Iisutikheyisi kunye nezinye izinto ezifanayo zendlela kule ncwadi iphupha - umqondiso wokuba amaphupha azama ukuzifihla kwabo bajikeleze ezinye iziganeko, iintshukumo okanye iimvakalelo.
Isinye kwisithathu sobomi sichitha ephupheni. Ukulala ngumthombo wosuku kunye nesiqinisekiso sentlalo-ntle elungileyo. Ephupheni, umzimba uphela. Iinkqubo ezininzi zinciphisa kancinci. Nangona kunjalo, ezinye iinxalenye zengqondo ephupheni ziye zikhuthele ngakumbi, zihlalutya ulwazi oluqokelelweyo ngosuku, ezingena kwezinye iindawo zengqondo ngendlela yemifanekiso.
Ukuba uyayicacisa ngokuchanekileyo le mifanekiso, unokuchonga iingxaki ezingcangcazela iphupha, kwaye ide icinge ngekamva. Ngaba isutikheyisi? Ithetha ntoni le nto?
Amaphupha amaninzi athandwayo
Amaphupha adumileyo:- UMZANTSI;
- Freud;
- Vanga;
- I-Islamic -
Ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo ukutolika iphupha elifanayo.
Iyaqondakala le:
- I-Psychologist Miller yadala incwadi yakhe yamaphupha (ama-2125 utoliko lwamaphupha) kwisiseko seminyaka emininzi yamava nezigulana.
- I-psychoanalyst freuds, emsebenzini wakhe odumileyo "wokuTolika kwamaphupha" ityhila amaphupha njengeminqweno eyimfihlo yephupha.
- I-Wang inamaphupha athile, ethelekisa ubomi babantu kunye nembali yamazwe aphela. Incwadi yakhe yamaphupha iqulethe iitoliki ezingama-78.
- Incwadi yamaphupha ephupha ibonakalisa ukusebenzisana kobume bendalo kunye nelizwe langaphakathi lamaSilamsi. Kolu kutoliko lwephupha 149 Ukutolikwa.
Qwalasela indlela ukubonakala kwesutikheyisi ephupheni la maphupha awaziwa kakuhle.
Isutikheyisi eMiller
Ugqirha wezengqondo waseMelika watolika lo mfanekiso wesibini.
Ngokoluvo lwayo, wafanekisela iphupha:
- Ukuhamba, indlela ende;
- Ukusilela okunokwenzeka kwinkonzo, ukuphoxeka kuthando kunye nobuhlobo.
Ukuba kukho iphupha ephupheni, lipakisha isutikheyisi, kwaye iyenza ngaphandle kokungxama nangokuzolileyo, indlela iya kuba kudala kwaye iyavuya.
Inkqubo yokubekwa ihamba kunye noxinzelelo, kwaye izinto azihambi ngendlela elungileyo, uhambo luya kuba kufutshane, lunamandla kwaye lungakhululeki.
Isutikheyisi engenanto ifanekisela ukukhathazeka kuthando okanye umtshato.
Isutikheyisi enamaphupha anqabileyo ebiziwe ibonisa ukuxabana okunokwenzeka ngomntu ohlonitshwayo okanye osondeleyo.
Ukuba isutikheyisi yiseti yezinto ezindala okanye ezingeyomfuneko, emva koko incoko engathandekiyo kunye nomntu ococekileyo kulindeleke.
Ngawaphi amaphupha esuti ye-freud
Ikhululwe kumfanekiso womfanekiso weqhezu elibi leFreud. Le mpahla iyingxaki, izakhiwo, iseti yokwaphula umntu esimthandayo. Kwaye kuxhomekeka kwisenzo, esenza iphupha, inqanaba leenguqu ezingakhathaliyo:
- Ukuthenga isutikheyisi kubonisa umnqweno wokucela umhlobo malunga noncedo olunzima, apho amaphupha akhoyo.
- Ukupakisha isutikheyisi-ulungiselelo oluhle kakhulu lwexampe kunye nomntu osondeleyo, apho amabango amaninzi angenangqondo aya kuboniswa.
- Ukuthwala iisutikheyisi ezinzima kubonisa ukuba iseti yezinto ezikhoyo kunye neengxaki zibandakanyeka kakhulu ebomini, kodwa amaphupha azibeka ngasemva kwesivalo esivaliweyo.
- Ukuwa kweswidi yesutikheyisi, isutikheyisi ewisiweyo ikhwaza into yokuba imeko yengqondo yephupha yasondela kwindawo eyingozi.
Ukubamba umfanekiso we-wange
I-Vanga ikholelwa ukuba isutikheyisi yindlela yokutshintsha kwixesha elizayo.
Isutikhi yokukhanya ithetha olindelo olungeyonyani, ubunzima obunokubakho, malunga neenguqu ezibalulekileyo, ezingalindelekanga kubomi bephupha.
Ukuba umntu udlula kwisutikheyisi, emva koko wazisola ngezenzo zakhe ebomini benene, elungele ukutshintsha ezinye zezenzo zakhe.
Ukuba amaphupha avula isutikheyisi, kwaye akukho nto iphosakeleyo, kukho ukuphoxeka kubudlelwane bothando ngaphambili.
