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Kwelinye icala, i-Whillism ithelekiswa nezinto ze-pathologies, ezinje ngobukhoboka beziyobisi, utywala kunye nezinye. I-sexomolik i (nokuba ngubani isini) umntu obonakalisa ezi nkcazo zilandelayo:

1. Inomnqweno osisigxina wokusondela esisigxina kunye nabameli bendawo eyahlukileyo okanye eyakhe yesondo (ukutyhala ngaphandle).
2. Uthathela ingqalelo naluphi na unxibelelwano nomntu onomdla ngokwesini nge-prism yokuthatheka. I-dexomolik ayikwazanga ukwahlula inkanuko evela kubasebenzi, abasebenzi kunye nolunye ulwalamano loluntu.
3. Ubomi bakhe bezentlalo bunesisa ngenxa yokuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo. Njengakwimeko yalo naluphi na uhlobo lokuxhomekeka kwendalo, kungekudala babangela ukuphazamiseka, kubonwe kubudlelwane nabantu abangqongileyo.

Izizathu ze-seaniania

Nangona izazinzulu zide zifunda le nto, akukho lwazi luthembekileyo kwizizathu zophuhliso lokwabelana ngesondo ebantwini. Kodwa yaziwa ngokuba ziimfuneko ezimbalwa ezinokukhuthaza ukuqonda oko kobunye ubomi obusondeleyo:

• Ingqondo ivelisa i-endorphone eyaneleyo . Ngomculo we-sexy, i-endorphine, eyaziwa ngokuba "yi-hormone yolonwabo kunye nolonwabo", iveliswa emzimbeni ngokukhulu kakhulu. Kulula ukuqonda ukuba umntu ukuqheleke ukudla ngokuxhobisa kwaye unxanelwe nge-idosi "yedosi elandelayo."
• Uloyiko lokusondelelana . Rhoqo ukungena kubudlelwane bezesondo namaqabane amaninzi, umntu ubonakala ngathi uyangqina ukuba akabuthathaka. Kwaye uloyiko lungazi kwaye lufihliwe ngokunzulu kwi-subconsion.
• Ubugcisa bokuyila, ukuzibophelela kwi-Nravam . Abadlali, ababhali kunye neemvumi bahlala bethwaxwa nge-sesholism, echaphazela ubukhulu bezinto zomsebenzi wabo.

Njengoko i-sexlim ibonakalisiwe

Ayisiyo ingcali ihlala ingakwazi ukwahlula-hlula umntu ophantsi kumntu oqhelekileyo ekuqaleni kokujonga kuqala. Kufanelekile ukuba unikele ingqalelo kubukho beempawu zezi pathology:

• Inkululeko, inqanaba eliphantsi lemilinganiselo yokuziphatha;
• Umntu uthenga kuphela, inxibe kakhulu impahla;
• Ngenye indlela efanelekileyo, izama, ngokungathi ubuxoki, bonisa impahla yangaphantsi;
• ichitha imali yakhe kwiinkonzo zesondo;
• I-uqhagamshelo rhoqo namaqabane angaqhelekanga.

IPHEPHA IXESHA LOKUGQIBELA

I-Patrick Karns, engugqirha wezengqondo waseMelika, ngo-1980 wakwenzela inqanaba lokuphuhliswa kokuxhomekeka kwimicimbi yothando. Balungiswa kwiincwadi zezifundo ezisemthethweni zonyango.

Ugqirha ukholelwa ukuba uphuhliso lwe-sendogolism yenzeka kumanqanaba (ngolungelelwano lweempawu):

1. Isigulana sixakeke bubudlelwane besini, sifuna ukukhutshwa rhoqo.
2. Yenza izithethe ezithile ngaphambi kokuba isondele, yenzelwe ukomeleza umnqweno (ukuthandaza, incoko malunga nokugqwetha njalo njalo.
3. I-sexgomolik ngengqondo ixhomekeke kwi-Fetish, ayikwazi ukulawula iminqweno yayo.
4. Ukuphelelwa lithemba kuyakhula, uxinzelelo.

Yintoni engasebenziyo kwi-sesholism?

