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Umhlobo kadadewethu akazange asebenze ebomini - ezinye iintsilelo eziqhubekayo kunye nokudana. Kodwa xa waqalisa ukusebenza ngokufakwa kwabo kwi-subcotions, ubomi bakhe baqala ukutshintsha. Namhlanje ndiza kukuxelela indlela owenza ngayo ufakelo olungalunganga, indlela yokutshintsha ngayo ngokuchanekileyo nangokutshintsha ngokupheleleyo ubomi bakho.
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Ukufakelwa okungalunganga kuye wonke umntu. Le yiseti yenkolelo yokuba ixhoba lobomi bonke alwenzi ukuba likwazi ukukhulisa nokufuna impilo-ntle yobomi.
Ezi ziisiphene zengqondo zengqondo ezilawula iingcinga nezenzo zethu. Umzekelo, i-cliché "Imali ephanzisiweyo abantu" ziseke ibhlokhi yengqondo, ngenxa yokuba imali ayinakuphila ebomini umntu. Baphanga abantu, kuthetha ingozi.
Ukufakwa okungalunganga kuvela:
- ngenxa yokoyika okungalunganga kokusilela;
- iingcinga ezityhafileyo;
- ithoni yamandla asezantsi.
Yintoni umthombo wokwenziwa kwe-clichés enjalo? Uninzi lwazo lwenziweyo phantsi kwempembelelo yendalo esingqongileyo, usapho, izithethe. Ngokusisiseko, umntu kunye neenkolelo zakhe yinto yokusingqongileyo. Ngelixa engayithathi kakuhle imfundo yakhe. Qwalasela imizekelo yokufakelwa okungafanelekanga kwi-subconsion.
Oko sikuvayo kubazali:
- Monjndo;
- Izandla zakho ziyijikajika;
- Ihlala iyonakalisa yonke into;
- Ezinye iingxelo ezifanayo.
Abazali abazi nokuba bawonakalisa umntwana wabo emntwaneni wabo kwaye balayishe ingqondo yakhe ngenkqubo engalunganga enamandla. Omnye umakhulu ohambahambayo wahamba waza wabangela ukuba umzukulwana sele eli-18, kwaye akukho mntu wayililayo.
Yaphela into yokuba intombazana entle ayitshatanga kwaye yahlala yedwa. Ndiyabulela kumakhulu. Ngaba unqwenelela umakhulu? Hayi. Kodwa isihogo sigcwele ngeenjongo ezintle, ke intombazana ayikwazanga ukulungela ubomi bakhe.
Baza kukhuthaza ntoni uluntu kuthi:
- Amakhwenkwe akalibi;
- Bonke abantu basetyhini bafuna imali kuphela;
- Onke amadoda ngabasetyhini kwaye abayi kuphoswa yingozi enye;
- Ngaphandle kweqhina kunye nokunyoba, akukho nto yokufezekisa nantoni na kobu bomi;
- Kunye nezinye ezifanayo.
Phantsi kwempembelelo yolu kufakekelo, umbono ongumntu wonyulwa, kwaye uqalisa ukulinganisa izenzo zakhe nge-clichés ezinjalo. Abafazi bajonga amadoda, njengakwizidlo ezinokubakho, amadoda abona kubafazi abanoololiwe. Kwaye oku kungcono.
Kubi, amanye amadoda akholelwa ukuba nawuphi na umfazi anokuthenga nje:
Abantu abaninzi bakholelwa kwikamva, ekungaguqukini kwabo baphunyelweyo kunye nokungaguqukiyo. Bakholelwa eLitye. Olu fakelo oluyingozi oluyingozi oluphazamisa umntu okhuthaza ukulwela ngekamva elihle kakhulu.
KwanoYesu wafundisa "ukunkqonkqoza, kwaye uya kugxotha." Kodwa abantu abaninzi balula kakhulu ukuba babhukuda benyuka benyuka benyuka besenza izenzo zabo kumandla angabonakaliyo okanye angcolileyo.
Ulutsha, ukuva malunga nonxibelelwano kunye nokunyoba, ungazami ukufuna okuthile. Kutheni udlani unamandla, ukuba yonke into yoyika?
