Ubhaptizo lomntwana sisiganeko esibalulekileyo kubomi babazali bakhe. Umntwana akaqondi ukuba yintoni umthendeleko phezu kwakhe, kwaye abazali bamele ukuza kule rite noxanduva olupheleleyo. Ubhaptizela nini umntwana kwakhona emva kokuzalwa okanye ngeentsuku ezingama-40? Mhlawumbi kungcono ukulinda de kube unyaka? Uninzi lwabazali luphethwe ngulo mbuzo. Kwinqaku, ndiza kukuxelela malunga nezithethe zecawa ukukhupha onke amathandabuzo malunga nobhaptizo.
Kutheni ubhale umntwana?
Kwiicawa zeProtestanti, akuvunyelwa ukuba ubhaptize umntu ngaphandle kwemvume yayo ngokuzithandela, ngenxa yoko abantwana abaqhelekanga. Kodwa ngokwezithethe ze-Orthodox, kulisiko ukubhaptiza bonke abasandul 'ukusandula ukusanda kwakamsinya nje. Emva kobhaptizo, umntwana ufumana ingelosi yogada yogada kwaye akafikeleleki kwibhokhwe kaSathana. Ngaba asisiyo isizathu sokupeyinta i-crmd okokugqibela?
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Ootata bafundiswa ukuba kuphela emva kobhaptizo, umntwana ufumana igama lokomoya aze abe lilungu elipheleleyo lecawe. Uza kumoya ongcwele, abe linyathelo lokomoya kwaye akhusela kwaye axhaswe kwiCawa yeHlabathi. Ubhaptizo luyahlanjwa kude kutake, isono santlandlolo, siyicoca ebubini.
Ootata becawe bayalela abazali ukuba umntu akafanele akhethe inkolo. Ke ngoko, bonke abantwana kufuneka babhaptizwe kwangoko, bavusele abanokholo lobuOthodoki. Oluxanduva luwa emagxeni alukho kuphela ngabazali bemvelo, kodwa noThixo. Kwanangaphambi kokuzalwa komntwana, abazali bamele banakekele inkcubeko yokubhaptiza kwaye bakhetha uthixo ngaphambili. Emva kokuzalwa komntwana, umama akazukungabikho ngamandla okanye ixesha lokucwangcisa ubhaptizo kuyo yonke le mithetho.
Zeziphi ezinye iingenelo ezinika ubhaptizwe kwangoko? Kumntu obhaptiziweyo (ngawo nawuphi na ubudala), unokubeka amakhandlela ahle, ukuyalela imithandazo. Ukuba ngequbuliso kutsaleka umntwana uya kugula, unokuhlala u-oda impilo yempilo yomntwana ukuba yamkelekile ngokusemthethweni kwi-lono ebandleni.
Ngaphambili, amagqwirha amamnyama ayezingelwa ziintsana ezifileyo, ngenxa yokuba imiphefumlo yabo yaba yintlekele. Le miphefumlo ayinayo i-apepe ingelosi. Kuba kwakungekho nto inokwenzeka ukuba bathandaze, bangcwatywa ngabangezi.
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Umntwana oneminyaka yobudala
Isiko lokubhaptiza iintsuku ezingama-40 emva kokuzalwa zinxulunyaniswa nezizathu zomzimba: Ngeli xesha, umfazi uyeka ukuyeka ukuyeka igazi. Ngexesha lokuya esikhathini, akunakwenzeka ukuba undwendwele icawe kwaye uthathe inxaxheba kwiisakramente, ukuze ubhaptizo lwahlehliswa kangangeentsuku ezingama-40. Ungabhaptiza umntwana kwangoko emva kokuzalwa, kodwa umama omncinci akakulungelanga ukuba athathe inxaxheba kule rite yempilo.
Ngaphambili, isiko landiswa ukuba libhaptize iibhloko ezisibhozo ngosuku lwesibhozo emva kokuba beqiniswe yinxeba le-umbilical. Esi siko lingabanye abazali kwaye namhlanje. Umzekelo, umakhulu unokubhalwa ekubhaptizweni komntwana, ngaphandle koko, une-thixo.
