Yintoni oyifunayo ngomtshato ecaweni, ongayi kuvunyelwa ukutshata

KumaKristu e-Orthodox awayefuna ukuzibophelela nge-Uzami engenguye owasemthethweni, kodwa yicawa etshatileyo, lithuba lokuxhoma. Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba umtshato yisakramente engcwele, ebandakanya ubomi obusebenzisanayo amaqabane, ukomeleza kwiimvavanyo ezahlukeneyo "nasekwenzeni uvuyo", kude kuse entweni. Ukupheliswa kweCawa kwezinye iimeko kuvunyelwe, kodwa ayinqweneleki kakhulu.

Yintoni efunekayo kumtshato ecaweni, imigaqo yokulungiselela, ukhetho lwemihla ephumeleleyo kunye namanye amanqaku ahambelana nesakramente, cinga ngokweenkcukacha kwizinto zanamhlanje.

Onjani wofunyama uthetha i-rite yomtshato

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Kutshanje, kukho indlela yemeko emininzi yokungayigqibezela umanyano lwabo ngokupeyinta kwi-ofisi yerejista, kodwa nokwenza umtshato phambi koThixo. Phambi kokuba uthathe isigqibo malunga nenqanaba elibalulekileyo nelonoxanduva, kufuneka ucinge kakuhle. Kuya kufuneka ungene kwintsingiselo enzulu yale mthendeleko.

Umtshato - Le yingcungcuko yecawe, xa ukwenze amaqabane anikela isithembiso ukuba sinyaniseke omnye komnye, sifumane intsikelelo yeNkosi ngobomi bomtshato onwabileyo, usuku lokuzalwa nokukhulisa abantwana. Ukufudumala, umyeni wakhe nenkosikazi bathembisa ukuba abasayi kuphinda baqhubeke neenkanuthu, batshabalalisa uthando nomtshato.

Okubangela umdla kukuba, ababingeleli baqhele ukuqonda iintsapho ezingakholekanga xa abantu behlala kumtshato osemthethweni. Bakholelwa ukuba akukho sidingo sokukhawuleza kumtshato: Kungcono ukuba siphile kunye iminyaka eliqela, kungcono ukuba siqinisekise ukuba, kodwa sinokugqitywa kwisakramente.

Ukulungiselela ngokufanelekileyo imitshato

Ukuba wena neqabane lakho nigqiba kwelokuba utshatele, okokuqala, kuya kufuneka ukhethe ibandla ukuba libophelele le ntshukumo. Kufanelekile ukugxila kukhetho lobuqu: Umntu othile uza kukhetha umtshato ngeyona tempile inkulu neyona ihonjisiweyo, ngelixa abanye baya kuba baza ngokwaneleyo emaphandleni.

Ngezicelo zabafundi abaninzi, silungiselele isicelo "sekhalenda yeOrthodox" kwi-smartphone. Rhoqo kusasa uyakufumana ulwazi malunga nosuku lwangoku: Iiholide, iiposti, iintsuku zokukhumbula, imithandazo, imizekeliso, imizekeliso.

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Kubalulekile ukuba kwindawo apho kuya kwenzeka khona umsitho, waziva uzolile, ngokuhambelana, akazange afumane ixhala, uxinzelelo lwangaphakathi. Kwakhona, thetha kwangaphambili notata (okanye nooyihlo abaliqela) ukukhetha oyena mntu uza kunichukumisa kakhulu.

Umbingeleli omele ukholose, uzive ukhululekile kuluntu. Umsebenzi wakhe kukucacisa zonke izinto ezibalulekileyo zomthendeleko kwiintsana ezintsha, fundisa kwaye uxelele ukuba kwaye kufanele kwenziwe njani.

Abo batyelela rhoqo itempile kaThixo kuya kuba lula ukugqiba ngokukhetha kweendawo, nabefundisi: Bangatshata kuBawo, abavumayo. Kuya kufuneka enye ichithe ixesha elincinci.