Into esiyifundiswa ngamazwi kunye neMizekeliso:
- Ngubani na ohleka kakhulu, uya kumemelela,
- Ngemali ububi;
- Ilungile ishumi ezandleni;
- Kunye nezinye ezifanayo.
Ukufihla abantu ubulumko, umntu woyika ukuhleka ngokunyaniseka kwaye wonwabe ebomini: Kukhuselekile ukuhamba ngobuso obunzulu. Uninzi lokukhala-yimpikiswano entle yokutshabalalisa uncumo olumnandi emlonyeni.
Oko sikufundisa amava embali yezizukulwane ezininzi zabantu:
- Indoda mayizise eMammoth umqolomba, kwaye umfazi ubukele umlilo kugxilwe;
- Bonke oosomashishini ababuqhophololo, kunye nabasebenzi abalula abalula - abantu abathembekileyo nabangenamkhosi;
- Umntwana kufuneka anyuse ibhanti ukuze abe yindoda.
Kumashumi eminyaka akutshanje, ukufakwa kweevili ezininzi zoyisile, kodwa zinike izikhundla zabo ngokuthandabuza kakhulu kunye nokuxhathisa. Akunakuchazwa ukuba zonke izimo zengqondo ezingalunganga zibubuxoki kwaye azilunganga.
Banenqanaba leNyaniso, kungenjalo abangenakulunga kuluntu. Kodwa lixesha lokuhlaziya izinto eziza kuqala: kwiyadi yenkulungwane yama-21. Ngaphambili, ookhokho bethu bafudukela kumahashe kunye needonki- ngoku sihambahamba kwaye sibhabha ngeenqwelomoya. Kuninzi okutshintshileyo ebomini bethu, kodwa ngenxa yesizathu esithile ukuba imozulu ihleli injalo.
Indlela yokucinga
Iingcali zengqondo zichaza iintlobo ezimbini zokucinga:- ilungisiwe;
- Bhetyebhetye.
Abantu abanohlobo oluhleweyo lokucinga - abalindi. Bakholelwa kwikamva, iliwa, "isohlwayo sikaThixo." Baqinisekile ukuba akukho nto ixhomekeke kubo, ngoko ke kufuneka ukuqubha ezantsi kwaye uthatha izipho kunye neepunks "ukusuka kwikamva elimiselweyo.
Abantu abanohlobo oluguqukayo lwenkqubo yokucinga bayazi ukuba yonke into kobu bomi ixhomekeke kubo. Bayazi ukuba "usana olunguThixo, ewe, ayisiyo ingcambu." Aba bantu azange baqondeke ngokuchasene nokusilela kobomi, kuba baya kuhlala belungisa iimpazamo kwaye batshintshe iimeko.
Bazisebenzela kwaye baphumelele iinjongo zabo ngempumelelo. Kubomi bakhe, abantu abacinga ngokuthe ngqo abakhokelwa zizimo zengqondo ezimbi.
Imizekelo yokufakelwa okungalunganga
Qwalasela imizekelo yendlela ufakelo olubi lokuthintela impumelelo yempumelelo kwaye ufumane umvuzo ofanelekileyo, ukumisela ubomi bakho kwaye ube ngumntu owonwabileyo.
- Umsebenzi kufuneka uhlale kude kube sekupheleni!
Uloyiko lokuphulukana nomsebenzi, ukukhulula iblue yezandla kwaye ungayibambeli i-caravel, eyoyikisa abantu. Babambe imivuzo yepeni ukuze bangahlali nanto. Uloyiko lilawula ukuqonda kunye nokufakelwa okungalunganga. Abanye abaqeshi baxhaphaza abasebenzi abasebenzi, phantsi koloyiko lokugxothwa simahla ekuphuculeni kwakhona.
Abanye abantu emva kweminyaka engamashumi amane baqinisekile ukuba utshintsho lomsebenzi kunye nomsebenzi lulutsha oluninzi. Ihlala icocekile kuphela kumhlala-phantsi kumsebenzi ongafunekiyo, ukuze ungahlali nayo nantoni na. Aba bantu bayoyika ukuvula ishishini lakho, kuba imali ingonakalisa abantu, "kwaye usomashishini onyanisekileyo wenzeki kuluvo lwabo.
