Nawuphi na umzali, kubalulekile ukuba umntwana ebomini ziingxaki ezincinci ukuze zikhule njengomntu ofanelekileyo nosempilweni. Ngale nto, ngokufuthi umama notata basebenzisa imithandazo yaseOthodox malunga nabantwana, benethemba lokuba baya kuphumelela kwaye bazalisekise amaphupha abo. Ungaqhagamshelana noThixo ngomntwana wakho ngayo nayiphi na imeko, nokuba yonke into ihamba kakuhle kwaye akukho bunzima ebomini.
Ungathandazela njani abazali ngokuchanekileyo
Ukuze unxibelelane ngokwenyani noThixo, yayineziqhamo kwaye inika iziqhamo zakho, akunakwenzeka ukuba uthandaze umthandazo ngomntwana ngokusesikweni. Kuyimfuneko:- ngokucacileyo kwaye wenza nje izicelo zakho;
- ukwazi izicatshulwa ze-orthodox;
- Hlala ufumane ixesha elaneleyo lokufumana umyalezo ezulwini.
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Ungathandaza kuyo yonke indawo. Eyona nto iphambili kukuba imeko ithe cwaka kwaye yoxolo. Ewe, ukhetho olufanelekileyo yicawe ye-Orthodox, apho unokungenisa inqaku, kodwa nasekhaya phambi kwe-iconostasis, abazali beNkosi bacelwa ukuba baba nabantwana. Ewe, ukuba ikhandlela okanye isibane sikhanyisiwe. I-icon inokuba lonto, kodwa yenzekile ukuba ngomntwana uhlala ebongoza intombi enyulu.
Isakramente sinokwenziwa ngelize ngokupheleleyo. Kodwa kunokwenzeka phambi komntwana. Ngaphambi kokuba uqale, kuyimfuneko ukuyiwela.
Amandla omthandazo wabazali
Intliziyo kaMama ihlala ecaleni komntwana wakhe, nokuba ikhona enye indawo kude kwaye sele emntwini. Nabani na, yingxaki engenakuthelekiswa nanto, ushiya abazali ngomphefumlo kwaye ubangela ixhala. Oomama buza abaNgcwele kwaye uKrestu angahambi ngaphandle kwekhava yabantwana babo, ukuncedisa kwimeko enzima.
Umama kamama uyagula kumntwana owileyo uhlala enamandla kakhulu, ngamanye amaxesha iyanceda apho iyeza lithobe izandla. Rhoqo, xa isigulana silungiselela ukusebenza, oku kulandelayo kumthandazo oqinileyo wempilo kaLuka.
Ngezicelo zabafundi abaninzi, silungiselele isicelo "sekhalenda yeOrthodox" kwi-smartphone. Rhoqo kusasa uyakufumana ulwazi malunga nosuku lwangoku: Iiholide, iiposti, iintsuku zokukhumbula, imithandazo, imizekeliso, imizekeliso.
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Baguqukela njani abazali ezulwini? Isizathu sokuba yiyo nayiphi na:
- Umtshato wentombi okanye umtshato woNyana;
- ukusebenza kwengxaki;
- Yoyika ukuba umntwana unokukhohlisa, abakhohlakeleyo.
- Uloyiko lokuba abantu abancinci banikezela kwibhokhwe yeedemon.
Ukuba umthandazo uqala ekuseni, emva koko inkwenkwe yakhe ikhusela abantwana imini yonke. Ngomthandazo wangokuhlwa, uloyiko lobusuku, iphupha elothusayo alizukuchukumisa ukulala. Akunakwenzeka ukuba ungayihoyi intsikelelo. Isebenza njengesibambiso sempumelelo yomntu wakhe. Nawuphi na okuhle, nokuba lusizi, kuya kubakho unyana okanye intombi egxalabeni, ukuba umama amsikelela.
Abathathi-nxaxheba abangcwele babantwana: Bathandaza
Ezi phantse zonke ii-sarsists. Zikonakala ukuziphatha ngobubi obungahambelaniyo okanye ukusukela malunga nekamva kunye nobomi bomntwana wabo. Kungcono ukucela ukuthandaza ngokuxhomekeke kwingxaki ethile.Izifo ezisisiseko
Njengoko kuphawuliwe, kaninzi malunga nempilo yeqela elithandwayo libuzwa ngumama uThixo. Iyazukiswa rhoqo nge-phenomena emangalisayo ekuncedeni kwisifo somzimba. Imimangaliso emininzi edalwe yimimangaliso engummangaliso nobuso bakhe ziyaziwa ixesha elide. Ukuze woyise zonke izilonda zomntwana, ngaphezulu kwe-crib yakhe yabeka i-icon yeNtombi. Ke uhlala ephambi kwamehlo akhe, ukumkanikazi wezulu uya kukhwela phambi konyana wakhe.
Ukuba umntwana uyagula kangangokuba wabekwa esibhedlele, kufanelekile ukuba athandaze kuBawo nakunina ye-chad merthr riophone. Ababingeleli bacebisa ukuba bamthume izibongozo zabo kwaye kwimeko apho ungenelelo lonyango sele luqeshiwe. Batsho, ngoncedo lwento engcwele iya kuba yimpumelelo kwaye ukubuyisela kwimeko yesiqhelo kuya kudlula ngokukhawuleza.
