Abagabo n'abagore baratandukanye muri kamere yabo mubintu byinshi, byumwihariko, mugihe cyibintu. Nigute abagabo bakundana, bigenda bite kuri bo? Ndasaba ibisubizo kubibazo byashyizwe muri ibi bikoresho.
Ukuntu abagabo bakundana: psychologiya
Abahanga mu by'imitekerereze y'umuryango bavuga ko benshi mu bakobwa bonyine badafite igitekerezo gito ku bijyanye n'ubutegetsi bw'urukundo bakundana no gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina bikomeye. Iki nikibazo cyingenzi mugukora umubano mwiza.
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Kumenya ibyiciro bimwe harimo urukundo mubagabo, uzumva ufite icyizere kandi uhunge ikiruhuko cyabababaje.
Icyiciro cyurukundo rwumugabo
Rero, abagabo bo mumitekerereze y'urukundo bakura mubyiciro 5 byingenzi. Kandi impamvu nyamukuru yo gutandukana nuko kubanga bitageze ku cyiciro cya nyuma, aho mich itanga icyifuzo cyumutima numutima wumudamu. Reka tumenye icyatera impamvu zitera ikibazo.Icyiciro 1. Kugaragara kw'impuhwe
Nkuko mubizi, abakobwa bakunda amatwi, nabantu bafite amaso. Kandi ubu ni ukuri ko bigoye gutongana. Nubwo umukobwa ukiri muto afite isi yimbere yimbere, ntibishoboka ko umuntu azashaka ko ayishyiramo, niba nta mpuhwe za mbere.
Birumvikana ko abahagarariye imibonano mpuzabitsina bikomeye bafite ibyo bahitamo kubigaragara kubatoranijwe. Nta mategeko adahwema hano kandi ntashobora. Ikintu cyingenzi kigomba kugaragara ni uguhinduka neza, wambaye neza hakurikijwe imyaka yawe na physique, koresha nyiricyubahiro, kwitabira igihe cyatekerezwa kandi kugirango utegure.
Amayeri yiki cyiciro cyurukundo rwabagabo nuko MCH idashobora gukunda wenyine, ariko abakobwa benshi. Niba adashaka kwitondera bihagije kumudamu umwe, noneho nta kwihana bidasanzwe kugeza kuri kabiri. Kandi niba hari inyungu yo gusubiza, jya kuri stage ikurikira.
Icyiciro 2. Gukunda
Hano umugabo aragerageza kwegera impression idasanzwe. Ndasinzira no gushima cyane, ibimenyetso byurukundo byo kwitabwaho, bitanga indabyo na cives hafi ya resitora. Kandi ntiwumve, kugerageza kwigaragaza mu mucyo mwiza. Ibikorwa nkibi bikora nkiterambere rito, ryerekana niba hari igisubizo gisubizo cyumugore.Kurwego rwo kubwuzuye, ibyumviro byabagabo ntibyari bafite umwanya wo gukura. Kubwibyo, umukobwa akeneye kwigaragaza gahunda, yerekana aho baherereye nimpuhwe kubasore, kuko bitabaye ibyo bikagira ingaruka zitereranwa no kwibagirwa mugihe gito.
Icyiciro cya 3: Guhiga
Niba icyiciro cyabanjirije gutsinda neza, icyiciro gikurikira gitangira. Hano mch, gushimisha igisubizo cyumugore, gitangira kumushaka cyane kumubiri. Muri icyo gihe, inyungu z'ishyaka rikura mu mipaka ya geometrike. Umugabo afata icyemezo cyo gutsinda umukobwa amugira.
Uburyo nuburyo bwo kureshya bizakoresha - ibintu byose biterwa namafaranga meza kandi yimari. Kubwamahirwe, ntabwo abantu bose bazasinzira umukobwa ufite amarori ya miliyoni. Ariko birashimishije gutungurwa no kurambagiza cyane uko byagenda kose.
