Imithandazo evela kwi-Missress: indlela yokuwela umyeni okanye ndidubule isipelingi sothando

Kumfazi onothando, akukho nto imbi ngakumbi kunokungcatshwa kwendoda. Bajamelene nemeko enjalo, uninzi lwamantshontsho lwaphula ubudlelwane, kodwa amanye amanenekazi aqala ukulwela ulonwabo lwabo, kwaye nawaphi na amanyathelo alungele oku. Xa ukukholisa kunye ne-Ultimatomus ayincedi, ihlala ithemba kuphela kwithemba ngoncedo lwamandla aphezulu kunye nokuthanda kukaThixo. Ukuba umyeni wakhanyisela, ke ukuze onwabe kwaye abuyele entsatsheni kuphela oya kukunceda imithandazo kwinkosikazi. Kweli nqaku, ndiza kwabelana nawe ngemithandazo enamandla kakhulu eya kuthi incede ukulahla imbangi, kwaye iya kuxela ukuba ifundela ntoni kwaye njani.

Umthandazo okanye umlingo?

Indoda ingasinda kwinkosikazi yayo kwinkosikazi yayo, kokubini kwintando yakhe nangenxa yefuthe lesimo sengqondo. Ngayiphi na imeko, umfazi onothando onqwenela ukugcina usapho uya kufikelela nakwezinye iintshukumo ukuze umbuyisele entsatsheni. Ngamaxesha okuphelelwa lithemba, amanye amanenekazi akulungele ukubhekisa kumlingo, ngaphandle kokucinga ngemiphumo. Ngaphandle kwento yokuba isenzo esinjalo esinjalo sinokukunceda ukulahla inkosikazi kwaye sibuyise umyeni wakhe, akunyanzelekanga ukuba sikwenze.

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Nayiphi na impembelelo yomlingo ayibonisi ngokungafanelekanga kuphela kwinto ebhekiswe kuyo, kwaye kulowo wenzayo. Njengomthetho, oku kubonakaliswa ngolu hlobo lulandelayo:

• Ilahlekile;
• Izibonelelo ziya kuBomi-ulonwabo, i-HART, Ezemali, njl.;
• Iingxabano rhoqo kunye nokungaqondi kakuhle nabathandekayo;
• ukonakaliswa kwenqanaba lezempilo;
• ukuvela kwezifo ezinzulu;
• Iziyobisi ezithandekayo;
• ubukrakra.

Abafazi ababuyayo abayeni ngoncedo lomlingo, emva kwexesha elifutshane, bazisola ngesivumelwano. Phantsi kwesenzo somlingo, umntu utshintshela. Le ayiyi kuba yiyo loo nto inothando, enenkathalo nemanyange, uya kuba njengomntu oxakekileyo ofuna ukulandela into yakhe yeqabaka yakhe kuyo yonke indawo.

Ukuba isekho into yokuba indoda ixhonyiwe inkosikazi, kufuneka ufune uncedo kwiNkosi. Imithandazo enyanisekileyo kuphela iya kunceda ekufikeleleni kwengqondo nentliziyo yentanda, ukuba ihambile intando yakhe. Kwaye ukuba impazamo yesi sipeni sothando sembabelo, eyona inqabileyo iphakamileyo ezo upopu, kwaye indoda iya kubuyela kumfazi wayo.

Imithetho yoMthandazo wokunyukela

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Ukuthandaza kwinkosikazi, le mithetho ilandelayo mayilandelwe ngokufanelekileyo njengoko kunokwenzeka:

1. Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukwazi ngokuthe ngqo ukuba yingcwele kanjani ukufumana uncedo kwizinto zothando kunye nemicimbi yosapho. Ngamanye amaxesha abafazi bacela ukonwaba, babhekise ebusweni obunceda kwimicimbi yezempilo. Ngenxa yoko, badanile elukholweni kwaye baphendukela kumlingo.
2. Uninzi lwebango lokuba umthandazo kufuneka ubhengezwe ngokukodwa, kodwa enyanisweni ingahletywa okanye uthetha ngaye. UThixo uyava yonke into, kwaye akukho mahluko ngaye, indlela umntu atsalwa ngayo kuye. Ukongeza, itekisi yomthandazo ayinyanzelekanga ukuba ifundiswe ngentliziyo-inokufundwa kwiphepha.
3. Xa uqhakamshelane ngokungcwele, kuya kufuneka uzibuze ngokwakho, kodwa ngenxa yomyeni ongalunganga. Umzekelo, ukuze ezona zinto ziphezulu zenza ubulumko nobuqili, ezinokuthi zincede ukoyisa ubunzima kusapho kwaye bafumane ukuqonda kunye nomfazi onothando.
4. Ukunyaniseka, xa ukufunda umthandazo kuya kumomeleza kalikhulu kalikhulu, kwaye uthatha amandla aphezulu onqwenela ukuba babuze. Ukuba ufunda nje la mazwi asuka kwiphepha elingaphandle kwexabiso lexabiso, ke akunathemba lokuba baya kuviwa yiNkosi.
5. Sukuthatha iingcwele zabangcwele, ukuba kwinqanaba elihlwempuzekileyo loMoya. Ukuva ukuphakama okuphezulu, kufuneka ukhuphe ingqumbo, ukona kunye nentiyo.
6. Imithandazo yokufunda ivunyelwe nangaliphi na ixesha lemini, kwaye le nto inokwenziwa kungekuphela etempileni, kodwa ekhaya, emsebenzini, ehamba phantsi esitratweni.

Ngamanye amaxesha isizathu sokukhathalela umntu ngenkathalo komnye, ubuxoki emfazini ngokwabo. Mhlawumbi uziphethe kakubi, kubanda, ukufuna kakhulu okanye ngandlela thile. Phambi kokuba uqhakamshele amakhosi aphezulu omncedisi, kuyafuneka ukuba uqonde imeko yangoku, kwaye ukuba ukuphazamiseka kwintsapho kwenzeka ngokwempazamo yakho, into yokuqala ekufuneka uyiguqukile uze ucele uxolelo kwiNkosi. Emva kokuba umthandazo kwinkosikazi iya kuviwa.

Ngubani oza kuthandazela ukubuya kwendoda?

Ukusombulula iingxaki kwiMicimbi yoSapho nakwimicimbi yothando, ihlala iguqukela kwezona zingcwele ze-theotokos, nikolai umncedisi wokusebenza, nakuPetros noPetros. Imithandazo enyukela kubo kwinkosikazi yakhe yomelele kwaye iphumelele kakhulu. Ngoncedo lwabo, awunakuphucula kuphela le ndoda, kodwa phelisa ukupela ngomlingo ukuba kwenziwe. Eyona nto iphambili inqwenelela inqwenelwa ngokunyaniseka kunye nentanda yakho, nokukholosa ngentando kaThixo.

Ukubhena kweyona ntombi iNgcwele

Ukuthathelwa kwabafazi nabantwana, umgcini weBond yoSapho-wabiza i-thesginर nto. Ukucela ukuba ahambe kwinkosikazi evela kumyeni wakhe, akwanelanga ukuze afunde umthandazo. Okokuqala kufuneka uphumelele umsitho wokucocwa, sisithuba seentsuku ezintathu, uvumo kunye noMthendeleko. Emva koko, ngaphambi kwe-icon yenenekazi lethu kufuneka ufunde la magama alandelayo:

Lo mthandazo uyanceda nokuba le ndoda iphathisiwe kukhokelo. Ukuba ulandela yonke imiyalelo, umthandi uza kubuyela ekhaya kwiintsuku ezimbalwa kamva. Kodwa kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba indoda ayithandani nenye, iVirgo kaMariya kweli meko ayizokwazi ukunceda.

Kukho omnye umthandazo onamandla wokulondolozwa kosapho, ekufuneka ufunde ngaphambi kwe icon "umbala ongawikiyo". Ukwenzela ukuba amaqabane othando, phantsi kunye nokuqonda, kuyacetyiswa ukugcina le icon endlwini. Umthandazo uvakala ngolu hlobo:

Ukufumana uPetros noPevron

Isibini esingcwele sikaPeter noPivron sibizwa ngokuba ngabaxhasi bemitshato. Ungaqhagamshelana nabo kuphela kwiimeko apho ubudlelwane bomgangatho womsantsa, a kwaye ngokugaya okuncinci. Ngoncedo lwabo, unokufumana indlela noxolo entsatsheni, kuba Banika umkhuseli, ubulumko nokuqonda.

Olona thando lukhulu lokuthandaza kuPeter noPevron lufumaneka ngomhla wememori yaBangcwele-kaJulayi 8. Ngexesha lokubhena kwisibini, kungcono ukujonga ubuso babo, ngoko kufanelekile ukuya ecaweni okanye ukufumana i icon. Kuyabongozwa ukuba ikhuphe amagama omthandazo, kubalulekile ukuhlala kwiingalo zoMoya, kwaye cinga ngendlela oyithanda ngayo indoda yakho, kwaye ulangazelela ukubuya kwakhe kwangoko. Umthandazo wokuqala uvakala ngolu hlobo:

Omnye umthandazo onamandla uya kunceda ukonwabela umyeni we-prodigal, kwaye axhome inkosikazi.