Usuku lobhaptizo kufuneka luxutyushwe kunye nomyeni wakhe kwaye lukhethe ukungabi nambethe. Uninzi lukhetha umntwana oyiNgcwele kwaye lusuku lokukhubazeka kwakhe lomntwana. Kukwesiko ukunika uthixo, njengomxhasi ongcwele.
I-rite yobhaptizo inokubamba umakhulu okanye utata womntwana kwanamhlanje ngosuku lwesibini okanye lwesithathu emva kokuzalwa ukuba umntwana wazalwa ebuthathaka kakhulu. Ukwenza oku, kuya kufuneka ufunde umthandazo kwaye uyifefe umthambo wamanzi angcwele. Emva kokubuyisela umntwana, ibandla lombingeleli sele libhaptiziwe.
Ukuba umntwana wazalwa egula okanye wasindelwa kukulimala okuqhelekileyo, ubhaptizo lwenziwa kwangoko: lunxulunyaniswa nomngcipheko wempilo yakhe. Umntwana obhaptiziweyo unokuqhaphulwa kwiCawe, ukubonelela ngoncedo lokomoya. Ngokuthe ngcembe akunakwenzeka, nokuba abazali bakhe bavulekile.
Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba ubhaptize umntwana ukuba i-40 ngosuku emva kokuzalwa liwela kwisithuba okanye kwiholide yecawa? Isakramente yobhaptizo yenziwa ngalo naluphi na usuku, iposti okanye iholide ayisiyosithintelo esitratweni. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ababingeleli babandakanyeka ekuthinteleni i-timertium, emva koko ke ukuqunjelwa kwentloko kunokumhlangaza kwiintsuku ezingenabantu. Oku kungenxa yomthwalo omkhulu wooyihlo ocacileyo, kwaye ungavumi ngenxa yeholide yecawa.
Usuku lukaKapteni
Luluphi usuku lweveki olungcono lokubhaptiza umntwana? Icawe ayibelani ngeentsuku zokuhamba ngentloko nangalunganga. Isakramente sobhaptizo lwenziwa nangaliphi na ixesha, kuyimfuneko ukukhetha uthethathethwano phambi koBawo. Akukho holide zecawe, okanye izithuba, akukho nkolelo (i-Superstitions (i-leap, umzekelo) ayingomqobo ekubhaptizweni.Isakramente yobhaptizo inokuba ngumsitho wabucala kwaye idibanise. Ngokwesiqhelo, abantwana babhalwa kubhaptizo kwisiqingatha sokuqala seveki ukuqhuba isakramente ngokuphela kweveki. Kuxhomekeka ekubeni izicaka zeCawe ngokwazo, akukho nto ibhaliweyo malunga noku kwivangeli.
Ukuthatha inxaxheba kwisakramente
Ungalungiselela njani umnyhadala obaluleke kangaka njengokuthandana? Okokuqala, kufuneka ukhethe u-hlohli. Kuyimfuneko ukuba yayingumama notata. Kodwa nokuba kukho uthixo omnye, kukwavumeleka. Kufanele ukuba ukhunjulwe ukuba uMmeli woMoses uza kuhlala nabo de kube sekupheleni kobomi bomntwana, ukuze ungavumeli ukhetho lwabantu abangaqhelekanga. Imfuneko yokholo lwe-Orthodox. Ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, iCawe yeOrthodox ivumela ukuba abazali abakhokelwayo ngamalungu eCawe yamakholwa amadala.
Ubhaptiza njani umntwana? Oku kuya kumkhathalela lo mbingeleli. Abazali bomntwana kufuneka bafundele ubungqina ukholo ngokuvakalayo ukubonisa ubungqina beCawa yobuOthodoki. Lo mthandazo ufunda nolwalamano, ngoko ke ukuhlutha kwenzeke ngengozi kwimfesane yecawe.
ICawe iyonyusela ubukho babantu bezinye iicawa emthendelekweni wokubhaptizwa, ke kufuneka ufumanise kwangaphambili abahlobo bethu - nokuba ngabanye naliphi na intlangano yonqulo.
Iinwele ezigutyungelwe ngexesha lobhaptizo zigcina uthixo.