Yenziwa njani imifanekiso yomfanekiso wesutikhesic (amaSilamsi)
Iisutikheyisi kunye nezinye izinto ezifanayo zendlela kule ncwadi iphupha - umqondiso wokuba amaphupha azama ukuzifihla kwabo bajikeleze ezinye iziganeko, iintshukumo okanye iimvakalelo.Eli phupha sisilumkiso sokuba yimfihlo inokuqondakala, kufuneka uthathe onke amanyathelo ukugcina imfihlakalo.
Njengesishwankathelo: Isutikheyisi, ngokoluvo lwabo bonke ababhali bamaphupha, lulwimi oluzayo olusekwe kulwazi oluqokelelweyo. Umfanekiso wesutikheyisi ephupheni ulumkisa iphupha malunga nelahleko enokubakho kubudlelwane.
Ukuphatha ngokuchanekileyo eli phupha, kufuneka ufumanise ukuba ikhuphe iinkcukacha, nokuba ziphuphe ntoni.
Ngubani ophupha isutikheyisi
Indoda ehlala ihamba
Ukuba umhambi wephupha ujonge ngononophelo isutikheyisi ngaphambi kwe-TRIPS yakhe yeShishini, ebeka yonke into ngokucocekileyo, emva koko ulindele ukuphumelela kwinkonzo. Ubunkokeli buya kukuqonda ngokuchanileyo kunye nokusebenza kwayo.Ukuba uyaphupha ukuba isutikheyisi incinci kwaye ayihlali zonke izinto, ke loo nto iphupha lithembisa intetho, imbuyekezo.
Intombazana engatshatanga
Ukuba ibhinqa eliselula liphuphe isutikheyisi enkulu evela kwisikhumba sokwenyani, ingqalelo yakhe itsalele indoda etyebileyo.
Imizamo yakhe yokuvula isutikheyisi yayingathwelwanga ngempumelelo-ikhethwa iya kuba ingakhathali kuyo.
Ukuba wayekwazi ukuvula isutikheyisi, kuya kuvuzwa ingqalelo yakhe.
Ukuba intombazana yesutikheyisi izakubona umntu, umntu onyuliweyo eluthandweni lwezihlobo zothando, kungcono ukuhlala kuye.
Kumyalelo wesutikheyisi, izinto zisongelwe kakuhle - okhethiweyo sele zilungele uthando lwexesha elide lothando.
Ukuba intombazana ephuphe iphupha ayikwazi ukutshixa ityesi yakhe, oko kuthetha ukuba akazokwazi ukuphazamisa ubudlelwane bothando.
Umfazi
Isutikheyisi evaliweyo eneqhosha elilahlekileyo linokuthetha ngeemfihlo ezivele liqabane.
Isutikheyisi encinci ye-shabby inokufihla imfihlakalo engathandekiyo, eyayingathandi ukuba ibonakalise izalamane kunye neentsapho.
Ingxowa yokuhamba-engxowa-vimba inokuthi ilumkise malunga neenguqu ezinxulumene nezihlobo ezisondeleyo.
Ukuba umfazi ufumana isutikheyisi, kungekudala uza kuba ngumama.
Umntu ongenguye
Ukuthenga isutikheyisi ethembisayo ukuba ukhula kwikamva elikufuphi nowasemzini othandekayo. Ngombala wesutikheyisi, amanye amaphupha ade aqonde ukuba yeyiphi: I-Blonde, Brunette okanye iRedhed.
Iincwadana ezithambileyo zelaphu zithetha malunga nomlinganiswa othambileyo onyuliweyo, onzima, kunye nemiphetho ebukhali-malunga nomlinganiswa wakhe wokuzalwa.
Isutikheyisi evuleka ezandleni zephupha kunye nezinto eziphuma kuzo, zilumkisa ngezibakala ezingathandekiyo ukuba kungekudala uza kuzifumanisa ngonyulo lwakhe. Oku kunokusebenza njengesilumkiso malunga nesidingo sokumazi intanda yakhe.
Ukuqukumbela
Kuyenzeka ukuba ubhekise ngokuthandabuza kwitoliki yamaphupha. Nangona kunjalo, ingqondo yethu inokufaka nayiphi na inxalenye encinci yolwazi, apho umntu uya kudlula khona ngaphandle kwengqondo. Ngexesha lokuvuka, ezi zibonakaliso zicinezelwe ngolunye, ulwazi olubaluleke ngakumbi oluqinisekisa umsebenzi obalulekileyo womzimba.
Ngexesha lokuhlaziywa kobusuku, ingqondo ifumana ubudlelwane phakathi kwezinto ezingafakwanga kwaye zisinika imifanekiso esiyibona njengeNkuma.
Mhlawumbi, wonke umntu obomi bebenzekile "abaprofeti" amaphupha. Obu bungqina nje ukuba kufuneka uphathe amaphupha. Kwaye indlela yokuzitolika, iphupha lokukhetha iphupha, ligwebe iphupha. Eyona nto iphambili ayizukungcungcutheka, nokuba, kuwo onke amaphupha, iphupha libonisa utshintsho olungalunganga kwikamva.
Ayisiyo ngethuba lokuba amaphupha aneempendulo kwimibuzo esingayicelanga kubomi benene.
Ke, mhlawumbi kungcono ukulungele naluphi na utshintsho, ukuphonononga amaphupha akhe ?!