Ungayiqonda njani into oyithandayo indoda kwaye uyindawo yakho

Ekuqaleni kolunye ulwalamano, yonke into ikhula kwimo egqibeleleyo, iintlanganiso ezimnandi, ii-hugs ezingcangcazelayo kunye nokuqabula eziphelelwe lixesha. Kodwa kuya kwenzeka ntoni emva koko? Ngaba olu lwalamano luya kuba luhle okanye luchithiwe emva kokuqhelana ngokusondeleyo kunye? Ndicinga ukuba uyazi ukuba ngaba isiqingatha sakho sesibini isiqingatha okanye inoveli ye-fleet, akunzima kangako.

Kutheni le nto sifumanisa ukuba "ngaba" abantu bethu '?

Yiya kwimihla eyahlukeneyo phantse nakuphi na ukumela umntu wesini esahlukileyo kusoloko kuhle. Imozulu yothando, ukuhamba okumnandi, iimovie kwi-cinema kuphela yenza kuphela inkohliso olungile nalo mntu. Asisoloko sizibuza umbuzo "Ngaba lo mntu unelungelo lokuphela?" Kwaye ngokubanzi, kubalulekile ukuba ucinge ngomso, ukuba ulungile namhlanje?

Fumanisa ukuba ulindelwe yintoni namhlanje - i-horoscope yanamhlanje kuzo zonke iimpawu ze-zodiac

Ngezicelo zobhaliso ezininzi, silungiselele isicelo se-horoscope echanekileyo kwifowuni ephathekayo. Umenzi uza kuza ngophawu lwakho lwe-zodiac rhoqo kusasa- akunakwenzeka ukuba uphoswe!

Khuphela Simahla: i-horoscope ngayo yonke imihla 2020 (ifumaneka kwi-Android)

Ulwalamano olude nendoda, izimvo zobomi bobomi ohluke kakhulu kweyakho, soze zonwabe. Ixesha elingaphezulu, ngalinye lamahlakani liqala ukuqonda ukuba umanyano lwabo yimpazamo. Omabini amacala aqala ukugxila kwiingozi zentanda yakhe kwaye akanakubanyamezela. Ikhefu lolo lwalamano luhlala lubuhlungu kumfana nentombazana.

Imeko enjalo yobudlelwane obusilelayo iyaziwa ngumntu wonke, kwaye abantu abaqhelekileyo abayi kufuna ukuba nenxaxheba kuyo. Kutheni le nto abantu kunye namantombazana sisavumela impazamo enjalo kwaye siqalise ubudlelwane, ukuba baphumelele ekungaphumeleli? Impazamo ebulalayo kukho izizathu ezininzi, kwaye ezona zixhaphakileyo zezi:

1. Ukuxhomekeka kwimbono yoluntu. Uninzi kakhulu luchaphazela amantombazana, kubonakala ngathi ukuba iya kuba yedwa ixesha elide, ke abantu baya kuqalisa ukuyibona njengesiqholo kwaye akukho mntu wayefuna. Ukuxhomekeka okukhulu kwizimvo zabanye amantombazana atyhalela ekuqaleni kobudlelwane nento yokuqala eye yawa, ngaphandle kokuthoba umntu ngamnye.
2. Ingcinezelo yosapho. Abazali bahlala bengakwazi ukubanjwa kwiingcebiso okanye iingcikivo kubantwana babo. Abantwana bahlala bengakhethi iqabane ngokusekelwe kuthando lwabo lokuthanda, kwaye bayeke ukhetho lwakho kwisizukulwana sikabani.
3. Uthando kwinxalenye enye yeqabane (ubuhle, nengqondo, ubutyebi, njl.njl) - kumanqanaba okuqala obudlelwane, kuphela owona mlinganiso mnye ofanelekileyo unokugqobhoza amacala amabi omntu.
4. Intembelo yokuba usapho kufuneka luphole ngokukhawuleza. Phantse onke amantombazana asele ashiyekile kumtshakazi ongekhoyo, ukulungele ukwamkela isicelo sezandla kunye neentliziyo zivela kulo naliphi na iqabane.
5. Ukukhulelwa. Ukukhulelwa okungacwangciswanga rhoqo kunyanzelisa abantu ukuba babhalise ubudlelwane babo. Kule meko, abasetyhini akunakulindeleka ukuba bacinge ukuba bayayiva na umntu.
6. Ukuzijongela phantsi. Uninzi lwabantu kunye namantombazana enzonzobileni womphefumlo azimelanga ulwalamano oluhle. Amahlakani angafanelekanga, akahambi, ecinga ukuba akafumani mntu ulunge ngakumbi kunaye nabani na.

