Twese dufite ibintu bitandukanye bya sisitemu yo gutanga imitsi. Umuntu wese afite ibyiza nibibi. Icyitegererezo kizwi cyane cy'Uburusiya I.i. Pavlov, akomeza imirimo y'iyibumi, yavuze ku bwoko 4 bwa kamere: ubudahebuje butaringaniye (choleric), gushyira mu gaciro (sanguine), inzene zikomeye (melanmant).
Muri ibi bikoresho tuzavuga kubyerekeye umuntu wa inert - ni iki muri kamere?
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Inertia - Iki gitekerezo cyerekana iki? Munsi yabyo byumvikana nkumutungo wa sisitemu yimitsi yumuntu buhoro buhoro kugirango ushuke mubibera, gukurura kumurimo kandi ubireke buhoro. Nkingingo, inertia yuzuza ibindi biranga, nka:
- Kudatabira - ni, imyumvire idatitaye kandi ubwayo, nabandi;
- Gutezimbere buhoro - Nibyo, iyi mico ntabwo buri gihe.
Niba dusuzumye ubwoko bwimiterere, noneho flegmatique ifatwa nkintambwe. Indorune ni nziza cyangwa mbi? Hano, nkuko babivuga, ni uruhe ruhande rwo kureba. Iyi leta ifite ibyiza byayo, nibibi.
Inyungu ni izi zikurikira:
- Umuntu wa inert yerekana kurwanya imihangayiko igaragara, ibyo bigamije ishyari rya choleric.
- Nzi gukoresha imbaraga zawe nubwenge, nta myanda yataye.
- Niba wibanze kurubanza rumwe, biramwishura byose, bigufasha kugera kubisubizo bitangaje. Ariko, guha umukozi icyarimwe mugihe gito, menya neza kubiburira, kuko akeneye kumukwirakwiza neza imbaraga zayo.
Ariko ntabwo ikora nta nenge:
- Umuntu unort ni nde? Uyu ni umuntu udashoboka gutegereza gahunda muri kimwe mubikorwa byubuzima. Abantu b'iyi myitwarire bahitamo kwitwara neza, bigenda rero, "bagenda bazira", ntibashaka kugira icyo bahindura, kandi bagashaka guhindura inshingano kubitugu byabandi.
- Barinze uburyo butandukanye ndetse no mu makosa mato, niko batinze ibikorwa byabo.
Icyitonderwa! Hariho itandukaniro rinini riri hagati yo kwiheba nuburyo nkana umuriro wa sisitemu yintertusi nku mbogamizi. Mugihe kwiheba ni imvururu zo mumutwe, imyitwarire ita inert irashobora kuba ihame kumuntu.
Ibitera
Kuki abantu bamwe bagaragaza indorerezi? Nubuziranenge bwinzirakarengane, cyangwa bwarabonye mubuzima bukuze? Twabibutsa hano ko hari ibyiciro bibiri byabantu:
- Itsinda rya mbere ni flegmatike ku miterere itavogerwa kuva akivuka, kandi iyi ni itandukanye kuri physiologique kuri bo.
- Icyiciro cya kabiri ni abantu, icyateye imyitwarire inert yubutwari no kudafata icyemezo. Ntabwo bahanganye gusa nintego zashyizwe imbere yabo, nubwo nta mpamvu zifatika zibiteganya.
Biragaragara ko inoti zifite akamaro kamwe na mibereho.
Nukuri muri rusange wagombaga guhura nicyiciro cya mbere cyabenegihugu. Batinda cyane kuburyo bashoboye kumenyekanisha muburyo bwo kwiheba, nkubwogero bwogosha mu cyi. Yoo, ntabwo aribyo bibi, ahubwo bafite ibintu nkibi.
Kuva muri kamere, bafite ubuzima bwiza, kubwibyo ntabwo byerekana ko yiyongera kwisi. Mu maso yabo, urumuri ntirwigera rwaka, kandi imbere nta nshingano, intego n'ibyifuzo. Ariko ibyo byose, ntabwo biri mubibazo byo kwiheba. Kandi isi yabo irabahaza.
Ahari ruzerekana ikinyabupfura gito, ariko ndashaka gukora ikigereranyo n'umuryango umwe wo muri Afurika w'abantu batabona ibiryo, kandi umenyereye kurya impano z'inyanja, bajugunywa ku nkombe y'inyanja, bajugunywa ku nkombe. Nibyo, bakusanya kandi imbuto z'ibimera hafi. Kandi igice kinini cyubuzima bwabo kiri mubitotsi.