Uwunceda umthandazo wendoda endala uMatisushka, ngakumbi ngenxa yesanda ezisathwaxukileyo. Ongcwele nemeko yokubanda eqinileyo, usulelo lwentsholongwane, ixesha elide kwaye ngelishwa lililela umntwana ngalo naliphi na iminyaka.
Isifo sikaMoya, impembelelo embi
Ukuba kuqatshelwe ukuba umntu okwishumi elivisayo ungene uhlobo oluthile lokuxhomekeka, wayeya kuhlangula. Abazali kunye nabafazi, umntwana uya kuba nakho ukuthetha kakuhle kwimikhwa emibi. UMsindisi, uyalela kwaye ubonise ukuba ngubani ongumhlobo wokwenene, kwaye ngubani onesiphene phakathi kwamaqabane akhe angaqhelekanga.Ukuba ngequbuliso umntwana uye walala, uyayeka ukumhlonela uYise nonina, akaphulaphuli abadala, emva koko babuyela kuSomandla.
Imithandazo yomntwana kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo
Ukuba unqwenela umama notata wakho, bakhusele umntwana kwiingxaki zemihla ngemihla, ukukhusela amatyala angalindelekanga kufuneka abhengezwe kwingelosi yakhe yogada. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, uhlala esisa, ukuqala kumaxesha okuqala, njengoko afayo, nakolokugqibela. Uhamba, axhasa ngendlela yobomi, ngamanye amaxesha ukondla imiqondiso. Ngelishwa, ayinguye wonke umntu obalandelayo. Nangona kunjalo, u-sueper okhutheleyo womgcini uya kuphakamisa ifuthe layo ukuba icocekile kwaye inyanisekile.
Ngokuthumela unyana okanye intombi ethile endleleni, ayinamsebenzi, ixesha elide, ininzi nje, umama uthandaza kuNicholas osebenza naye ngokuzenzela ukuzikhusela kunye nokubekwa esweni kwakhe igazi lakhe. Ngokukhethekileyo ukholosela ukholo kufuneka athandaze ukuba unyana ubizelwe emkhosini. Ukusenzeka kwentengiselwano ekhethekileyo yabameli abangamadoda kubonelelwe nguGeorgy uloyiso. Inyathelo elinamandla linokuphakamisa umthandazo kaBawo wonyana, ofundwa izihlandlo ezininzi.
I-yowsk yomama Ksenia ayiyi kumka ngaphandle kokuqeshwa kwabantwana abangenangqondo yokukhanya, kuyanceda ukuqhubela phambili ikamva elinzima labantwana ababuyela emzimbeni kunye nabo banesiphene ngokwasemzimbeni. Asimele silibale malunga ne-Saint Saint ogama lakhe ngumntwana. Imithandazo iya kunceda ekutsaleni imfesane ngomntwana wabo.
Iingcebiso zamakholwa kubazali
Jonga umthandazo wokujonga akukho lula. UThixo akamlibali mntu umntu emhlabeni, kodwa nguye kuphela onika umntu nokuba ufuna ntoni. Akufanelanga ukuba ulindele ukuba yonke into ihamba ngequbuliso. Kukho phakathi kwamaKristu nabukuthandabuza, bacinga ukuba iNkosi ixakekile yinto ebaluleke ngakumbi kwaye ebathandazela nje ayifikanga kuye. Ngapha koko, kubonakala kuninzi kwaye kuqonda kuphela ixesha elithile kamva, ngamanye amaxesha ixesha elide kakhulu.Ayinakuthandaza ukuba ingonelisekanga, ikhawuleze ikuSomandla. Isicelo siya kuza kuphela xa egqala inyani kwaye eyimfuneko. Kungcono ukuthandaza kwaye ufumane umvuzo ngokholo lwakho. Abazali bamele babe ngumzekelo, benika ukuqonda abantwana babo kunye nesono, esenayo, kwaye iyinyani indlela yokuthandaza.
Imithandazo katata nonina kubantwana babo - umtsalane ophumelelayo. Xa ezinye zazo zisikelela uCodo, umphefumlo womfana okhubalelayo ubuyela umoya oyingcwele. Uya konwaba ebomini, ukholo luya komelela, uya kufika phezulu loo phupha.
Ukuqukumbela
Umama ngamnye ooroki omnye kufuneka ahlambalaza phambi kwemikhosi yasezulwini malunga nentlalo-ntle yabantwana babo. Ukuba utata ujoyikisa, umthandazo uye womelela ngakumbi. Thandaza kwiNkosi engcwele neNkosi:
- Ukuze umntwana abe nentlungu okanye ngokukhawuleza afumaneke ukuba woyisa isifo sakhe;
- Kubomi bentsapho obonwabisayo kunye nomyeni olungileyo (inkosikazi);
- Bacela ukuhlangulwa kuzo zonke iintlobo zophawu olubi (sebenzisa ngaphandle kwenqanaba lotywala kunye necuba, ukuxhomekeka kwizinto kunye nabasetyhini);
- Ukuze ndifunde kakuhle, andikoyiki ukuhamba ephupheni lam, ndifune impumelelo.