Sithini isiqingatha sesibini, iwedwa?

Indalo yothando ukuba isiqingatha sesibini somntu sinokuba yinye, akukho nje. Phantse kuwo onke amabali e-ries inkosana, uthando olunye lwalulungiswa-inkosazana entle. Kubomi bokwenyani, ukutsho ukuba umntu uyinyani yesiqingatha sesibini, kunzima kakhulu. Masiqalise ngento yokuba kubomi bobomi bendoda nomfazi banokuba nothando olunye, kwaye ngamnye kubo umntu uya konwaba ngendlela yakhe.

Umntu akanakuhamba ipolisi yokukhangela enye engatshatanga, ehlala edibana naye kwidolophu yakhe, kwizangqa zonxibelelwano ngokubanzi. Qaphela, nokuba lo mntu phantse akanakwenzeka kwimizuzu yokuqala yokuthandana. Ubudlelwane buya kuphuhlisa kancinci, kwaye ngokuthe ngcembe uya kuqonda ukuba lo ngumntu.

Imiqondiso yokuba lo mntu "yeyakho"

Xa ujoyine naluphi na ulwalamano lothando, kufanelekile ukuba lunikele ingqalelo:

• Iimvakalelo zakho okwazinayo kwiqabane;
• indlela aziphethe ngayo ecaleni kwakho;
• uphuhliso lolwalamano.

Ukuba ekuqaleni ukulinda kubonakala ngathi luthando luthini, indlela yokuqonda ukuba lo ngumntu? Ngokuqinisekileyo ezi mpawu zilandelayo ziya kubonisa oku:

• Unokulula nangokufanelekileyo neqabane lakho, ufumana uvelwano oluvakalayo;
• Iimbono ezifanayo ngobomi kunye namanye amaxesha;
• Uluvo lwakho lunobunzima beqabane;
• Isizathu sayo nayiphi na isenzo seqabane lethu sicacile kuwe;
• Ngokudibeneyo awulunganga nje ukuthetha, kodwa nkqu nocwangco;
• Izinto ezingalunganga zeqabane azibangeli bunzima, iimpawu zakho azinomsindo;
• Kwiimvakalelo zeqabane lakho ngokuqinisekileyo uqinisekile kwaye ungazithembi ukuba kutheni esenza loo nto, kwaye kungenjalo;
• Ixabiso lokuchongwa elenziwe kwelinye linye liyafana;
• Ubudlelwane yinto ekhunjuzwa ngokutshata, iinjongo ngokubanzi kunye namatyala;
• Abantu bathetha ngokufana kwakho kwangaphandle;
• Unezitayile ezifanayo ezinxibe iimpahla;
• Ngaphandle komsebenzi olungileyo okanye ngokugula kakhulu, iqabane aliyi kuphulukana nomtsalane kuwe.

Iimpawu zobudlelwane obuhle:

• Iqabane lithandana nawe nabanye abantu ngokuvulekileyo;
• Ukulandela umnyulwa uyacaphukisa ukuba ufuna ukuyifundisa;
• Kwiqabane lakho utsala inqaku elinye kuphela umntu anokuthi alahleke;
• Izithembiso, idatha evela komnye komnye azisebenzi rhoqo.

Iingcebiso ze-psychologists

Nokuba le ndoda okanye intombazana ilungile kuye, oko akuthethi ukuba lo ngumntu. Njengoko ubona okwakho, isikolo asixeleli, kwaye akukho sezulu, kodwa ngoochwephesha bezengqondo banokunceda kule nto. Iingcali zicebisa ngezi ndlela zilandelayo:

1. Khawufane ucinge loo meko sele uhlala kunye. Nceda uqaphele indlela othetha ngayo kusasa, ongowokuqala ukuya kwibhafu, olungiselela isidlo sakusasa. Zama ukubonelela ngesigqibo esidibeneyo kwimicimbi yasekhaya. Xa ubona ikamva, nikela ingqalelo kwiimvakalelo zakho onazo.
2. Xelela isoka lakho malunga neengxaki zemihla ngemihla abazithandayo. Imibuzo engathandekiyo iya kunceda ekuqondeni ukuba iqabane linokuyicombulula njani ingxaki enjalo ebomini bakho.
3. Buza ngenyameko ukuba zeziphi izizathu zeqabane lakho ngaphambili kwaye sisiphi isizathu esiphelileyo. Sukubuza imibuzo engaphezu kwe-1.

Ekugqibeleni

• Qiniseka ukuba uphulaphule iimvakalelo zakho;
• Nawaphi na amathandabuzo kunokuthetha ukuba le ayinguye umntu wakho.