Musa ukoyika ukubuza yonke inkxalabo yakho: Umbingeleli unokunceda ekuthatheni isigqibo ngomhla ophumelelayo, aya kwazisa zonke iinkcukacha zokufota kule tempile, kunjalo.

Ukuba esi sibini siza kutshata okokuqala (kwixesha elidlulileyo, umyeni wakhe kunye / okanye umfazi wakhe wayenamava omtshato kunye nelinye iqabane), emva koko ke ukulungiselela ukuqhuba kwakhona. Kuya kuba yimfuneko yokuguquka, kwaye mhlawumbi nokufuna imvume yeBishine-konke kuxhomekeke kwimeko ethile.

Imigaqo yomtshato kwiCawa yeOrthodox

Kukho izithintelo ezahlukeneyo zeKhomishini yoMtshato yeCawe. Abanye babo bangaguqukanga, ngaphandle kwavunyelwa ngamanye amaxesha.

Ke masifumanise ukuba ngubani iCawe eya kunyanzeliswa ukuba ivuye inkonzo yomtshato?

• izalamane eziya kwidolo lesine;
• Abantu abaye bakhulisa ubudala babantu abadala (nokuba iminyaka eli-18 ayizalisekanga kuphela kweyabantu abasanda kutshanje);
• Ukuba omnye wabathathi-nxaxheba kwi-Union (okanye bobabini) ayinakuphepheka;
• Ukuba enye (okanye zombini) amaqabane, lo mtshato uthathwa njengelize lesine kwinqaku (ayikho kuphela malunga necawe, kodwa malunga nemibutho yabasebenzi kunye nabahlali);
• Kwimeko yokuba umntu ovela kumaqabane okanye bobabini batshata ngokusemthethweni omnye umntu;
• Ukuba enye ye-Newlywall ayisiyo-christic (isebenza njengomntu ongakholelwa kubukho bukaThixo okanye ongu-Gergen);
• Akunakwenzeka ukutshata nabantu abadala ngaphezulu kweminyaka engama-60 (yabasetyhini) kunye neminyaka engama-70 (yabantu).

Inomdla! Kuyinyani, ngamanye amaxesha ababingeleli baya kuvuma, kodwa kuphela ngama-Katolika kunye namaProtestanti kuphela kwaye, ngokuxhomekeka ekubeni baya kusinika isithembiso ukuba banikele umntwana kulo mtshato kwisikhephe.

Ukukhetha umhla oyimpumelelo

Ukukhetha inombolo yomsitho womtshato, sebenzisa ikhalenda yecawa okanye unxibelelane notata wakho. Ngaphantsi sibadwe, zeziphi iintsuku ongatshatanga:

• Kwisibini, isine nomhla wesithandathu weveki;
• Ngexesha leeposti ezinkulu, abakhweli kunye neebhedi zeIsta, inyanga ezimbini, itrone neyomibhiyozo enkulu;
• ebusuku;
• iya kuvunyelwa kwaye ibhinqa eliye laqalisa imihla ebalulekileyo: Ngeli xesha icawe ayinakubakho

Inomdla! Ukuba uthatha ukubala, iinkolelo ezithandwayo, kuya kufuneka wenze umtshato ngoMeyi - ngenye indlela ubomi bam kuya kufuneka "baqalise" emtshatweni. Kwaye eyona iphumelele kakhulu ngamanye amaxesha ihlobo (ngakumbi ngo-Agasti ngenyanga).

Ungayilungiselela njani umtshato: Wenza ntoni ngosuku olungaphambili

Ngaphambi kokuba abambe isiko lecawe, bobabini abasandul 'ukutshata kuya kufuneka balandele ngqo isithuba, kunye nokuvuma kwaye kukhuphiswano.

Ngokukhawuleza -Ngathintela ukucocwa kungekuphela njengokwenyama, kodwa ngokomoya. Kuya kufuneka ube kwiintsuku ezintathu (uya kuchaza inani leentsuku ukusuka kwi-vestis yakho) ukushiya ukutya kwezilwanyana: inyama, iimveliso zobisi, icuba, kunye notywala obukhulu kunye necuba.