- Nokuba imeko ibi kangakanani
Abantu abaninzi boyika utshintsho, kuba banokwenza ubomi obuthile endaweni yokuphucula. Kwingqondo kunye ne-subconstance, ufakelo lusekwe ngokuqinileyo:
- ifuneka apho wazalwa khona;
- kufuneka usebenze kwi-Oct;
- Emva kwamashumi amathathu, lixesha.
Ke kuyavela ukuba loo mntu uxhwilwe kwindawo enye kwaye ayisonjululwanga ukwenza nokuba inyathelo okanye inyathelo. Ewe, kwaye kangangeminyaka engama-30 idluliselwe - kulungile, lini na esinokuyithetha okanye sitshintsha? Ewe, kwaye kufuneka usebenze kwisodwa, yayingeyonto endasifundwe kangangeminyaka emi-5 eyunivesithi.
- Onke amadoda afuna enye
Izimo zengqondo ezimbi ezihambelana nezesondo ezingafaniyo nokwakha ubudlelwane obunempilo. Ngesizathu esithile, kuluntu lwethu kukho inkolelo yokuba onke amadoda afuna kuphela ngesondo kuphela, kwaye abafazi bayimali kuphela.
Xa umntu ejonge omnye umntu nge-prism ye-clichés enjalo, ubudlelwane obunyanisekileyo bokwakha kunzima kakhulu: ukrokrelwa.
Abafazi abathathe isigqibo sokuqhawula umtshato nendoda enxilayo, kuba abamelwane baya kujonga ukuzala. Kwaye ngokubanzi: Nokuba zizinto ezimbi, kodwa ezandleni zakho, izandla zabantu zihlala zingena endlwini. Isiqingatha sesibini siyingenelo kwinto yokuba kunokwenzeka ukuba itshintshe.
- Ukuhlawula kwakhona ukuze wonwabe
Oku kuqiniseka kuphela phakathi kubemi belizwe lethu elihle. Luvelaphi olu fakelo, akukho mntu unokuthetha. Kodwa kholwa. Bakholelwa ukuba ubomi obonwabisayo buthintelana.
Nokuba yintlekele, okanye uSathana, nokuba nguye ngokwakhe. Ke ngoko, abantu boyika ukonwaba, bonwabele ubomi ngaphandle kokujonga ngasemva. Ukuba amantombazana akonwabanga lahleka, ixhegokazi lakudala lavela kwenye indawo, lasoyikisa ngomnwe layo: "Ukugquma eBeligami." Ke ngoko, akunakwenzeka ukuba wonwabe, kuyingozi.
Iindlela zokulwa ufakelo oluyingozi
Ungayisoyisa ububi? Ungayisusa njani ufakelo olungalunganga kwi-subconsion? Ngaphandle kwezikhundla ezomeleleyo ezithathe i-cliché engacacanga kwi-subconating yethu, ziyapheliswa.Isicwangciso sokwenza:
- chonga ufakelo oluyingozi;
- Mbone ukuba ungasebenzi kwakhe;
- Yenza entsha endaweni yoko.
Ngalo lonke ixesha ingcinga engalunganga iqala ukonakalisa imood, yoyikisa okanye inyanzele ukuba uqhube ezantsi, kufuneka "uyibambe nge-piledam kwindawo yolwaphulo-mthetho." Akunakwenzeka ukuba unikezele kwiimvakalelo ezingalunganga ukuba le ngcinga isebenza kwinkxaso yabo. Ndixelele "ukumisa!" Kuyimfuneko ukujika kube kuhlalutyo kwaye uqalise ukuqaphela le ngcinga okanye imvakalelo kuwo onke amacala:
- YINTONI INDLELA YOKUXELISA UMSEBENZI?
- Apho uvelaphi lo mbono;
- Yintoni okanye ngubani ongumthombo wale mbono.
Kuya kufuneka uzibuze umbuzo-uza kukhokelela ntoni lo mbono ukuba uza kuziswa ziphi izibonelelo? Rhoqo, iinkolelo zethu ezimbi zondla ngoloyiko olungenangqondo: Siyayoyika into engeyiyo kwaye, kunokuba njalo, akuyi. Ngoloyiko olungafanelekanga, kufuneka ukhokele umzabalazo osebenzayo no-onnectiless, njengoko wawunxweme ulonwabo kunye novuyo.
