Ukuvuma-umthendeleko kwinkolo yamaKristu, sebenzisa ibali labemi ngezono ezenziwe kunye nenguquko enyanisekileyo kuzo. Ukuvuma kubandakanya imithetho ethile yokubamba kwaye uyilungiselele. Kwaye nangona ithathwa njengengcungcuko yehlabathi, kusekho umahluko phakathi kovumo lwamadoda nabafazi. Yintoni kanye kanye- funda uqhubeke kwaye ujonge izono ukuvuma uluhlu lwamadoda.
Iimpawu zomthendeleko wokuvuma
Ukuvuma-luvavanyo olukhulu lomphefumlo womntu. Ulala kumnqweno wokuguquka, ukuba uxelele malunga nezakwabo zabo kwiqela lesithathu (elisebenza khona umbingeleli). Ukuba umntu uyekile ukuthobela imithetho kaThixo, emva koko ngokuhamba kwexesha atshatyalaliswe umzimba wakhe ngokwasemzimbeni nangokomoya. Kodwa ukuba ungumphefumlo wonke umphefumlo, uya kufumana ithuba lokucoca kunye nokuxolelanisa noMdali.Fumanisa ukuba ulindelwe yintoni namhlanje - i-horoscope yanamhlanje kuzo zonke iimpawu ze-zodiac
Ngenxa yokuvunywa ngokunyaniseka, ukuphiliswa ngokomoya kwenzeka, umphefumlo ufumana amandla kubaluleke kakhulu ukumelana isono. Ngeli xesha lomthendeleko, umntu uxelela ukungaziphathi ngendlela yakhe, kwaye ekugqibeleni kwakufumana ukuxolelwa.
Kodwa uvumo sisiganeko esonwabisayo esibonakalayo, unokubuyela rhoqo kwaye usoyike uzilibale zonke izono endifuna ukuguquka kuzo. Kwakuyinxa yale nto yeza le yeza noluhlu lwezono zokuvuma izono-njengohlobo lwencam, isikhumbuzo esinokuhlala sifuna uncedo ukuba amagama afunekayo ayalityalwa.
Kubalulekile! Ukuya kuvumo, yibani ngokunyaniseka kwaye unyanisekile, kungenjalo intsingiselo yale sakrathy ilahlekile.
Ukulungiselela ngokufanelekileyo ukuvunywa
Uqala iintsuku ezimbalwa ngaphambi komthetho ocwangcisiweyo. Kuya kufuneka ulungiselele uluhlu lwezono ezibhalwe kwiPhepha lePhepha. Sebenzisa iimpapasho ezizodwa zeCawa ukuze uzincede, ekuxelekeni kolo vumo kunye nobudlelane. Eyona nto iphambili kukuba, kwangaxeshanye-ungazami ukuzithethelela ngezenzo zakho ezingendawo, ziyawamkela ngcono kwaye uze uzigqibe ngekamva.
Mhlawumbi esona sigqibo sichanekileyo kukuhlalutya yonke imihla ngohlalutyo olucacileyo lwezenzo zakho, nto leyo yayilungile, kwaye engabi kakhulu. Ngena njengomkhwa wemihla ngemihla, kuya kukunceda ukuba unikele ingqalelo ngakumbi kwiingcinga zakho, amagama kunye nezenzo zakho. Ngaphambi koko, ngaphambi kokuvuma ukuba, kubalulekile ukuba ubuchame nabo bonke abantu okwixanda. Ukusuka emazantsi entliziyo yam, ndibaxolele aboni bakho kwaye bacele ukuxolelwa kwabo bayenze ukubandezeleka.
Kubalulekile! Ababingeleli bayacetyiswa ngoEva kwisakramente yokuvuma ukufundisisa i-Canon eguqukayo, iikompu zeNtombazana Enyulu uMariya kunye nengelosi yomgcini.
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Kuyimfuneko ukwenza umahluko phakathi kwenguquko yakhe - xa umntu ecinga nje koko wakuvuma nokuvuma izono. Kule meko yokugqibela, kufuneka imizamo eyongezelelekileyo yokuziphatha, kuba kukho ubuso obugqithisileyo - umbingeleli omenza umntu azive eneentloni. Yintoni enokubonwa ngokuzimeleyo, hayi, xelela omnye umntu, ngakumbi umntu ongaqhelekanga.
Ke ngoko, kubalulekile ukulungiselela uluhlu lwezono kwangaphambili ukuba zihlukane nesilingo ngokukodwa ukuba zingalibali ngokungqalileyo ukuxela malunga nento ethile yebandla. Ewe kunjalo, ukuba awuzange uvunyelwe ngaphambi koko, kuya kuba nzima ukuyenza ngokwakho. Ukuququzelela umsebenzi-uthenge "uvumo olupheleleyo" kwivenkile yecawa, inika uluhlu olugqibeleleyo lwazo zonke izono, kwaye zonke iimfihlakalo zesakramente zityhiliwe.