Ngaphandle kokuba kwenziwe apha ukuba umntu ovela kwisibini uneempawu ezinqabileyo zonyango kwizithintelo zokutya. Xoxa ngombingeleli, fumanisa ukuba kufanele kwenze njani.

Ukongeza, kwiintsuku ezi-3 ngaphambi kweRite, kuyimfuneko ukubambelela ekunyembelweni kwezesondo, musa ukuya kwiindawo zokuzonwabisa. Kufanelekile ukuba ususe ixesha elichaziweyo lophuhliso lokomoya kunye nophuhliso.

Uvumo -Kwenziwa ngaphambi komtshato. Ibaluleke kakhulu, izivuma, ukuya kumxelela uBawo ongcwele ngabo bonke abangengabahlali abazenzileyo, amazwi kunye neengcinga. Akukho sidingo soyike kwaye sineentloni, kuba umfundisi esifungo phambi koThixo ukuba athi cwaka ngento ayifundayo ukuvuma.

Inxaxheba -Iveliswe kusasa ngosuku lomtshato. I-Batyushka inika isibini esisele isiselo esincinci se wayini yecawa kwaye itye iqhekeza lesonka. Umthendeleko unokwenziwa kuphela emva kokuvuma izono. Injongo yomthendeleko kukufunyanwa kobabalo olukhethekileyo lukaThixo.

Ngomthendeleko (ukusuka 00:00 kusasa) ukutya, ukusela nokutshaya akuvumelekanga. Kwakhona, okwahlukileyo kunokwenzeka kwabo bantu banempilo obuthathaka banokuwela ekuhanjisweni kwendlala. Eyona nto iphambili kukuba abatya ukutya kwezilwanyana, abaxakekanga ngokutya okutyebileyo kunye nezidlo.

Zeziphi iimpawu eziya kufunwa emtshatweni

Phambi kwesakramente, umyeni wakhe nenkosikazi yakhe kuya kufuneka balungiselele:

• amakhonkco omtshato;
• URusnik-kunokuba mhlophe okanye pinki, uyathandabuza ubomi ebomini. Khetha itawuli enkulu ngokwaneleyo, kuba omabini amaqabane kufuneka alingane;
• Amakhandlela omtshato;
• I-handheffs ababambe amakhandlela kumsitho;
• Iwayini yecawa-i-cahot kwinani lebhotile enye;
• Imifanekiso yentombi noYesu Kristu;
• Isithsaba luphawu lokusikelela.

Ikhowudi yokunxiba echanekileyo

Kukwakufanele ukukhathalela kwangaphambili. Namhlanje, umboniso wale mihla uhlala ukhetha ukungabikho mhlophe kwaye kuvunyelwe ngokupheleleyo yicawa - kubaluleke kakhulu, ukuhlala kwimthunzi eqaqambileyo. Ayisamkelekanga ukuba ilingane nengubo eqaqambileyo okanye emnyama.

Ayifanelekanga ngokupheleleyo iya kuba ruly kakhulu, irhafisa ubume okanye impahla etyebileyo. Kungcono ukuba umtshato unxibe kwindawo evaliweyo, enesinxibo esezantsi ngezantsi kwamadolo ngentambo yendawo evaliweyo kunye namagxa. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba isinxibo sakho sinemikhono emifutshane, ungasebenzisa iigloves, i-lace okanye ijacket.

Le lomtshakazi akukho ndlela kufuneka ukwenza eqaqambileyo, eyenza ukwakhiwa, manicure. Ingakumbi ucinge into yokuqaba - kubhetele ukuba ukupeyinta kubo bonke (ubuninzi enemibala namafutha), kuba kumsitho kufuneka icons kiss. Ukususela imihombiso, intombazana nga wambathisa ngazo izandla zakhe kuphela iringi yomtshato.

Kubo bonke abo babelapho kwi abafazi emtshatweni kuya kufuneka ukuba inshorensi headscarf. Umtshakazi angenza kulo idalelwe ekapa. Kodwa ukuba isigqibo stop kwi Kwangaphambili, ngoku yijnge ukuze azigubungela curls. nezikhafu Head kufuneka ibe mhlophe, kuhle, njengoko le holide ngokwayo.

