Ukuzingca, ngokokutolikwa kwesichazi-magama, isebenzisa ngokugqithisileyo, imvakalelo yokungoneliseki kwezenzo zabo, indlela yokuziphatha. Ingaba uhambise ukubandezeleka okuninzi kwengqondo emntwini. Indlela yokujongana nale meko ingenampilo? Fumana ngakumbi.
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Iingcali zengqondo zichaza lo mxholo kwinkalo elandelayo: I-Sammoystvo isebenza njengezihlalo ezimbi, ezihamba kunye nokungamkelwayo kokuziphatha kwalo (amagama, iingcinga).
Kuxhomekeka ekubeni umntu angamthandi kwaye akazamkeli, ukuzibiza ngegama elibonakaliswayo ngeendlela ezinjalo:
- Kwifom ethambileyo, luhlobo lwemidlalo "yoluntu". Kule meko, kukho ukugxeka okugxekayo, ngenxa yefom engabangeli ukungonwabi kwengqondo okhethekileyo. Injongo kule meko kukufumana kwizibonakaliso ezingqonge, uvelwano, intuthuzelo, kunye nokuphepha ukohlwaywa. Iindawo zokuchithela ezithambileyo zokuzigxeka aziqinisekanga ngobuntu, zinembono ephantsi yoxanduva.
- Kwifomu engqongqo - kwaye apha umnqweno wokuzibetha uthanda uzonakalisa uxanduva lwe-hypertrophinte. Ezo zinto zinomdla wokufuna kakhulu kubo, ke kunzima ukuzigxeka ngokungafezekiki kwezalisekiswa. Kwicala lesibini, uSamowele endaweni yokuba kugxekwe esidlangalaleni khetha ukuzigxeka, okuqhutywa ngaphandle kwamaNgqina.
- Kwindlela ye-neurotic-xa umntu azigxeka rhoqo ixesha elide, indlela yokuziphatha sele ingumkhwa. Kwaye nokuba umntu ongento yanto uya kuba nakho ukuqalisa umngeni. Abantu abakwinqanaba elichaziweyo bahlala bezivelela kumSamosters enzima, ngamanye amaxesha bengayazi le nto.
Zikhula phi izandla zakho?
Ngokuqinisekileyo naliphi na inyathelo, nkqu neyona nto imbi, inezinto ezinzulu "zokufakwa", nto leyo eziyicaphukisayo. Kwaye kuthetha ukuba kuyinyani ukufezekisa okwenzekayo, kuyafuneka ukuba ufunde ukuhlukanisa izenzo kwiinjongo.
Umzekelo, xa abazali baqhawula umntwana wabo ngento aziphatha ngokungalunganga, ilizwi liyanda okanye lisebenzise isandla, benza izinto ezimbi. Nangona kunjalo, iinjongo zayo zinengqondo entle: Bazama ukufundisa umntwana wabo, bamcacisela njengoko kunokwenzeka, kwaye ungaziphatha njani.
Kwimeko yokuzikhethela, ukufakelwa kwayo kuya kuba kukhuselo. Sonke siyawazi ibinzana elithi "ukukhuselwa kakhulu kukuhlaselwa." Ke kwimeko yethu neemvakalelo, umntu uhlaselo, nangona kunjalo, kuye. Ngapha koko, ukukhuselwa kwabantwana kwengqondo kuyenziwa: "Ndingcono, mna ngokwam) ndiza kuyinyanzela phambi komnye umntu oyenzayo)."
Ubukhulu becala, abantu banotyekelo lokuzibiza kunye nokungafikeleli kubo bonke abo bantwana abasasazwa rhoqo ngohlaselo lwabazali babo, ootitshala, ootatomkhulu noomakhulu.
Umntu onjalo ukusuka ebuntwaneni usetyenziselwa ukuba yiyo ukuba ifanelekile kwimigangatho ethile. Uzabalazela "i-inic yakhe," ngokufumana izinto ezingalunganga. Kwangelo xesha, kuthintela ukuba wenze iimpazamo, uthambekele "ukuthambisa impumlo" kwiintsilelo ezincinci.
Kuyavela ukuba yonke imvelaphi yengxaki ishiya iingcambu zawo ebuntwaneni. Kwakulapho umntu othile engafundiswanga ukuba angazithandi, angamhlonele umzimba wabo nomphefumlo wabo, angabi nakho ukuthabatha iimpazamo, amacala athile, ungazixoleli ngezinto zawo.
Ngenxa yoko, umntu othile uzijika olona tshaba lubi ngokwalo, kuba aluzivumeli ukuba lungafezekanga, luhlala luzigcina ngokwahlukileyo.
Iziphumo
Yintoni eyakhiwe ngehlabathi kunye nobulungisa?
- Phantsi kwesenzo seemvakalelo eziqhubekayo, kukho ibhloko yazo nayiphi na imvakalelo elungileyo. Indoda ngalo lonke ixesha ifumana ukungoneliseki nzulu ngobomi bakhe, yena kunye nayo yonke eyenzekayo.
- Ukuzivuselela izini, ukunciphisa ukulala noxolo lwengqondo.