Yintoni uvumo olungelwenziwa ngumntu kwibhinqa?
Kuya kuba sisidenge ukuphikisana nenyaniso yokuba amadoda nabafazi bahluke kakhulu komnye komnye ngokweepesenti zengqondo. Ke ngoko, uvumo luya kuba nelona nqaku lazo kuzo zombini iimeko.
Ke, amadoda ngemeko yabo azisengqiqweni kwaye enekratshi. Xa ulungiselela uluhlu lwezono zokuvuma, kunokwenzeka ukuba bajolise ekwakheni ukulandelelana kwemida. Kwakhona, abameli besini esomeleleyo bavalelwe ngakumbi kwaye bemfutshane, baya kuba nzima ukuzivula iintliziyo zabo kuvuma, kuba bahlala bethintela i-ego eyomeleleyo.
Kwaye kukho ingozi enkulu enokuba yingozi yokuvuma izono-(nangona ababhali besithi abameli besini esihle besona ngala maxesha). Nawuphi na umntu oguqula ubungozi kwinzaliseko engcwele kwinzaliseko esesikweni ye "isiko" ukufumana uxolelo olufunekayo, kodwa ungawubonakalisi umphefumlo wakhe, ungathandazeli uncedo lukaSomandla.
Abasetyhini kwindalo basajongile ngakumbi kwiimvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo, ke bayazi malunga neMisdemeanor ngaphezulu kwentliziyo yentliziyo, hayi ingqondo. Apha, nangona kunjalo, ezinye ubuxoki obugqithisileyo: Abafazi banokusebenzisa iimvakalelo zabo zendalo njengefuthe elongezelelekileyo lokwenza umfanekiso oguqukayo. Ke ngoko, bahlala beqala ngokweemvakalelo ukuchaza uBawo yonke izenzo zesono, ngakumbi ukuba sithetha ngolwalamano nabanye abantu.
Ngapha koko, ekunyanisekeni kakhulu ngokweemvakalelo, akubangakho ngqiqweni, nakwizigqibo. Ukongeza, inokuhlala yenzeka ngendlela yokuba umfazi ovunyiweyo uqala "ukuhambisa esidlangalaleni", kodwa emphefumlweni, ngaphandle kokuguquka ngokunyaniseka.
Kucacile ukuba umahluko phakathi kokuvuma izono nobufazi ngokuqinisekileyo ngokuqinisekileyo kukutya, kanye njengokuba kwahlukile kwaye kwahlukile kwaye indlela yokusombulula iingxaki zobomi ngabameli bobabini, ngokunjalo.
Kodwa nangona idlala ngengqondo yesini kule meko nayiphi na indima, kodwa hayi ngokuchanekileyo. Ngapha koko, le ndoda, kwaye umfazi ukhokele ngaphezu kwayo yonke, umphefumlo osemzimbeni womntu. Kodwa kuba umphefumlo awuyomida kumnqweno wokuguquka nokucaca kwindlwane yezono zabo.
Uluhlu lwezono ukuze uvunyelwe ngamadoda
Namhlanje siyakuhlehlisa ukugxila kumgangatho owomeleleyo, cinga ngoluhlu olusezantsi lwezono kwizivumo zamadoda. Kwangoko, ndingathanda ukuba ndiqaphele ukuba amadoda azimisele kakhulu kunabafazi, ayazi ngenxa yokuziphatha gwenxa kunye nokunikezelwa kwabo.
Rhoqo baqinisekile ukuba abazenzeli nto imbi ngayo nantoni na embi. Kwaye kwiingxaki ezininzi ezibalulekileyo, banokuzama ukutshitshiswa kwabafazi babo, bakholelwe ukuba bavunyelwe.
Kutheni iqhubeka? Iingcali zengqondo zibonisa iinkalo ze-ego yendoda, eyomeleleyo kunenkazana, ebangela ubunzima obunetyala kunye nenguquko. Ewe kunjalo, ayisiyo malunga nabameli abaphuhlileyo ngokomoya besini esomeleleyo, ehlala ehlabathini. Bakwazi ukujamelana neempawu zabo zendalo kwaye bavula iintliziyo zabo kuThixo, bebeka indlela yokuphuhliswa kokomoya.
Kodwa masibuyele kuluhlu lwezono zokuvuma kwezonyango kumadoda. Yonke imida yohlulwe ngokwamanqanaba amathathu aphambili:
Ekuqaleni Izono zoOsenyanyamileyo iOsenyamileyo, ebonakalaliswe:
- Ukwala ukukholelwa kubukho beyona meko iphakamileyo, oko kukuthi, ukungakholelwa kubukho. 'Njengeengxabano ", zinokunikezelwa phando lwenzululwazi, zingqina nje ukungabikho kukaThixo;
- Ukudalwa kunye nokunqula iCumiram (thixo bobuxoki, ukulima umntu othile okanye ngaphezulu kwe-perstial yexabiso lezinto ezibonakalayo).