Dukurikije umurongo rusange, iki cyiciro cyo kubeshya kw'abagabo cyitwa "guhiga". Hanyuma umugabo ahinda umushyitsi arashaka kubona umukobwa igihe cyose gishoboka, umukeho bitangaje cyane nibindi. Ariko hariho akaga n'akaga hano - biracyafite urukundo biracyafite imbaraga zihagije, kubwibyo ibyago byo kwakira ibintu byigaragaza cyane cyane ibyiyumvo byimibereho nini kandi byiza kandi bibaho cyane).
Kuva ku ruhande rw'abagabo, ntituba tuvuga urukundo nyarwo, ahubwo turimo gukundana. Abadamu benshi bato kandi bakiri bato batakaje imitwe bagatangira kwizera ibyo bavuga byose. Kurugero, umugabo yavuze ko ejo hazaza ashaka kugira umuryango nabana, kandi abisanga hafi yubukwe bwubukwe. Birakwiye kumanuka bivuye ku bicu byijimye kugeza hasi kugirango ejo hazaza ari bunyamaswa kutabeshya.
Mbega "guhiga" igihe kirekire, ibi biterwa nududahumuriza umudamu cyangwa icyifuzo cye cyo gusa. Niba atigeze "kwitanga" mbere, mubisanzwe bibaho muri ako kanya. Umugabo yumva ameze nkumuhigi nyawe, nta mubiri atari kumubiri gusa, ahubwo anashimisha imico.
Nibyo, hari icyiciro cyabagore bakunda gutinza iki gikorwa. Batangira gukinira babikemu, bagerageza kurambagiza umunezero mugihe kirekire gishoboka. Muri icyo gihe, kandi ntukange umufana, ariko ntuzamuzane, kwitegereza "isura". Inzobere muri psychologiya zisuzuma imyitwarire nk'iyi itariyo.
Ikigaragara ni uko umugabo ashobora kurambirwa gusa kwiruka kubintu byifuzo. Imbaraga n'icyifuzo cye bizashira, azumva ko umukino udakwiriye buji. Hanyuma umubano uzarangira, kandi utabonye iterambere.
Icyiciro 4. Urukundo
Nkuko warabisobanukiwe, niba ibyiyumvo byabagabo bidakomeye kandi ntibyatsinze igihe, barangije ibyiciro byabanjirije. Kandi ubu urukundo rero ruri murwego rushya.Niba kandi kare msh ntabwo yaje mubitekerezo kubintu bikomeye, byayobowe nibitekerezo byinshi, gukurura umubiri, ubu ibintu birahinduka. Arimo atekereza niba umukobwa azamutwara nk'uwo bashakanye.
Iki cyiciro nugufata ibisubizo byisi no gushakisha ibisubizo kubibazo:
- Bizakemura umuryango wishimye?
- Mfite icyifuzo cyo kumujyana mu bagore?
- Ese koko ni umugore wanjye mwiza?
Kandi hano ntabwo ari hanze, ahubwo ni imico yimbere yumugore. Umugabo asesengura imico ye, amugerageza ku ruhare rw'uwo bashakanye, nyina w'abana b'ejo hazaza. Paradoxique, kubera iyi mch yashakishije cyane aho umukobwa ukiri muto, none, amaze kubona igisubizo mu rukundo, atangira kwisuzumisha.
Nibyo, egoism y'abagabo irakurikiranwa hano. Ariko, ishyano, ntibishoboka guhindura ikintu icyo aricyo cyose. Rimwe na rimwe, birumvikana ko bidasanzwe mu mategeko - amateka y'urukundo rwiza urebye. Ariko mubikorwa, ibi birashyirwa mubikorwa kandi gake cyane. Iterambere gakondo ryumubano ribaho nkuko byasobanuwe.
Birumvikana, hano ikimenyetso kinini gishyiraho umuryango umusore yakuze. Niba umubano n'ababyeyi (cyane cyane mama) wari ususurutse, uhuza, noneho umugore wakundaga azakunda, yerekana ibyiyumvo bye byuje urukundo. Numubano mubi na nyina, habuze urukundo, kugirango umuntu asabwa gukura kuva kimwe cya kabiri ubwoko bwa "indishyi".
