Ungaluqonda njani ukuba umntu uxoka: Ingcebiso esebenzayo yogqirha wezengqondo

Kukho abantu abaninzi bobuxoki ngoku. Ngokwedatha yamva nje yentlalo kunye neengcali zengqondo, umyinge wemihlaba yomhlaba wosuku uyaphuphuma izihlandlo ezininzi. Kwangelo xesha, kunxunguphele kwaye kuxoke kuye, mhlawumbi ayinguye wonke umntu. Ngumkhonto kuphela olixoki uyakwazi ukulawula indlela abaziphatha ngayo ukuze inkohliso ingabonakali kwabanye. Iingcali zengqondo kunye neengcali zengqondo kunye neengcali zengqondo ziyakwazi ukuchonga ubuxoki, ukuba ngabachwechwelisayo. Kwanele ukuba bagcine okwethutyana ixesha elithile.

Nangona kunjalo, umntu olula kwelinye icala unokufumana bukela ukuba baya kuwubuyisa umthwalo wabo kwaye bamamele ingcebiso yeengcali.

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Kukho iinkcazo ezininzi. Ingcinga icacisa njengengxelo echasayo inyani. Ayinakukwazi ukufikelela kwinyaniso. Inkohliso ihlala ibizwa ngobomi bemihla ngemihla. Iingcali zengqondo ziyaphakamisa ukuba xa umntu elele, ufuna ukuqiniseka okuqinisekileyo kumnxibelelanisi. Nangona ixoki ngokwakho elazi kakuhle malunga nokungahambelani. Ngengqondo, ulandela iqhinga elithile elithile, ngokoluvo lwakhe, okwangoku.

Iintlobo ngeentlobo zee-varia ezininzi ezininzi. Yiyo nje:

• ukulinganisa;
• ibluff;
• ubuxoki obenziwe ngamasibomu;
• Amabali entsomi amnandi;
• ubuchule;
• ukunyelisa;
• i-plagiarism;
• gutury;
• ngokwakho, ukuzikhohlisa;
• Fale kakuhle kwaye kunjalo.

Ingayinto yentolongo xa umntu engenakuxoka. Inokwenzeka ekuthinjweni. Abantwana abaxhaphake kakhulu.

Kutheni uxoki

Ukukopela iinyawo ngeenxa zonke. Abantu bayaxoka. Kutheni le nto isenzeka rhoqo? Ngokwesiqhelo ubomi bemihla ngemihla, umntu ujongene kuphela ngendawo yokufumana ulwazi. Uninzi lwazo kuba uninzi alufuni kukonakalisa ubudlelwane, kuba kukho umnqweno wokubonakala ujonge kakhulu.

Ezona zinzima zinobunzima bunxulumana nento ebalulekileyo ebusweni. Ngamanye amaxesha inokuba namandla amakhulu owoyikisayo emntwini, umlinganiswa wakhe kunye nekamva. Ubomi obunganyanisekanga, buhlala bungxama, kuba boyika ukutsho okanye ukuba inyani yakhe iya kuhlala ibuyele kumphezulu. Rhoqo yenzeka ukuba ikhokelela kwimiphumo engathandekiyo.

Kwisayensi kukho iinguqulelo ezimbini malunga nobuxoki obucacileyo babantu. Kwanangoku xa bengazi ngqo ukuba kukhokelela kwisiphelo esifileyo.

1. Uloyiko lokuthetha ngenyaniso.
2. Ukholo oluqinileyo kwimfuneko yokuxoxa. Lowo uxokile, ucinga ukuba inyani iya kuba yingozi kumnxibelelanisi.

Ungayichaza njani ubuxoki?

Uninzi lokubiza ulwazi lobuxoki-uxinzelelo. Iimvakalelo zihlala zingathandeki, zikhokele umzimba kwimincili. Utshintsho lwenzeka nokuba kwinqanaba lemiddumo. Oku kubonakaliswa kwinto yokuba inkohliso ngokwayo ibonisa ngamazwi nangomlomo.

