Ungayifumana njani intsingiselo yoBomi? Ngaba unayo injongo ethile, injongo yakho emhlabeni, ukufeza nandawonye kweli lizwe? Okanye kusenokwenzeka ukuba umntu okhethekayo ukhetha ukuba enze ntoni ebomini, okanye enzonzobileni ye-inzulu, yonke into isungulwe ngokucacileyo kwaye kuyimfuneko kuphela ukufumana olu lwalathiso luyinyani? Masijongane nombuzo kule nto.
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Ngokusekelwe koko kusenzeka ngoku kwimeko yethu, kunye nehlabathi liphela, kwaye ukutyhalela amava empumelelo yobuntu, sifikelele kwisigqibo esibalulekileyo: "Umntu akafumani ukuba azolile kwaye aphumelele eluntwini de afumane indawo yomsebenzi ongumbethe wokwenene".
Inkanuko yindawo yobomi ekhuthaza izinto ezintsha eziphumezileyo, kunika ithuba lokungasiki ngxaki, kodwa ukusombulula. Kwaye ngenxa yoko, umntu ophambise bubunzima, wonwabe.
Kunzima ukuphikisana nento yokuba sonke sahlukile. Kwiplanethi apho ayinakubakho abantu ababini abafanayo. Awu, kodwa ayingabo bonke abantu abaziyo ngokulinganayo kwaye abayiqondi ukuba baxabisekile, bobabini, ngaphezulu kwabo, kubo bonke abantu nakwindawo yonke.
Ukwahluka komntu kuphakama kwinqanaba lomzimba okanye ngokweemvakalelo, hayi kwinqanaba leminqweno okanye ikamva. Ifihlile nzulu kakhulu - ukuba kwinqanaba lomphefumlo, elihlala kwindalo iphela ngamawaka ezigidi zeminyaka. Ngeli xesha, ukwazile ukuqokelela amava amaninzi awahlukeneyo, kwaye ngulowo umvumela ukuba ahlakulele abo okanye amanye amabakala obomi.
Kutheni le nto iingxaki zihlala zivela rhoqo?
Ilizwe lethu lilungelelaniswe ngendlela yokuba Hlala kwaye uphile ubomi obonwabisayo kunokuba ngabantu abazinika kakhulu emhlabeni kunabo . Kukubonisa kuphela ukuba babonakale ngokwabo.
Ngokusekelwe kwinto, kusengqiqweni kutheni zininzi kakhulu zenkcitho kunye neemvakalelo zeplanethi namhlanje zilawula. Eyona ngxaki iphambili: Abantu bakhuthaza ngaphezulu ngokuthatha, hayi ukunika . Yintoni ekhokelela kwisiphithiphithi esipheleleyo.
Kutheni yenzeka kakhulu? Bonke abantu ngamaphiko obuthando boyena Uphakamileyo. Ngamnye wethu unikwe ngokufanelekileyo amandla anjalo ukuba akulungele ukuba ngumfundisi kwaye abelane nabanye abantu.
Amandla ahamba sonke, njengomlambo. Ukuba ugcwalisa ngamatye, uya kuqala ukuthula, kwaye umntu uyafa ngokuthe ngcembe. Kwaye xa indlela yokuhamba kwamanzi ikhutshiwe, ubuntu bubonakale ngokuchanekileyo kweli lizwe-ufikelela kwimeko yolonwabo kwaye uqinisekisa iminyaka emininzi yobomi. Kuba ibonakalisa amandla kaThixo ngaphandle kwakhe ngaphakathi ukuya kwilizwe langaphandle.
Kungenxa yoko le nto umbuzo ngulo: "Ungayifumana njani intsingiselo yobomi?" Kufuneka sime ngamnye kuthi. Ngapha koko, eneneni uyalingana nombuzo: "Ungalufumana njani ulonwabo?".
Kwimeko apho umntu ovela kwindalo akaphezulu kakhulu, amandla anezimandla angonelanga, ukufumana indawo yokuphumla kwayo ngokuzimeleyo iba yinkonzo engenakuphikiswa kuye. Ngomgama ohamba ngendlela yenzame kunye neempazamo, kunokwenzeka ukuba ufumane into oyifunayo.
Kodwa, kwelinye icala, ububele obuphezulu buya kumnika ithuba lokuba 'babe nokungacwangcisi' ukuba baziveze, ukuba libe kanye kwindawo efanelekileyo.
Amanqanaba okukhula
Ngapha koko, ayingabo bonke abantu abazama ukuzijonga. Ukuze umntu afune ukuqalisa ngokungqongqo, kufuneka aqale afumane amava amaninzi obomi.
Ke uluhlu olufutshane lwemisebenzi apho kuya kufuneka khona ukuba ijamelane nomntu ngaphambi kokuba awele kwinqanaba elifunwayo. Nceda uqaphele ukuba sonke ngumntu, imisebenzi isenokuhluka. Nangona kunjalo, kunjalo malunga noluhlu olufanayo nathi:
- Umsebenzi wokuqala ukuphakama . Umntu kufuneka adlule kwiimvakalelo ezinzulu nezingathandekiyo ngokweemvakalelo, efunda ukuzisusa. Shenxisa nayiphi na iinkqubo ezingalunganga, ufakelo, iipateni zokucinga ezifunyanwa kubuntwana obude, esikolweni okanye eluntwini ekufumaneni.
- Siziqhelanisa nentlalo Ukuba sele abantu abaqolileyo kwinkqubo yokuphucula indlela esicinga ngayo. Siqeqesha isimilo sakho ngoncedo lwemisebenzi ethile, funda ukufumana impumelelo, siyaqonda ukuba "ndingayenza kakuhle, kwaye ayisiyiyo le nto."