Oku akusoloko malunga nokwenyani ngesondo ngesondo. Zininzi iindawo ezifanayo ezingafaniyo nokuba zez zekwisistholism. Injani le meko?

Eyomeleleyo ye-libido . I-Libedo (okanye umGaqo-siseko wesini) unokuba buthathaka, ophakathi kunye nomelele. Umntu onomntu onesidingo ephezulu, uziva imfuneko yeeklasi rhoqo ngothando, kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba kukho into engalunganga kuye. Kule meko, sithetha malunga nento yendalo, ngokufanayo, umzekelo, inkanuko ephezulu, okanye eyandayo.

Ubuhle bobutsha . Rhoqo, abakwishumi elivisayo babonakala ngathi babambeke kwisifundo sesondo. Ngapha koko, kubudala bobutsha, i-Libedo inyuka phantsi kwesenzo sehomoni, kodwa ayilingani ngokusondeleyo.

Nzulu eluthandweni . Inomdla kwinenekazi elihle, ummeli omele umgudu ongumgangatho wokuthoba, ongumnqweno wendalo, kodwa hayi ngesondo.

Malunga nengxaki enkulu inokutshona kuphela kwiimeko apho ukusondela kwesondo kubekwa phambili kwindawo yokuqala kuluhlu lwamaxabiso obomi kwimvelaphi yokuhla kwendawo yokuphumla. Kwangelo xesha, ukuphathwa kwako kwanelisekile kukusondela okuqhelekileyo, ukuphucula iindlela ezinobunkunkqele ngakumbi.

Kule nto, ukuxhomekeka ngokwesondo kufaniswa ne-narcotic- xa kufunyanwa "i-buzz", ngalo lonke ixesha kuyimfuneko ukwandisa idosi. Ngenxa yoko, iplanga liyakhula kwaye liyakhula.

Yintoni enikelwa ngesondo?

Njengomthetho, i-sencheliki ayicingi malunga nokuziphatha kwabo, kangangokuba kumisela intsingiselo eyomeleleyo kubomi babo bokwenyani kunye obuzayo. Ukwanda kwe "Strawberry" yongezwa apha eluntwini, xa zijongene neminwe.

Kodwa i-sexnolog yekhawulezile ukulumkisa ukuba le pathology iyingozi, njengokukhulisa isini. Ukuba ucacisa ngokulula-umntu uchitha amandla ayo ngokwesondo ngaphambi kwexesha. Ukuzama yonke into onayo, kwigumbi lokulala, i-sexman ayisenakuphefumlelwa kwaye, ngokufanelekileyo, ayifumani vuyo kulwalamano oluqhelekileyo.

Le phenomenon iqhubela phambili ngakumbi kumazwe aphucukileyo. Uninzi lwabantu abadumileyo lubandezeleka ngokwesini kwaye banyanzelwa ukuba bafune uncedo kumaziko ohlengahlengiso. Kumazwe asekhaya, unyango lwe-selOgolism aluzange luphuhliswe kwaye lugqithe phantsi kolawulo lwe-psychotherapist, njengakwimeko yokuxhomekeka.

Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba unyango ngokupheleleyo?

Oogqirha bathintela ukuba unyango luza kunceda, kodwa kuphela ukuba isigulana siyakufuna le kwaye asiyi kuyityeshela ingxaki. Apha ulandele i-analogy enenkohliso yeziyobisi okanye unxila, umntu ajamelana nohlaselo lokuxhomekeka okungalawulekiyo, iqala ukuqaphela ngokucacileyo okwenzekayo.

Ukufezekisa impumelelo ekuphathweni nge-dendogolism yinto yokwenyani, ngakumbi ukuba uqala unyango kwinqanaba lokuqala lesi sifo. Ngaphandle koko, uxakeke ngumngcipheko wenkanuko yokuhlala ngaphandle kosapho, zihlobo kwaye ngaphandle kobudlelwane obuqhelekileyo eluntwini.