Imithandazo eNikolai

Malunga nemisebenzi yemimangaliso eyenziwe nguNicholas, eyaziwayo kumntu okholwayo. Iphathwa naziphi na iingxaki, kuba iyanceda nokuba imeko ibonakala ingenathemba, kwaye ihlala ifikeleleka kummangaliso.

Ngaphambi kokuba ahlawule uncedo eNikolay, umqhubi osebenza naye kufuneka aywiswe kwitempile yemithandazo, ebonisa igama lomyeni kunye nalo. Emva koko kuya kufuneka uthenge amakhandlela eCawa eziyi-9, kwaye ubeke amaqhekeza ama-3 kufutshane neempawu zikaYesu Krestu, yintombi enyulu enyulu kunye neNicholas. Emva kokuyeka kufutshane nokujonga okokugqibela, funda lo mthandazo ulandelayo:

Ukuwela kathathu, ungagoduka, uthenge amakhandlela ama-9, i icon encinci yomqhubi kunye namanzi angcwele. Ekhaya nangaliphi na ixesha elifanelekileyo, xa uza kuba sezingangeni ezilungileyo zoMoya, kuyacetyiswa ukuba uqhubeke egumbini ukuze athandaze kwi-nicholas. Ukwenza oku, kuya kufuneka ubeke i icon ethengiweyo etafileni, khanyisa ikhandlela kwaye ugaleleke nakuphi na amanzi angcwele. Sebenzisa amazwi omthandazo, kuya kufuneka umele indlela owonwabileyo ngayo kwakhona ngentanda yakho. Isiko linokuphindwa rhoqo njengoko umphefumlo uyanqwenela.

Omnye umthandazo oqinisekileyo we-Miress Gicholas yomyeni wakhe izimangalo ziya kuba yimpumelelo nokuba umntu uphantsi kwesenzo selaptop.

Ukubhenela kubo bonke ingcwele

Ukuba lo mfazi uyayithanda indoda eya kwenye, kodwa kwangaxeshanye sele elungele ukumxolela, kwaye ufuna ukuqhubeka nobomi obuhlanganisiweyo, kuyacetyiswa ukuba uthathe ithuba lomthandazo ophumelelayo oluvela kuncedo lwe bonke abangcwele.

Amagama kufuneka aphindwe iveki ezintathu ngemini. Ngapha koko, kubalulekile ukuba ubuze ngokunyaniseka abangcwele boncedo, omele indlela owazinisa ngayo nendoda yakho oyithandayo.

Uya kukhawuleza umthandazo?

Akukho mfuneko yokuba ulinde ukuba emva kokufunda umthandazo, umyeni uya kuyilibala kwangoko ngenkosikazi kwaye uya kuba ngumntu ongumzekelo ongumzekelo. Nangona kunjalo, kufuneka usindise ithemba kwaye ukholelwe ukuba uthatha kwaye ukhuphe unxibelelwano olubikayo. Kuphela yimithandazo enyanisekileyo kuphela eya kuviwa yiNkosi. Kwaye uncedo oluvela kuye aluyi kulinda ixesha elide.

Ngelishwa, linda kunokuba buhlungu, ngoko umfazi kufuneka afunde ukujamelana neemvakalelo, aze asebenzise ixesha labo. Imele isebenze kuye, ngakumbi ukuba iqhekeza elithandwayo lililolo lityala lakhe. Ke, uya kumbonisa ukuba ukulungele ukutshintsha ngenxa yokuqhubeka nobudlelwane. Kungekudala uqalisa ukuyenza, abo bathandekayo baya kubuyela kuye.

Iziphumo

• Ukubuyisela umyeni wakhe, kungcono ukubuyela kuThixo, kodwa hayi kwimilingo.
• Ukuthotyelwa kwemithetho yokunyukela kwimithandazo kuya kwandisa amathuba okuphumelela.
• Imithandazo yomelele kangangokuba ayinakho ukufundisa umntu ngendlela elungileyo, kwaye amsindise kwi-Spell yothando.
• Ngokukhawuleza yenza ukuba isibongozo awona makhosi aphezulu, kuxhomekeke kumfazi ngokwayo.