibintu bishimishije cyangwa birambiranye, sullen muri yo biganje?
Uzuza ubuzima bwawe ishyaka - Iyandikishe kumyabyi ukunda, jya muri yoga, tangira wiruka mugitondo. Cyangwa birashoboka ko warose cyane kujya mu masomo amwe, ariko bose ntibakemutse? Igihe kirageze cyo kubikora ubu. Shakisha isomo muri douche, aho uzata kuri coil yuzuye. Mugihe utangiye kubaho mubyishimo, kuba uhuye nawe, ubusabane nuwo mwashakanye bizazana umunezero mwinshi.
Inama 6: Mbwira "Oya"
Abadamu benshi bafite urutonde runini rwibibujijwe hafi yemera gukora muburiri numugabo we. Kenshi cyane biganisha kuri monotony kandi biturutse ku ishyaka rikonje. Ni ngombwa gukuraho Taboos yimibonano mpuzabitsina, byoroshye gerageza ikintu gishya. Kubwibyo, umurimo wicyumweru ni ugugura "Kama Sutra" ugatangira kuyigira, bihindura ibyifuzo byimbere mubuzima.Inama 7: Tanga ibitekerezo bihagije
Inama ya mbere yavuze kubyerekeye gukenera kuruhuka umuntu wakundaga, ariko uko ibintu bitandukanye birashoboka - kubura umwanya utyaye hamwe nuwo mwashakanye. Akenshi ibi bibaho mugihe umwana agaragara mumuryango, atwara umugore hafi igihe cyose. Umugabo ntabwo yitondera, yumva arenze, bitari ngombwa, bishobora kumutera kujya ibumoso. Hariho inzira yo gusohoka - gutanga umwanya wenyine hamwe numufatanyabikorwa, uko byagenda kose. Kandi abana bizera rimwe na rimwe ba nyirakuru cyangwa nk'uko byoherejwe, urashobora gukoresha serivisi z'ibigo byihariye by'abana, aho umwana azayoborwa mu gihe mu gihe mama na papa bazamuruhuka gato.
Hanyuma, ndashaka kongeramo iyo mibanire (igitsina byumwihariko) ni umurimo munini wabantu babiri. Ntukibagirwe kandi niba ibibazo byawe bikabije bihagije, nibyiza kwiyandikisha kugirango wakire psychologue yihanganye, nyuma yavuyemo ubutane. Ishimire!