Icyiciro 5. Icyifuzo cyo kubana numugore ubuzima bwose
Abagabo urukundo ni ibyiyumvo byinshi kuruta abagore. Igorofa ikomeye ukeneye gusobanukirwa kwambere ishusho yumufatanyabikorwa, isesengura neza "mbere yuko ihitamo ku ntambwe ikomeye. Kandi iyo bigaragara ko yizeye ko ari "uwo mugore", ibintu byose birangirana nubukwe bwemewe.
Ariko bibaho ko umusore ukomoka ku isesengura riza ku mwanzuro ko kubera impamvu runaka umukobwa atamuhuza. Noneho arashobora kuzimira no nta mpamvu ikomeye, nyuma yangizwa nububabare bwumugore. Mubyukuri, icyifuzo cyo kumena umubano gisa nkubu buryo bwuzuye kumukobwa watereranywe gusa, kandi uwatangije ibintu byose bitekereje gutekereza kandi apima (birashoboka ko arenze rimwe).
Icyiciro cyanyuma gikunze gutinda mugihe kitazwi. By'umwihariko niba umukobwa ubwe adaharanira ubukwe bwemewe. Amavuta mumuriro yasutse ingorane zamafaranga, igitutu cyababyeyi, imyizerere ishingiye ku idini nibindi byinshi. Ibyo aribyo byose, hanyuma mCH ishyira umukobwa kuba icyamamare, kandi ntabwo ishira.
Ibyifuzo bijyanye no guhindura ibyiyumvo byabagabo
Kuki abantu bakundana? Kuberako bumva inyungu no gukururana. Ariko nigute ushobora kwikingira abahiga bakunda, udahindukirira umuhigo woroshye? Kugirango ukore ibi, ugomba kuba utera neza ibyiciro byurukundo rwabagabo.
Ndasaba kumva inama zikurikira:
- Itegereze kuringaniza hagati yumudamu wabonetse byoroshye hamwe nigihome kidasanzwe. Ntamuntu cyangwa undi nibyiza, byiza cyane hagati ya zahabu.
- Suzuma ibyiyumvo bya MCH, ukurikije ibikorwa bye, ntabwo ari amagambo. Nibyo, gushima hamwe nijambo ryiza birashimishije kuri buri wese. Ariko utiriwe wemeza ibintu, indahiro y'urukundo n'ubudahemuka bizakomeza kuba amagambo gusa. Ntukishuke!
- Nkuko mubizi, imisemburo idasanzwe ya euphoria itangira kubyara hashingiwe kumubiri. Noneho isi igaragara mumucyo wijimye, kandi cavalier isa nibyiza, idafite inenge. Ntabwo ari ngombwa kujya kumarangamutima no gufata muriki gihe ibisubizo bivuga. Tegereza kugeza igihe cyambere cya Euphoria gituje gato mugihe ushobora kubona umwanya nyawo wibintu.
Nibyo, ntabwo ari psychologue imwe, nubwo yaba inararibonye cyane, ntabwo izashobora kuvuga neza uburyo urukundo ruzatera imbere mugihe cyawe cyihariye. Ibyiyumvo - igitekerezo cyumuntu ku giti cye. Hariho abashakanye benshi bahisemo gukundana ukwezi kandi ntibabicuza mugihe! Cyangwa wafashe urukundo ku itariki ya mbere, ariko ntibyabujije kurema umubano wishimye, uhuza.
Kubwibyo, ntibishoboka kuba ibibyimba, ubwihanga gusa kubigisha inama za psychologue. Nubwo bimeze bityo, ubuzima bwawe burihariye, kandi ntamuntu numwe ushobora kuvuga neza neza uko bizagenda, kimwe ninkuru y'urukundo rwawe.
Kandi mu gusoza, reba videwo, gutanga ibisubizo by'ikibazo: "Kuki dukundana" abo "?"