Udidi lwesibini -Ifanekiselwa nezono, abamelwane, ukuba:
- Ukusikhuthaza abanye, ukukhulelwa kwabo kunye neemfuno zabanye abantu kunye neemfuno;
- Ukuhleba nokugweba abanye abantu;
- Izono ze-prodigal: ukuvukela kwakhe isiqingatha sakhe sesibini, ukutshatana okanye umtshato waseburhulumenteni (kodwa apha sikhathalele ukuba singathethi ngeeperensi, kodwa bafumana i-prodigal);
- ukungcola ukuqaphela isisu;
- Ukunikezelwa kwepropathi yomnye umntu ngayo nayiphi na indlela (ubusela, ukwala iintlawulo okanye ukulibaziseka kwiintlawulo zemivuzo);
- Ukukopela.
Udidi lwesithathu -Bekelela ezonweni ezenziwe ngokwabo, kwaye zimelwe zezona zinto zimbi:
- ulwimi olubi;
- ngesiqu sakho;
- ukubhiyozela incoko, ukuhleba;
- inxano lenzuzo, ifumene ukuphuculwa kwemali;
- Uluntu lungaphezulu kwezenzo zabo ezilungileyo;
- umona, ubuxoki;
- Ukuphathwa gadalala kokutya, utywala, i-narcouls
- I-BludA, ukukrexeza, i-inlets, eyomeleleyo.
Okulandelayo, cinga ngohlobo olufutshane loluhlu lwendoda yezono zokuvuma izono:
- Wayebandakanyeke eSakrant, wathetha ngexesha lenkonzo ebandleni.
- Ivakalise amathandabuzo kubukho bukaThixo, ngobomi basemva kobomi.
- Chitha kwaye wakhwela phezu kwabantu abahlwempuzekileyo.
- Wayephethe inkohliso kwabanye, ngakumbi, kumfazi nabantwana bakhe.
- Livila kakhulu, wabonisa ikratshi, amampunge, otyhidiweyo imali okanye, ngokuchasene noko, wayechithakale kakhulu.
- Yonakala kwityala elisemthethweni lokusebenza emkhosini, khusela ilizwe lakhe.
- Ukuphepha ngomsebenzi ongathandekiyo, akazange azalisekise imisebenzi yakhe.
- Wathsa abanye abantu ngamazwi okanye emzimbeni, ukuba uthiye ngokwasemzimbeni, athathe inxaxheba kumlo.
- Ngabom bathetha ngobuxoki abanye abantu, baxelele abanye abantu abangaziwayo.
- Ndithanda abanye abantu esonweni (uhenyuzo, ukusebenzisa, ukusebenzisa iziyobisi, ukungcakaza).
- Akuzange kubancede abazali, umfazi wakhe, abantwana okanye abanye abantu xa ebuzwa.
- I-Strank yepropathi yomnye umntu, ibalulekile ekuqokeleleni izinto ezingafanelekanga.
- Ukutshutshiswa, ukubonakalisa ukuphakama kwabo bamelwane, kuthoba abamelwane bakhe.
- Waziphatha ngobuqhetseba, uHamil, oqheleneyo okanye olwenziweyo.
- Wayebandakanyeke kwisandla okanye ukukrexeza.
Ingcebiso eluncedo
- Inkululeko yokuzikhethela yomntu ngamnye-nokuba uye kwisivumo okanye hayi kwaye kangakanani le sakramente yenziwe. Akunakwenzeka ukunyanzela ukuthanda kwakho, kumnyanzela ukuba aye etempileni ayokuvuma xa yena engafuni ukwenza le nto.
- Ngaphambi kokuba zivume, kufanelekile ukuba luluhlu lwezono ezifezekileyo, ngelixa zinjalo ngokungagungqiyo, ngaphandle kokuthatha nantoni na kwaye kungangeniswanga.
- Ngokufanelekileyo, kuya kufuneka ufumane umcebisi wakho wobuqu ngokomoya, oya kuhlala uhamba naye ukuba uvume, kwaye unokuthetha naye kwizihloko zokomoya, ubuze imibuzo enomdla.
- Etempileni, kuyimfuneko ukufumana iintsuku xa uvumo lubanjiwe kwangaphambili, kuba bahlala bengazibamba yonke imihla.
- Ngosuku oluhle, yiza ecaweni ngenkangeleko efanelekileyo: Amadoda kufuneka athwale i-T-shirt okanye ihempe, kufuneka ngemikhono, kunye nebhulukhwe okanye i-jeans emfutshane). Abafazi bagubungela intloko yentloko, musa ukusebenzisa i-cosmetics kwaye banxibe isiketi, ubude obuncinci ukuya edolweni.