Akwamkelekanga ukuba yeza kwi-Rite yobhaptizo nentiyo entliziyweni, emva kokuzibekeka kwentsapho. Kuya kufuneka uqale kwakhona konke konke, kuphela emva koko ukuya kwindawo engcwele.
Emva kokuba i-christing, abazali bomntwana bagutyungelwe yitafile kwaye baphatha abahlobo. Ngolu suku, kulisiko ukunika umntwana izipho ezingalibalekiyo ukuze iholide ikhunjulwe ebomini.
Kufanele ukuba ukhunjulwe ukuba i-Rite yoBhaptizo ithatha ixesha elide: ingahlala ivela kwimizuzu engama-40 ukuya kwiyure nangaphezulu. Ke ngoko, kuya kufuneka ulungiselele kwangaphambili kwinkqubo yexesha elide.
Uxanduva lomnqamlezo
Ngokwezithethe ze-Orthodox, impumlo yoThixo akufuneki ivume ukuthatha inxaxheba emthini wokubhaptizwa komntwana ukuba babafundise. Ukwala ukwala kuthathwa njengesono esikhulu.
Indima yookutshelwa kotata nayo ingenziwa ngumbingeleli ngokwakhe. Kubalulekile ukuba ube nguThixo.
Abafundisi ntsapho mabancede umama wabo ukuba bakwazi ukujongana nemisebenzi yoomama. Inkathalo yesabele inxulunyaniswa nobunzima obuninzi abanokwahlulahlula abazali phakathi kwabo. Lo mthetho uyakholisa uThixo.
Ukongeza ekuncedeni umama wosana, iimpumlo zikaThixo kufuneka zithandazele imfaneleni yonke imihla kwi-gosson, ngakumbi ngaphambi kokulala. Bathandazela umntwana wabo ngokomoya kwiholide nangeCawa kwi-Liturgy.
Umnqamlezo unyanzelekile ukuba athathe inxaxheba kwinxalenye yokomoya yokwenziwa komntwana. Bamnika i-icons, umnqamlezo, uncwadi lokomoya. Xa umntwana efunda ukufundwa, unikwa ivangeli kwaye afundise ngokholo. Kwinkonzo yotata yotata ibandakanya ubudlelane bomntwana: Kuya kufuneka bamxelele ngomthendeleko woBudlelane kwaye angenise ebandleni ukuba abe nokuthatha izipho ezingcwele.
Ngaphambi kobhaptizo lomntwana, nolwazehla ngoorhulumente mabahlale kwimeko yomthandazo, banciphise kunxibelelwano, bakhusele ukuxabana kunye nonxibelelwano olusondeleyo nabalingane babo. Kuyacetyiswa ukuba ukushiya olu suku kukhawulezile: ukutya kuphela ukutya okuhlekisayo kuphela. Ngalo lonke ubhaptizo, kubalulekile ukuba uvume kwaye ngamathub 'athile.
Utitshala makamenzele umntwana lowo:
- Ubhaptizo lwe-diaper (hrydonma);
- shirty;
- I-chapecchik (intombazana kuphela).
U-Thixo uthenge umnqamlezo wesilivere kwaye uhlawula isiko lecawa. Umnqamlezo ungcono ukuthenga kwivenkile yecawa ukuze inikezelwe. Ukuba uthenge kwenye indawo, kufuneka ungcwalise kwangaphambili. Kufanele ukuba kubekho ukubethelela emnqamlezweni kunye nokubhaliweyo emnqamlezweni: Gcina kwaye ugcine.
Kwinqaku! I-diaper yobhaptizo (kryzhm) kunye nehempe emva kokuba i-christen ingacimi. Bagutyungelwe ngumntwana ukuba uyagula. Impahla yobhaptizo igcinwe, emva koko umama uyidlulisela ukuba agcine umntu omdala ophume unyana (okanye intombi).
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Ukugwetywa kukaMntwana oselula akuvumelekanga ukuba uye ecaweni ngamafungo, amaqhuqhuva, amakhonkco amanqatha kunye nokwenza izinto eziqaqambileyo: Icawe yindawo ye-shit, hayi i-shit.
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