Kuwo nawuphi na umntu obhinqileyo onomntwana, eyona nto iphambili ebomini yimpilo-ntle yakhe. Ukuze yonke into iphumelele, umthandazo wabazali uyadingeka ngomntwana, impumelelo kunye nentembelo ebomini. Eyona nto iphambili kukukholelwa ukuba iya kunceda kuzo zonke iimeko ezinzima zobomi ngamanye amaxesha zithintela ikamva elihlekayo.
Incoko enjalo nezulu ichazela umzali nonxibelelwano lwayo olungabonakaliyo. Intliziyo kamama ingumthombo ongathandekiyo wothando oluxabisekileyo wasemhlabeni. Imithandazo ekhoyo yeNtombi enguBantwana iyanceda ukubamba olu nxibelelwano kwaye yenza ubomi bomntwana wonwabe.
Imithandazo yeNtombi enyulu
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Kwi-orthodoxy, ithathwa njengeyona nto ikhutheleyo yabantwana. Ngapha koko, yena nonina, umphefumlo wakhe kunye nentliziyo yevahlela ngoNyana, wayesele amanxeba asentlungwini yakhe. Ukuba phantsi komnqamlezo, xa uNyana wayebandezeleka, wafumana uluntu phantsi kwenyameko yakhe. Ukusukela ngoko, ngaphandle kokudideka ngaye, kuyaboleka phambi koThixo. Umthandazo onyanisekileyo wokuba amanzi acocekileyo, ukungcola kwesono ngomphefumlo, kwaye umthandazo kamama womelele njengokuba umntwana uza kuphuma emazantsi enzonzobila. Umthandazo kanina wentombi, ngenxa yabantwana bakhe, izithixo ziyandandla amandla anikezwe nguYehova.
Uvavanyo lwengcwaba lokuba umama xa umntwana wakhe esigula, ngakumbi ukuba isifo esoyikekayo, esinganyangekiyo. Umfazi uhluphekile, ngokulungele ukukhetha bonke iintlungu zabantwana, kodwa unokunceda nantoni na. Kukho uncedo olusebenzayo-umthandazo wentliziyo uvela emanzini. Kutheni le nto isenzeka? Kutheni umama ekwazi ukuluncedo, ngoncedo lokuthandaza ukuba nefuthe kwikhosi yeziganeko? Yonke into ilula. Ikhonkco elingabonakaliyo phakathi kwakhe kunye neti lakhe liyaqhubeka bonke ubomi bakhe, ngenxa yeenyanga ezili-9 babenxulumene ngokusondeleyo omnye komnye kwaye babeyinto eyodwa. Emva kokuzalwa komphefumlo uqhubeka kufutshane.
Imvakalelo yentliziyo yokuntywila kukaMama kunye neentlanga ezininzi, uncwadi lweempawu ezahlukeneyo zenziwe ngengozi. Kuyakwazi ukuziva kude kube ekudeni kwento engalunganga yomntwana ukuze agule okanye ubomi bakhe abubekwa. Kwangelo xesha, indima katata ayinciphisi. Kwaye ukuthandaza yonke imihla, ukuvela kwaoko kwaoko kubo bobabini abazali, kuya kuba nefuthe elingakumbi lokufumana abantwana ikamva.
Umthandazo "ongxamisekileyo"
Ngezicelo zabafundi abaninzi, silungiselele isicelo "sekhalenda yeOrthodox" kwi-smartphone. Rhoqo kusasa uyakufumana ulwazi malunga nosuku lwangoku: Iiholide, iiposti, iintsuku zokukhumbula, imithandazo, imizekeliso, imizekeliso.
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Le yindlela ekunokwenzeka ukuba ibiza i-tist isibhengezo sikaThixo, xa amaconsi okugqibela ethemba lokubuyiselwa kweChad yabo ilahlekile. Kwangelo xesha, akukho kwimeko engazange ihoywa ngamabhunga othando kunye neengcebiso. Nangona kunjalo, iya kuba luncedo emntwaneni ukukhwaza kungekuphela nje emzimbeni, kufuneka kakhulu umoya wakhe kunye nokunceda umthandazo.
I-Orthodox iqinisekile ukuba umthandazo onjalo uya kuhlanganisa zonke ezo nkundla zingabi ntweni. Imizekelo xa kugcinwe indawo engabonakaliyo eyasebenza xa umntu enyukele kwiinyawo zakhe, ukugula kwakhe, kakhulu. Kunye nemithandazo yeNtombi malunga nomntwana ukuba afunde: " Nkosi Yesu Krestu, iBudy Inceba yakho Kubantwana bam».
Umthandazo weentsana yonke imihla
Kwinkqubo enzima yokukhulisa umntwana ngalo naliphi na iminyaka, ukufundisisa rhoqo ngomthandazo ophengudokiox kuya kuba ngumncedisi othembekileyo. Nokuba uthandaza yonke imihla, ixesha liya kuchitha kancinci. Ezo zicelo ezihlangabezana nabantwana banamhlanje kungekuphela nje kwinkqubo yokufunda, kodwa kunxibelelwano, ichaphazela kakubi imeko yonke yomntwana.
