Mumaze imyaka itatu mbayeho mubucuti bwiza, hariho umukobwa muto. Abakobwa benshi b'abakobwa, cyane cyane bafite irungu, ishyari umuryango wanjye wagiranye urugwiro, ukomeye. Ariko rero ntabwo buri gihe! Nahamye irungu nyuma yimyaka 30, igihe inshuti ze zose mwishuri na Intara zose zashyingiranywe kera, kandi umuntu yashoboye no gutandukana. Sinkizera ko nagize amahirwe.
Benshi bambwiye ko nasabye cyane ko ntanegura abasore. Nagerageje guhinduka, ariko ntakintu na kimwe cyagenze. Isengesho ryanjye ryamfashije: Nabaye buri gitondo nsenga inkumi, Matron wo muri Moscou, yasabye abera bafashe mu gushaka igice cya kabiri. Kandi ingabo zisumba izindi zasize amasengesho yanjye idasubijwe! Nyuma y'amezi abiri, nahuye numusore wabaye umugabo wanjye. Kandi ikintu kidasanzwe ntari nkeneye kugarura ubwanjye: umugabo wanjye ni umuntu mwiza, wuje urukundo, witaho, ushobora gusangira ubunararibonye. Kuri twe, ubuzima buhuriweho ni ngombwa: ibikoresho ndetse no mu mwuka.
Niki nakoze, ni gute icyifuzo cyanjye cyakunzwe cyane? Ibi ndashaka gusangira nawe, kuko ushobora gusenga ukundi. Urashobora gusubiramo gusa inyandiko yamasengesho, kandi urashobora gushira ubugingo. Urashobora gusenga Imana mubyiringiro byinyungu zawe, kandi urashobora kwishingikiriza kubushake bwayo kandi ukabyizera.
Gutangira, ndashaka kuvuga ko ikibazo cyo kwigunga muri iyisi ya none ari ngombwa cyane, nize kuburambe bwanjye. Abantu barimo kuba amacakubiri kandi ari umucanshuro. Abantu benshi batekereza gusa ku nyungu zabo gusa, kubyerekeye ukuri kwukuri, Imana yubukwe nubufatanye bwibuka. Kubwibyo, abagabo n'abagore benshi bafite iruhande basanga mugenzi wabo ... ku ruhande rumwe, barashobora kumvikana. Ariko kurundi ruhande, kwiheba nicyaha. Nubwo igishanga kimeze gute, ntagomba kumwita kuri we! Ni ngombwa cyane kwizera mugufasha imbaraga nyinshi no kubisengera buri munsi.
Kuki ifashisha ubufasha buva mu bwigunge?
Nubwo waba muremure, ntugomba kwiheba, gusenga buri munsi kuva irungu bizagufasha gufasha. Imana yumva amasengesho yacu yose kandi byanze bikunze ifasha abantu bose bamubajije imbabazi. Ni ngombwa kutababara no kugira kwizera gukomeye, komeza usenge buri munsi. Nanjye ntabwo buri gihe mfite imbaraga no kumutima gusenga. Rimwe na rimwe, ibitekerezo byaje: Nkeneye kubikora? Nukuri Isengesho rishobora gufasha? Kandi nari nzi neza: amasengesho arakomeye. Ibi byanditswe kuri ibi. Abera benshi na ba se b'itorero: Mubyukuri amasengesho rimwe na rimwe akubita ibitangaza, ndetse no mubihe bigoye cyane (urugero, uburwayi bukomeye). Iyo umuntu asenze, yegera Imana, bivuze ko Imana yumva koroheye.Uwiteka n'abatagatifu bazagufasha guhura numuntu wiyubashye, niba koko urota mubumwe bwumwuka nubufasha nyabwo. Amasengesho y'inkumi, Matron wa Moscou, Nikolai, fasha iki kibazo mugukemura iki kibazo. Ntiwibagirwe abakunzi bera bo mu muryango no gushyingirwa - abera Petero na Fevronia.
Data yansabye ko mu masengesho ari ngombwa kutabaza Imana cyangwa abera ku bufasha, ariko no kumenya ibyaha byawe. Imana ntiyandenze gusa. Kuki ibi byabaye? Natekereje nti: Yibutse ibyaha byanjye, yihuta. Natekereje ko nakoze nabi mubuzima bwanjye. Yasesenguye umubano wa kera, kuko ari ngombwa cyane ko nta burakari busigaye kubafatanyabikorwa babanjirije, ahubwo ushimire gusa.