Iimpawu eziphambili zokuxoka

Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba ufumanise, ilele indoda okanye ngaba ithembekile phambi komnxibelelanisi? Ijika ibonakalise imiqondiso enceda kule nto, ikho. Nangona kunjalo, kwelinye icala, abanakuba ngqo ubungqina bobuxoki. Nokuba abakho, akuthethi ukuba akukho nkohliso.

Imveliso echanekileyo ngakumbi, yonke indlela yokuziphatha yomnxibelelanisi isetyenziswa. Ezinye iintshukumo zilandelwa luhlewe zidityaniswe nazo zonke iimpawu zezimo zengqondo emntwini. Kulula ukubala ixoki ukuba uyayazi, ke indlela yokuziphatha kwayo okwethutyana ithelekiswa nesiqhelo. Ihlala yahlukile. Ukuba sithetha ngomntu ongamaziyo, ke kunzima ngakumbi kubuxoki.

Ukucinga ngendlela yokufumanisa ukuba umntu uyalele, uyaqwalaselwa. Kukho ukuthelekiswa kwengqondo kunye nendlela eqhelekileyo yokuziphatha. Unokuzisa umnxibelelanisi wamanzi acocekileyo ngokukhangela ulwazi olufunyenweyo, okanye xa usazi isikhundla sezinto.

Lixoki

Zininzi imiqondiso kunye neempawu zokuba umntu othile udibanise ubuxoki. Nangona kunjalo, zonke zinokuchithwa kwiindidi ezimbini:

1. ngomlomo;
2. engathethi ngomlomo.

Kwimeko yokuqala, kukho ibinzana elikwifom yomlomo. Ungayiqonda incoko edlulayo kangangokuba ayifuni umnxibelelanisi ukuba axoxe ngesihloko esibonisiweyo, thintela ukuba nje uyatshintsha. Kule meko, kukho amafutshane, intetho iyomile kakhulu kwaye icingelwa ukuba ingasebenzi. Ungasiva na isifungo esishushu njalo njalo.

Ukuba umbuzo ubuzwe, kwaye ukuphendula kude kakhulu kukuma kancinci, ke, ngakumbi, umnxibelelanisi uza nento. Usenokuba rhabaxa kwaye urabha ngokuzithemba, ufuna indawo. I-Lybunshiki nayo iyakuthanda ukucofe ubumnene, ukuze wonke umntu acinge ukuba umntu ubi kangangokuba wayengazange abe bubuxoki. Ngamanye amaxesha kubonakaliswe ekuhleni kakhulu kumbuzo.

Kumzuzwana - kukho ukwahlulahlula:

• Isoftware (eyonakalisiweyo, indoda ihla, amacandelo ebusweni agqunywe ngumswakama, i-Palms ikwamanzi, intliziyo ibetha rhoqo, umbala wokuphefumla, ukuphefumla okungaqhelekanga);
• I-Mimic (abafundi bacekeceke, buqale i-Blink eguqukayo, ukugqabhuka kwe-lin okanye i-jonict ijolise ekunxibelelaneni kakhulu kwi-insolocutor, i-curve yoncumo,
• Ithambeka (rhoqo ukuchukumisa ukuya kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo zobuso, iintloko, fihla ibrashi yezandla, ijijeke imilenze iwele).

Ewe kunjalo, oku kunokubonwa ngovuyo olunamandla lomntu. Ukungadideki, kubalulekile ukuthelekisa amagama kunye nezenzo ezingaphezulu.

Ukuqukumbela

Abantu baqhathane ngamaxesha onke. Nangona kunjalo, kwanele ukuba angenelele izijekulo kunye neempawu zokuziphatha kakuhle kwabakhohlisi, kwaye ke uqonde ukuba umntu uyaxoka, kuya kuba lula kakhulu.

• Iingcali zengqondo zanamhlanje zinceda ukwahlula, apho ibali liyinyani, kwaye luluphi ubuxoki.
• Ukuze angabi salala emgwebeni, kufanelekile ukuba uqaphele kwaye ukhumbule ezinye izikhombisi zomntu olahlekileyo.