Lunjani ukuphathwa kwe-pathology? Okokuqala kufuneka uqhagamshelane nengcali - i-psychotherapist okanye i-psychologist (kwinqanaba lokuqala lesi sifo). Kumanqanaba kamva, kuya kuba nakho ukunceda ugqirha wengqondo ngokukodwa.

Unyango luhlala luthotyelwa kwezi zinto zilandelayo:

• ukusetyenziswa kweziyobisi ezithozamileyo;
• Uphuhliso kwizinto zokuzonwabisa ukuze kuthathelwe indawo yokuncanyathiselwa ngokungathandabuzekiyo ukuze uthandane novuyo kwi-subconstuse yakho;
• Ukuzilolonga ngokuzithandela;
• I-Teas ehlekisayo evela kwi-Herbs (Melissa, Mint, Valerian, Umama-Komati-As-mthetho);
• Iiseshoni zengqondo.

I-sexomsany

I-pathology ayikhethinga amaxhoba alo ngodumo okanye inqanaba lentlalontle. Kule mihla, i-celabritis, i-celabritis, i-celabritis, i-tenedions, i-fanneions, ihlala ibathathi-nxaxheba kwizikrelemnqa, apho batyholwa ngokutshutshiswa kwabasebenzi, oogxa bakhe kunye nabantu obaqhelileyo.

Ngaphambili, ukuthunyelwa kwezesondo kwakufuneka kufihliwe, ukufihla izinamathiselo azo ezinamathisi, kungenjalo basongela i-blackmail kunye nezisongelo. Ungatsalela umnxeba obalaseleyo omele abemelwe (okanye hayi) ubomi babo ngaphandle kothando ngovuyo.

I-Catherine II. Kufanelekile ukuba imbali ye "nymphovanking Imbali". Malunga nokuthathwa kwesondo nenkosi yaseRussia kwaziwa kubo bonke abaphathi bayo. Inkosikazi yayixhomekeke kwisondo kwaye idla ngokuchitha ixesha kunye nezintandokazi ezincinci, ezitshintshile ngesantya sokukhanya.

UDavid wokomoya . Lo mlinganisi waseMelika awungeva lilize, akubonakali, yindima ye-rishord riesment uthotho "Raudley California". Ixesha elininzi, uDavid Hablogry wayengabubuqali ubukho bengxaki, de kwaba ngo-2008, umfazi wakhe uLeoni akazange avume esidlangalaleni kubuncwane obuninzi. Ukususela ngoko, oko kokomoya kwathabathayo ingqondo yaze yaphumelela ikhosi yokubuyisela kwimeko yesiqhelo.

Russell rand . I-fissian, iqabane langaphambili iqabane likaKatie Pariry Parry ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwisondo. Isizathu, esishukumisela ukuba uqalise unyango, ngumnqweno wokuba nosapho kwaye ube ngumfazi othembekileyo.

UBill Clinton . Mhlawumbi akukho mntu ungakhange aqonde ukuba umntu oxakekileyo ucinge ngoMongameli we-United States yaseMelika ngoNobhala weLevinsky. Kutshiwo ukuba lonke ityala letyala yayikukuxhomekeka ngokwesondo kwesondo.

Mata Hari. . Iinkonzo ezizodwa zazihlala zinomdla kubafazi ngokwesondo bezisebenzisa ukususa ulwazi oluyimfuneko. Intlonelo edumileyo yeMata Hari yasebenza ngaxeshanye isebenze ngobukrelekrele amabini kwaye ichithe ubusuku kuphela ngamadoda anemithwalo enamagunya amakhulu.

Ukuphelisa njani i-Puchin ye-sendogolism? Akufuneki silibale ukuba ukongeza kwezesondo Kukho ezinye izinto ezinomdla, kwaye abantu abajikelezayo abanakho ukuba basondeze, kodwa abaphathi abanomdla abanokuxhasa nabo ubuhlobo.

Kwimeko enzima, xa i-shoring ayinikezeli ukulawula kwaye isebenzise ubomi, kufuneka uphinde ufake ngokukhawuleza uncedo lobungcali. Kwaye kwangaphambi kokuba kwenziwe, ithuba eliphezulu lokuphola ngokupheleleyo.