Kubisabwa byinshi byabasomyi, twateguye porogaramu "Kalendari ya orotodogisi" kuri terefone. Buri gitondo uzakira amakuru kubyerekeye umunsi uriho: iminsi mikuru, inyandiko, iminsi yo kwibuka, amasengesho, imigani.
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Namenye kandi mu gihe mu gihe cyo gusenga ari ngombwa gushimira Imana: Namushimiye isomo ryo kwigunga, aho numvise agaciro k'ubuzima bw'umuryango, kandi namwe wasobanukiwe n'agaciro k'umuryango, kandi namwe waramushimiye cyane ubufasha mu kurema umuryango mukurema umuryango. Numvaga ko kwihana no gushimira byahinduye ubugingo bwanjye, byanyoroheye kubaho, habaho kwizera kurushaho, ibyiringiro ku byiza. Isengesho rero rihindura umuntu buhoro buhoro.
Atron yera azashyigikira igice cya kabiri mugihe cyo gushakisha
Kugirango ubone umugabo (cyangwa umugore), urashobora kuvugana na Matron Yera. Kurugero, nasenze nsaba amagambo yanjye: Nabwiye ko numvaga narose. Nasobanuye abera, mbega ukuntu mbaho mu buryo buhoraho. Urashobora gusangira muri make ibibazo byacu - birashoboka ko utabonetse umuntu ukwiye cyangwa ukaba utinya kuvugana nabadahuje igitsina, ubwoba cyangwa guteshuka cyangwa guteshuka. Bwira Matron Satron kubyerekeye!
Urashobora kubwira Matron Yera, ni bangahe wifuza kurongora (cyangwa gushaka). Birumvikana ko amasengesho agomba kuremwa gusa mugihe wafashe icyemezo cyo gushaka ikiganiro cyawe gihoraho cyubuzima, kuko imyidagaduro cyangwa kurambirwa gushaka ubufasha muri Matroni.
Uburyo bw'umuguzi nabwo ntabwo burahabwa - niba ushaka kubona umugabo ugufasha guhangana n'ibibazo, komeza ubaho neza, nubwo ari byiza gutekereza mbere yo gutanga amasengesho.
Isengesho ryawe rishobora kumvikana nkibi: "Nshuti Maman, mumfashe (izina izina ryawe) ukureho irungu. Nizera, Matrona yera ushobora kuza gutabara. Ndashaka ishyingiranwa ntabwo ari imyidagaduro, ariko urukundo nyarwo nubufasha nyabwo. Ndagusabye, umfashe kumenyana numuntu mwiza, ukwiye kandi utere umuryango ukomeye. "
Senga matron buri munsi, wibande ku gushyikirana n'inyenyeri yera, kandi ntazagutererana mu kaga.
Nikolai WonderCorker izaza gutabara
Nikolai Wowerwork yari azwiho urukundo rwihariye kubantu boroheje, abikuye ku mutima, yamye afasha muri byose. Nkumuntu wera wafunguye umutima we urukundo rwImana, buri gihe yishimiye gushaka gushaka urukundo. Nicholas Uwera irashobora gusengera abagabo n'abagore, ntaho asiga umuntu atabitayeho.
Urashobora gusenga Nicholas Wonderchwork mu magambo yawe, ariko urashobora gusohora icyumba cyose cyo gusenga. Nyuma yo gusoma amasengesho, bwira icyera, urashaka iki, kuki ubabaye kandi urota. Noneho, abantu bashakisha urukundo nyarwo, bemera ko mu rukundo, umunezero no guhumekwa, ibisobanuro byubuzima bwacu, umutagatifu nicholas gifasha cyane cyane.
Peter na Fevroni bazashyigikira mugihe barema umuryango
Abera Petero na Fevronia burigihe bumva gusenga. Ni abaterankunga b'abashakanye, barazwi cyane ukuntu bababaye kandi bakababaye kandi babaho wenyine mu muntu udafite umuryango, bityo baragerageza cyane gufasha abakwiriye rwose kwishima mu muryango.
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Menyesha amagambo yera, bivuye kumutima, basangira nabo akababaro kawe. Sobanura ko witeguye kurema umuryango, kuba umugabo ufite inshingano, wizerwa kandi wuje urukundo (kubagabo) cyangwa gutuza, gusobanukirwa bishyigikira umugore we (kubagore). Ikintu cyingenzi ni kwizera kutaryarya. Kwizera, gira ibitekerezo byera, kandi amasengesho yawe azumvikana.