- Ukucinga kufikelela kwinqanaba eliphezulu . Sithetha kakuhle kubantu beStereotypes yoluntu xa sifumana uluvo olucacileyo - ukuguquguquka kwamava ethu ebomini. Ukhuthaza ukufudukela kwikamva eliqaqambileyo.
- Ukuba ne-faces encinci, ukumangalela kule cones ngokwaneleyo Kwaye ngelindelwe ukuba umbono wekamva olukhanyayo lubonakala lumxinwa kakhulu, siqala ukwandisa inyani yakho ukuze inyani kwabanye. Siqala ukuzityhila, sizibandakanya ekuhlalutyeni ubomi babo, siyayibona indlela abaphila ngayo ukuze siqonde ukuba kutheni "ikamva eliqaqambileyo elingaze lifike.
- Kwinkqubo yokujonga abanye Sizama ukuza kwiimpendulo kwimibuzo: "Ndingubani? Ndiphila ntoni? Ungayifumana njani indlela yakho ebomini? " Kweli nqanaba, umntu sele efuna ufakelo lwangaphakathi lokuphendula ngokupheleleyo kwimisebenzi eyenziwe eluntwini. Kwangelo xesha, azijikelezile ngokwazo kwindawo enqwenelekayo yabantu, apho ajikeleza khona, esenza umsebenzi wakhe.
- Kwaye kuphela xa ibhalansi ifezekiswa phakathi kwephakathi nangaphandle , siqala ukuphumeza ixabiso lethu lokwenyani. Ngaphambi koko, wasikhokelela kwiminyaka emininzi, "utshilo ngaphakathi, kwaye ekugqibeleni sinokuphumla kwaye enyanisweni, hayi ngamaphupha ukwenza intsingiselo yethu yokwenyani. Kula manqanaba kuphela kukucaciswa ngokupheleleyo.
Dlula ngalinye lenqanaba umntu kuya kufuneka abe nayo. Akunakwenzeka ukuba utsibe kwenye uye kwelinye, ucofe amanqaku ambalwa. Kuyinyani, ixesha lendinyana linokwahluka.
Kukho olunye uhlobo lokutolikwa kwe-hierichication, nto leyo ithetha malunga ne-phantse, kodwa kuphela ngokulandelelana. Iba icacile indlela esiya ngayo indlela esiya ngayo ekusekweni kwayo yonke into.
- Kwindawo yokuqala Injongo -Umsebenzi obalaseleyo wobomi, esiwazinika bona, babe kwihlabathi lokomoya.
- Okulandelayo kukho Ixabiso lobomi - Bakhanyisela indlela yobomi kwaye baguqula amanqaku kuyo. Yenza injongo ngakumbi kwaye iyaqondakala kuthi.
- Kwindawo yesithathu ikhona Iimpawu zobuqu . Bakhokela umntu kwinkqubo yokubamkela izigqibo ezahlukeneyo, ziphunyezwa ngohlobo lweminyhadala yobomi bethu, ivela kumaxabiso ethu aphambili.
- Ngokusekwe kwiimpawu zomlinganiswa ezenziwa Inkqubo yokucinga ngendlela ethile.
- Imifanekiso yendlela yokucinga icaphukisa Iimvakalelo ezithile zemvakalelo.
- Amava eemvakalelo ajika Iimvakalelo kwinqanaba lomzimba.
- Isolongo seline ifuthe kwithu Impilo-ntle, imeko yempilo, i-pecalloumates yembonakalo kwaye njalo.
Iingcebiso malunga ne-Njani ukufumana ulonwabo- indawo oya kuyo
Ndifuna ukukunika ukuba uziqhelanise nenani leengcebiso ezinokuthi zincede kuzo.
- Thatha isifundo ... ngokwakho! Ungakanani na owazi wena ngawe? Fumanisa amanqaku omlinganiswa wakho, ubushushu, imfuno yamandla kunye namathuba.
- Thetha ukunciphisa ulwazi olungeyomfuneko. Musa ukunikezela ngombono womnye umntu, inqaku lakho lembono lelondolozwe lihlala likhona.
- Kholwa kubuchule bakho kunye nezakhono zobungcali. Fumana inkqubo yakho yexabiso kwaye ungalali.
- Babone abanye njengobuqu obuqu. Kodwa thatha isibakala sokuba sonke sinezibonelelo zethu zombini kunye nezinto esinokungalunganga.
- Vumela isenzo sakho senziwe ngokwezixhobo zesazela.
- Qonda ukuba intsingiselo yobomi iphakathi kweyona nto ifunekayo kwinyani. Sukukhangela kwisigqibo esifanelekileyo, kwaye uhlale oyena ulungele wena kwaye yeyona ifanelekileyo ebomini bakho.
- Ukunyanga i-stereotypes malunga ne "Portuon" eqhelekileyo "," njengaye wonke umntu ". Ngaba unethuba lokuzama ubuchule? Mqondeni!
- Cola umdla wakho kunye neenqobo ezisemgangathweni njenge-Alice Rabbit kwi-Lewis Carolla's Fayile. Yazi ukuba yonke indawo yobomi inokuhlawulwa kakhulu. Kodwa eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba uvuya. Qonda kwaye wamkele inyani yokuba nokuba uhlawule kangakanani umsebenzi ongafunekiyo, awusoze unike imvakalelo yolonwabo lokwenene kunye ne-buzz.
- Phuhlisa, ngokwakho ngokwakho, yonyusa inqanaba lolwazi lwakho kunye nokuphucula izakhono zomsebenzi onzima.
Ndiyathemba ukuba izinto ezibonakalayo zaziluncedo kuwe kwaye zityhalele kwicala elifanelekileyo lokufika kwam, oko kukuthi, intsingiselo yobomi.
Ukuqukumbela, jonga ividiyo ye-his.