Uxinzelelo liqabane elingapheliyo lomntu. Umntu othile wajamelana naye ngokuzimela, umntu ufuna uncedo oluvela kwiingcali, kwaye amakholwa ahlala eyixhasa ingelosi yokugqibela, ngakumbi ukuba iguqukela kuye ngomthandazo okhethekileyo "ingelosi yam ...". Xa izandla zithotyiwe kwaye akukho mandla okuqhubeka, ukuzikhusela izicatshulwa ezingcwele ezivela kububi.
Enye yeemeko ezinzima zobomi ezinokubangela umntu ovela kwi-Rut kukwenza umsebenzi ozayo. Ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, nawuphi na umntu onengqondo ahlangabezana netyala elinzima, isiphumo esinokuthi singalindelekanga. Ngamaxesha anje, nakuphi na uncedo, bobabini bavela ecaleni kwaye baneentokazi neNkosi.
Xa umthandazo ufuna ingelosi ye-ceeper
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Ngoloyiko olomeleleyo, abanye bafuna inkxaso evela kwizalamane zabo, kwaye oku kulungile, kodwa kungcono ngakumbi ukuguqukela kuThixo. Esindisa umthandazo osindisayo "ingelosi yam, masihambe nam, nisekukani, ndiza kuwe," eziya kunxiba:
- Nayiphi na into eyoyikisayo yokusebenza;
- ikhuthaza ukuzithemba kolo loyiso ngenxa yesigulo;
- Komeleza ukholo kumandla aphezulu namandla obuphakamileyo, abulele imimangaliso yayo.
Ubunzima bokusebenza ngamanye amaxesha bukhulu kakhulu kangangokuba nabagqirha abanamzekelo wokuphendula kwalo malunga nesiphumo sayo. Apha kwaye ukhumbule uThixo. Kubalulekile ukuba ndikholelwe kuye, kuncedo lwayo, kuphela emva koko uya kunikwa ukuphiliswa komntu owonileyo.
Imithandazo esisiseko ngaphambi kotyando
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Kungekudala ngaphambi kokuba sibhekise esibhedlele esilandelayo, okanye ukuba ungalindelekanga kwaye umntu wawubeka kwangoko itafile yokusebenza, imithandazo ayifunwa nguSomandla, kodwa neyona nto iNgcwele, kunye neSt. Panteloonono kunye neNikolai nceda. Nangona kunjalo, eyona nto iphakamileyo, ukuba ungayibeka ngokunxulumene nesicatshulwa esingcwele, umthandazo wengelosi yomgcini uyamkelwa. Kutheni le nto ixhaphakile kuma-Ekholi?
Oyena mveleli wasemazulwini uhlala ecaleni kwakhe, emva kwamagxa akhe. Ifana nekhonkco elikhawulezayo, elidlulisela iminqweno ephezulu yewadi yakhe. Ukuba ingozi, izabalazela ukulumkisa, ize incedise ukusindisa, ukuze umntu angahambi emendweni othembekileyo. Kukholelwa ukuba rhoqo isibongozo kwi-proper enamaphiko aphucula isiphumo semixholo yezicatshulwa zomthandazo.
Esi sibongozo sesi silandelayo: "Ingelosi yam, masihambe nam, nisekukani, ndezakho." Amandla ayo mkhulu, ngenxa yokuba la mabinzana, ikholwa lithumela ingelosi yakhe kwingelosi yakhe - umgcini wakhe ukukhusela amaxhoba amaxhoba okanye uthintelo kunye nokwenza ubuthathaka kwikamva. Isicelo esifanayo soze sihlale singaphenduli, kwaye indlela yomKristu igqityiwe, kuba ingelosi imkhokelela kuye.
Ungathandaza njani kwingelosi yakho yogada ngaphambi kotyando
Ixesha elide kukho imigaqo ekulula ukuthobela umsebenzi oza kuhamba nobunzima obukhulu kubo bobabini isigulana kunye noogqirha. Nantsi eyona nto iphambili:
- Ungaze ubize amagama anxulumene nokufa, okanye isiphumo esibi songenelelo ukuze iingcinga ezimnyama azibonakali ngokwenyama;
- Cela uThixo malunga nokugqitywa kwentsebenziswano;
- Kananjalo ngomhla omisiweyo, okanye ngaphambi nangaphambi kokuba ungafungi mntu, ukuthetha amagama amangcwaba, ukhubekise okanye ukubulala izilwanyana (kungenjalo ingelosi ayikwazi ukutshintshela umyalezo ekufeni kukaThixo);
- Ngaphandle kokungabikho kweziphakamiso, kungcono ukuthumela iintsuku ezingama-40. Akenzi buhlungu kwaye utyelelo oluninzi kwitempile ngexesha lenkonzo;
- Yonke imihla, hlamba amanzi angcwele xa ufunda amazwi kaThixo.
Phakathi kwezinye izinto, yedwa kunye naye kufanelekile ukuba acinge ngezono ezigqibeleleyo, khumbulani ukuba wonke umntu uphendule kwaye uthethe ngayo ngotata. Kuya kuba kuhle ukuthandaza phakathi kwemifanekiso yecawe ayibonisayo umfundisi. Ukuba omnye umntu uthandaza ngesigulana, ke amathuba okuphumelela okufanelekileyo kokusebenza kuya konyuka. Intsapho ayinakuxhasa kuphela emthandazweni, kodwa nakwiposi.
Indlela yokufunda izicatshulwa ezingcwele
Kuyimfuneko ukulungiselela umsebenzi kungekuphela emzimbeni, kodwa ngokomoya. Ukwenza oku, inani lezicatshulwa likhutshiwe kwiphepha elahlukileyo, inombolo yabo ibandakanyiwe kwi-odatory yeyethu. Emva koko umiselwe esandleni sengelosi. Ayivumelekanga ukongeza amagama ayo ajonge bonke ukunyaniseka kwingelosi yogada.Ukufunda uluhlu olunjalo luxhomekeke kwaye eyona iqheleke iqhelekile, kunye nabantu abathandekayo, abamkhathazayo. Ewe, ngexesha lokusebenza, umntu uyacima kwaye ufunde into ayikwazi. Oku kufanele ukuba kwenza izalamane, olu luncedo olongezelelweyo lwesigulana. Nangona kunjalo, akukho meko azidingi usithunzi wokucingisisa ukuvumela ukugqitywa kokusebenza.
Abathandazeni aboni, ababengazange bahlonele amanenekazi, ivila kwaye balele ukuba bangayi nako ukuyigcina imithandazo yabo. Lilungisa kuphela ilungisa kuphela ukwazi uThixo, Lowo uzukisa imithetho yakhe. Lo mthandazo usoloko unika uxolo lwengqondo kunye nemood kwimo elungileyo phambi kweshishini elinoxanduva.
Ukuqukumbela
Ukuthandaza ngaphambi kotyando, ikholwa kufuneka linyanzelwe. Ukuze yonke into idlula ngempumelelo, la manqaku alandelayo ayalandelwa:
- KuThixo ukubongoza, ukongeza abagulayo, kunye nezihlobo zazo;
- Kuyimfuneko ukulungiselela iintsuku ezingama-40 ngaphambi kotyando;
- Umthandazo okhawulezayo- "ingelosi yam, masihambe nam ...";
- Iiteki ezininzi ezingcwele ziyafundwa, esiya kuba sethu;
- Isicelo sempumelelo yokuSebenza sithunyelwe phambi kwayo, kwaye emva koko isigulana sikwigumbi lokusebenza.