Yonke imithwalo ebangela isingqisho esingenakuphumla, ukuphazamisa kakhulu umntwana ukuba athobele, egxile. Kunzima kuye ukuba akwazi ukujamelana nolwazi. Rhoqo, ngenxa yoku, akanakukwazi ukujongana nemfundiso. Malunga nabafana abangakwaziyo ukufunda kakuhle, kuyayimfuneko nokukhathazeka ebantwini abangcwele kwaye Oyena uphakamileyo. Ngubani ocebisa ababingeleli ukuba bathandaze? Okokuqala, i-nicholas yomsebenzi, emva koko i-Sergia Radzh kunye neSt. UJohn kronanced.
Ungathandaza njani
Kukho imithetho emininzi emiGawulayo yokunxibelelana nomama eNkosini naseOrthodox. Zijonge ngokukhethekileyo kuwo onke amaKristu. Kuphela kweli meko kuphela apho unokufumana iziphumo ezifunekayo.
Ubisi lulandela imeko ehlaziyiweyo, ekhaya kwi-Iconostasis okanye kwiindonga zetempile. Ewe, ukuba esisandleni siyakukhanyisa ikhandlela okanye ukutshisa phantsi kweecomp zesibane. Ungathandaza wedwa okanye ubukho bomntwana. Kwimeko yokugqibela, emva kokugqitywa kwesiko, kufuneka iwele. Dlulisa amagama ngesicelo sempilo ye-kid ngesiko kukhetho phambi kwe icon yenenekazi lethu.
Yintoni amandla omthandazo woomama kwiNtombi malunga nabantwana
Nayiphi na ingxaki yomntwana iphendula kwintliziyo enothando yama-mama iintlungu kunye namava. Kwaye uNyana okanye intombi ingekabi ixesha elide, aya kuhlala ngonaphakade. USomandla kunye nentombi enguMariya abayi kuze bangabi nanxaxheba kwimithandazo yoMama. Kukholelwa ukuba isibongozo esishushu sinokusigcina nakwiimeko ezingenathemba xa oogqirha benyuka izandla.
Amandla amakhulu-ukholo ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo. Isithembiso esihle kwihlabathi likaThixo siyakwazi imimangaliso. Umsebenzi womama kaThixo uya kunceda
- Iintombi ngokuzalwa komntwana;
- unyana kasukelayo;
- Khusela abantwana abangenamava kwinkohliso yabantu abayingozi;
- kwiidemon zebhokhwe.
Ukuba umzali wayenyamekela ekuseni, ethandaza abantwana, esusa iingxaki kubo ngenxa yokuba yonke imini ezayo. Imithandazo yobusuku inika uxolo lomntwana kunye nokulala, ngaphandle kwamaphupha amabi kunye namaphupha aphazamisayo. Akukho sidingo sokulibala ukusikelela umntwana wakho yonke imihla, iya kumnceda akwazi ukujamelana nenkxalabo ezayo.
"Unyanga"
Enye yeempawu ezomeleleyo kunceda ukujamelana nesi sifo. Zininzi iingcwele, kodwa kwezi ngxaki, kuyacetyiswa ukubhekisa kumfanekiso "wonyango". Rhoqo, kwimizuzwana yokuphelelwa lithemba, abantu basetyhini bathandaza kuye, kwaye, kwiinkumbulo zabaninzi, uncedo lwaluza.
I-01.10-ithathelwa ingqalelo ukuba ikhumbule usuku. Ngolu suku, kulungile ukutyelela itempile kwaye ucele ukuphiliswa komchasi wakho. Siza kuxelela kuphela ngenye yeemeko ezininzi zoncedo lomfanekiso kubantu. Emka kamsinyane, wasishiya ingqukumbela, kwaye ulwimi lwalo lwaba mnyama. Iintlungu zomelele kangangokuba wakhwaza ukongeza kwintando yakhe. Emva koko uTata osweleyo wathandaza ukuba axole umfanekiso kamama kaThixo, ukuze amsindise kwintlungu. Ndide ndilahlekelwe yimikhosi yokugqibela, wancuma imithandazo yakhe.
Ngokwezinto zokuzibonela ezibanyamekela abagulayo, kubhaliwe ukuba igumbi lakhe lokulala lakhe liqaqambile, ngokungathi bahlabe emhlophe, babonakala phambi kwentombi enyulu. Ichukumiseke kaninzi intonga ukuya eVineti, kwaye ukuzalwa kwakhona. Ukususela ngelo xesha, kukho umfanekiso omangalisayo phantse kuzo zonke iicawa, kwaye ngandlela thile kwaye esibhedlele.
Ukuqukumbela
Ngenxa yoko, i-orthodox nganye icacile loo nto
- Umthandazo wowekazi womntwana lowomeleleyo;
- Malunga nempilo yesigulana iKada kufuneka icelwe kwintombazana enyulu ngawo wonke umphefumlo kunye nemihla ngemihla, ivutha ikhandlela;
- Akunakwenzeka ukuba ungayilibali intsikelelo ekuseni;
- Kulungile ukuba imithandazo yentombi kunye noNgcwele kumntwana wakhe iya kufunda ngentliziyo.