Umkhwenyana namanye amadoda kunye ikhowudi ilokhwe thile elula: banikwe igunya lokuqala engqongqo, impahla elula. Bright, iinkcukacha ukungxola awavumelekanga. Umzekelo, unako ukungena i yesinxibo oqhelekileyo emnyama okanye emnyama oluhlaza. Ukuba une tattoos emzimbeni okanye kukho ukugqojozwa - akawuvingca kangangokuba awubonakali kwabanye.

Yimalini emtshatweni?

Lo mbuzo ubalulekileyo ucelwa ngambini ezininzi umtshato ecaweni. Njengoko imithetho zamaKristu bathi, lomtshato (efanayo kwamanye ngomthendeleko) - le nkqubo ukhululekile. Noko ke, emva kwayo, kuba ngokwesiko kuyimfuneko ukuncama isixa esithile ukulungiselela uphuhliso etempileni.

ubukhulu yayo ayenziwanga kucacisiwe kwaye ngokokubona abaselula. ubukhulu Umnikelo lidla zohlukile engange 500 5,000. Liyinyaniso elokuba, ukuba kukho ubunzima emali, ungaqhagamshelana uyise kwaye kakhulu uya uyavuma ukuya nguwo.

Ukuba sithethe malunga icawa sikhulu kakhulu ethandwa, ezifana Moscow Church of Krestu uMsindisi okanye St. Petersburg Kazan Cathedral, ngoko ke akuyi kubakho malunga namawaka 10 engange Russian. Khankanya ubungakanani ngqo umnikelo endaweni.

amaxwebhu afunekayo

Ukwenza umtshato, kufuneka azise yokundwendwela ngummi weli lizwe, apho kukho isitampu ngomtshato okanye ukulungiselela isiqinisekiso nowokupheliswa esemthethweni Union. Wedding ebandleni sele uya kudinga kubo isiqinisekiso umtshato watshata ngaphambili.

Ukuba uza uyakutshata Orthodox, kodwa hayi eRashiya, kodwa omnye urhulumente lamaKristu, ngoko ke isimo salo maxwebhu aya noko nzima. Kuya kufuneka ukuba ufake:

• Isiqinisekiso ukuba babhaptizwa Church Orthodox;
• Isiqinisekiso ukususela ekufikeni yakho ukusonjululwa umbingeleli emtshatweni ibandla;
• isetifiketi sokuzala;
• yokundwendwela kwamanye amazwe.

Ngelo xesha, kuya kuba yimfuneko ukwenza uguqulelo onke amaxwebhu zibe IsiNgesi kwaye baqinisekise ukuba izivumelwano.

Xa uvunyelwe

Nangona imanyano phambi koThixo ithathwa njengowomeleleyo kwaye ithembeke kunomtshato oqhelekileyo, kodwa kwezinye iimeko inokuphazamiseka. Yintoni kanye kanye - funda:

• Umntu ovela kumaqabane afumene isifo esinganyangekiyo (iqhenqa, uGawulayo, syphilis);
• Omnye wamaqabane avule okanye waqala ukusebenzisa iziyobisi;
• Isibini esitshatileyo sifuna ukuthatha olunye inkolo (hayi ubuKristu);
• Umfazi owenze isisu ngaphandle kokufumana imvume kwiqabane;
• Umntu ovela kubini wanyamalala;
• Ngenxa yezenzo zeqabane elinye, kukho isoyikiso kwimpilo okanye ngobomi bomzuzwana kubo;
• Omnye wabatshati bagula ngokugula.

Okokugqibela, ndingathanda ukuthi ukuba umtshato phambi koThixo ayisiyo kuphela ilungiselelo elifanelekileyo, ezinye iimpawu zangaphandle, kodwa ngakumbi malunga ne-Internere, ngokomoya, malunga nomnqweno wokuba kunye nomntu omthandayo , ngaphandle kwazo iimeko ezingqongileyo.