Ariko hariho iyo miterere ishakisha iterwa no kwiga nabi mumuryango. Kurugero, umwana yerekanye amatsiko, ariko ibibazo bye byiteka byabonye byinshi. Bagerageza guhagarika ibyo bigerageza ku majambo "gusubira inyuma", "guceceka", "ni bangahe ushobora kuganira" n'ibisa.
Kubera ubu burere, umwana yabaye inert, yatangiye kwerekana kutitaye ku isi. Benshi mubahagarariye hasi bafite intege nke zifite imico nkiyi ijya kukazi, ntabwo ari ukubera ko barota kwimenyekanisha cyangwa amafaranga, ariko gusa ntabwo nicara murugo.
Uburyo bwo guhangana na inertia
Hano na none ni ngombwa kugabanya ibyifuzo kubantu bavukanye hamwe nabafite ubunebwe gusa kandi badakora.
Niki Gukora abatari passive, kandi abanebwe gusa?
- Mubisanzwe kudafata icyemezo biterwa no kwihesha agaciro. Noneho biragaragara ko kugirango ukureho iyi kigo, kwiyongera guhoraho kwihesha agaciro bizakenerwa. Vuga umuntu nkuwo ko byose bizasohoka neza. Muburyo bwose ishimwe no kubyo yagezeho bike.
- Niba kandi kunegura bisabwa, noneho ubigaragaze kuburyo umuntu wihariye ashobora kureba ibintu ahandi, gufata imyanzuro yizerwa. Birabujijwe cyane gukandamizwa, kuko ukuntu umuntu nk'uwo azabona ko atatongana, ntazwi.
Ibyifuzo bya "Kureremba Hasi"
Niba ukomoka muri kamere, fata ubwoko bwa inent, ntabwo bizakumira kumva izindi nama:
- Hitamo akazi muburyo muriyo ushobora kumva umwuga nyawo. Iyo abandi bantu bazohora bashaka ubufasha, uzumva ufite icyizere muriwe kandi urashobora kwihesha agaciro.
- Mubuzima, nta guhumekwa na gato? Ntabwo rwose ikintu gishobora kugushimisha, kumurika byibuze amarangamutima amwe? Noneho birasabwa kubona umuntu gutwika igitekerezo runaka, kandi yifatanya nawe mubikorwa bye. Kandi ntukifurwe n'ishyaka rimwe nka we, ariko urashobora kubona ubumenyi bw'agaciro kuri we. Kurugero, wige uburyo bwo kubaka gahunda no gushyira mubikorwa nyuma, kimwe no kwishimira muriki gikorwa.
- Rimwe na rimwe, ubuzima bukemura buri wese muri twe. Bisaba gukora imbaraga zimwe, jya ahantu runaka, va muri "sink" yabo. Nta mpamvu yo guharanira "guhisha umutwe mu mucanga." Gutangira, gerageza gusuzuma neza ibipimo biva kuri zeru kugeza ku amanota icumi, uko bizaguha ikibazo. Ariko icyarimwe ntiwibagirwe kwishimira kubimenya. Abantu benshi ba inert bakunda gukabya nkana ibibazo, umunezero muto wo gutsinda.
- Injira imvugo mumvugo yawe ufite ibara ryiza cyane: "Nibyiza", "bikomeye", "ndabikunda cyane." Abaterankunga ba psychologue bavuga ko ibitekerezo n'amagambo yacu birema ubuzima bwacu bwose. Kubwibyo, ubanza, uzatangira gusa kuvuga amagambo meza, hanyuma ukabona ko ubuzima hafi bwahindutse cyane, bwihuta cyane.
Mu gusoza
Urashobora kwegera umwanzuro wumvikana winsanganyamatsiko. Biragaragara ko inoti ntabwo buri gihe ari indwara muri psychologiya, kandi akenshi nimwe muburyo bumwe bwihariye bwa sisitemu yimbuto. Twese dutandukanye mumiterere yawe, ariko ntidushobora guhindura iki kimenyetso.
Birumvikana, muriki gihe ntabwo ari ubunebwe. Niba urwaye passivity yawe, erekana kutitabira kandi ntushake gukora ibishoboka byose, ugomba kwiga uburyo bwo kwikorera wenyine, hejuru yububabare bwawe nubwoba, bakureho umwenda.
Ndashaka kandi kumenya ko inkunga y'amarangamutima kubandi rwose ari ngombwa cyane. Kubwibyo, niba ufite umuntu nkuyu mumakipe cyangwa mumuryango, ntuharanira kubikomera, gerageza byibuze rimwe na rimwe kugirango ushishikarize, kuvuga amagambo ashyushye.
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