Ukuba uvile isilingo esibi somntu, utyhola ungafezekanga kwanto kwaye kanye kwilifa kuphela elichithwayo, emva koko amava akhe anento yokwenza nawe? Wathintelwa ukuba bafezekise impumelelo yokufakelwa. Ukuba uyakholelwa kumava angalunganga abanye, ngenxa yoko kuya kukulwa.
Ukuze ukuzithemba ngokwamandla abo akushiya ngexesha, kufuneka uzisebenzele kwaye woyise utshaba lwangaphakathi.
Utshaba olufihliweyo luphawu lwethu olunzulu, olusenzakalisa kwezona njongo ziphambili-ukugcina ifom umntu okwangoku. Le nkqubo yale meko yonke kukugcina ifom yayo ingaguqukanga. Ke ngoko, i-subconating iqala ukuphikisa naluphi na utshintsho osebenzisa ukufakelwa okungafanelekanga.
Ukukhohlisa i-subconsion, kufuneka usebenzise iingxelo zakho akukho xesha elizayo (luyoyika i-subconsion), nangoku.
Umzekelo:
- Ndihlangabezana ngempumelelo nomsebenzi.
- Ngobudala, impilo yam iyaphucuka.
- Andifuni ukutshaya icuba.
- Ndine-slim inani, isinqe elicekeceke, njl.
Oko kukuthi, akufuneki ukuba usoyikise i-subconing yakho ukutshintsha into, kufuneka uyiqinise into enayo izinto eziyimfuneko kwaye akufuneki zenze nawuphi na umzamo wokuphumeza.
Ukhe wakwazi ukuqala ubomi obutsha ukusuka ngoMvulo ongaphumelelanga? Uninzi lwabantu ludlula kolu luvavanyo lokungaphumeleli kuphela ngenxa ye-boycott ye-subcown.
NgoMvulo, nokuba umntu uyagula, okanye kukho imicimbi engalindelekanga, okanye engayivanga iwotshi yealam - walala njengomntwana. Ke i-subconsion yokukhusela umzimba womntu ukusuka kwi-overvoltage kunye nenzame eyongezelelweyo: Kuthekani ukuba uyafa ngenxa yokutshintsha?
Ke sukuqalisa ubomi obutsha ukusuka ngoMvulo kwaye ungayiyoyiki i-subcoonning kunye nokutya okutsha kwefestile-ubunzima buya kunyuka kuphela. Funda nje ukucinga ngokuchanekileyo nangokuchanekileyo: okwangoku.
Isiphumo
Sifumanise ukuba ukufakelwa okungalunganga kukhuphathele umntu ukuba wonwabe kwaye aphile ubomi njengoko efuna. Umntu ophuphayo bokuphila echumayo, kwaye akabonakali - kungenjalo kwimali yolonwabo, imali engendawo. Indoda iphupha lokuba ngusomashishini ophumeleleyo, kwaye uxelelwe- zonke ezo shishini zicocekile kwisandla, ishishini alinakwenzeka ngokunyaniseka.
Intombazana iphupha lentsapho eyonwabileyo, ixelelwe, bonke abafazi ababhinqileyo. Intombazana iyamonwabisa, kwaye iyaxelelwa ukuba uyakhala. Ngaba lixesha lokucwangcisa i-boycott abaye bafunda kwaye ucofe uCheli wacela ukubaluleka kwabo?
Ngexesha lethu, isayensi esethu ye-Psychology kunye ne-phricial physists lixesha lokuba sele likholwe ngenxa yengcinga yabo, kwaye kungekho tyeni kunye nelitye. Kodwa ukwenzela ukudala ubomi ngamandla okucinga, kufuneka woyise utshaba lwangaphakathi - subconstane.
Olu lutshaba olunemiqathango, usongela thina "Okulungileyo" - ukuhlala wedwa, ukulingana kunye nohambo lwasekhohlo. Kodwa i-subconating inokukhohliswa - yiqinisekise ukuba urhulumente ofuna ukuba ukhona kwaye ungasebenzisi umgudu wokufezekisa. Kulungile, kuwe, nakuwe, ningaphantsi.