- Umntu uqhela 'ekungeneni,' engcwele eqinisekile ukuba akakwazi ukutshintsha imeko. Ngenxa yoko, ayizisebenzisi ngokupheleleyo.
- USamoystvo ufumana ubunzima obuqhelekileyo, bokucinga ngendlela. Indoda 'ikhula "kakhulu ngengxaki yakhe, ehlelelekile kuyo kwinqanaba lemvakalelo. Ngenxa yokuba kungakwazi ukuvavanya ngokuchanekileyo okwenzekayo.
- Ukungathandi kwaye ukohlula ngokuthe ngqo kwindlela efanayo kwabanye abantu. Ewe, ngaba kuya kubakho umntu ongakwaziyo ukuzithanda?
- Kuxhomekeka kwii-trimes ezisisigxina, ubuntu bokuzingca buba lula ixhoba le-magazini. Baya kuba nakho "bathathe kwi-gook ngaphandle komzamo omkhulu."
Kuyavela ukuba ukugxekwa okungenampilo kuyayicaphukisa ngenxa yokuphefumla ngokuthe ngcembe ukwenziwa ngokuthe ngcembe kwengqondo. Xa ingxaki iqala ukufumana isikali esoyikisayo, lixesha lokufuna isigqibo sakhe!
Ungayilungisa njani into eyenzekayo?
- Thatha kwaye uzithande njengoko unjalo ngokwenene. Funda ukwamkela iintsilelo zakho, qonda ukuba awusoze ubhalele kwimigangatho efanelekileyo. Sonke sifani nendalo, kutheni ukhanyisa ukuthuka Oyena Uphakamileyo, ukrazula ngokwakho?
- Xolela ukuba ungazinzisi kunye neempazamo zakho. Uxolelo-eli linyathelo lokuqala lokutshintsha ukuqonda ngokwakho, ngokulandelelana, kunye nokuqala kwendlela yokuphelisa ukuzichasa. Xa uzixolela, iingcinga nomphefumlo uqalisa ukususa i-negative, inkqubo eyoyikisayo yolwaphulo-mthetho imisiwe.
- Funda ukucinga kwimeko elungileyo. Phuhlisa imvakalelo yakho yokuhlekisa. Yenza ugxininiso kwiintsilelo zakho, kodwa ekomelezeni izibonelelo. Vakalisa udume rhoqo. Bathi nje baqala ukusivuyisa, bavakalise ngoko nangoko bobabini. Khumbula amandla akho, kunye nezenzo ezibangela ukwaneliseka.
- Qonda kwaye wamkele inyani yokuba ukuzibiza ngokungabi yinto ngaphandle kwendlela yokukhusela umntwana. Xa usenza, uyasamkela isikhundla somzali, uzama ukuziqhubela kwikona. Kodwa sele unesazisi esidala, uyayazi indlela yokuphendula kwiingxaki ngokuchanekileyo, ngaphandle kokufakelwa okungalunganga kwixesha elidlulileyo.
- Ndixelele ukuba ndilungiselele kwiimvakalelo eziphakama ngokukhawuleza nje ukuba uziqale ngokwakho kunye nokuzikhusela. Amava amabi ngokweemvakalelo aya kuba lutshaba lwakho olubi kakhulu ekusombululeni ingxaki, ngoko kubalulekile ukuba ndibaphelise.
- Tshintsha imodeli yokuziphatha. Faka endaweni yokugxekwa kokuhlalutywa kwemeko yemeko. Kufanelekile ukuqonda ukuba yeyiphi yezenzo, kodwa indlela yokwenza isenzo ngoku, ukuba ufuna ukuba le meko itshintshe.
Imibuzo emithathu kuwe
Ukuba unqwenela ukushiya isangqa esikhohlakeleyo sokuphosa, sebenzisa ubuchule obulula, kodwa bungaphezulu kakhulu "imibuzo" emi-3. Konke okuya kufunwa kuwe kukuzibuza ngokutsha, kwaye emva koko uphendula ukubhala kwiikholamu ezi-3 kwiphepha lephepha.
Ngaba loluphi uhlobo lwemibuzo?
- Ndenze ntoni (ndenze)? Ukuthunga yonke into kwenzeke kuwe.
- Zeziphi izinto ezinokuthathwa? Kwiingcinga, yenza umfanekiso wakho ofunekayo njengoko unokuhlengahlengisa le meko (ngamagama, izimbo zomzimba, iimvakalelo, njalo njalo).
- Ndisasebenza ngantoni ngomso? Ukuthunga iphepha elinye okanye iintshukumo ezininzi ezifunekayo ukulungisa imeko yangoku.
Obu buchule buya kuba luncedo, njengoko kuyakukhupha izifundo ezibalulekileyo kwiimbambano ezenzekileyo kuwe. Kwaye unokuthelekisa umfanekiso wokwenyani wento eyenzekileyo kunye nempendulo yakho yangaphakathi kuyo. Kwaye, kakhulu ngakumbi, iya kufumanisa ukuba into eyenzekileyo ayisiyo ntlekele njengoko uyipeyintileyo kwingcinga yakho.
Zithande, thatha iintsilelo zakho kwaye uzivumele ukuba ungoyena mntu unjalo!
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