Amagama amantombazana kangangeenyanga kwiKhalenda yeCawa

Ndihlala ndinceda abahlobo bam ekukhetheni igama labantwana babo. Ndilangazelele ukufunda lo mbuzo xa ndinyula intombi yam kwiKhalenda yeCawe. Ke ngoko, namhlanje ndiza kukuxelela indlela yokukhetha igama elilungileyo lentombazana kangangeenyanga kwaye kutheni kubalulekile ukunikela ingqalelo enkulu kulo mbandela.

Kutheni kunzima ukukhetha igama elitsha?

Ukuzalwa komntwana sisiganeko esibalulekileyo. Kwaye hayi kuphela abazali kwixesha elizayo, balungiselela kuye, kodwa nezalamane ezikufutshane. Eyona ngxaki izama ukuthabatha isigqibo, njengoko besitsho, umhlaba uphela kukhetho lwegama. Kwabaninzi, olu luvavanyo lokwenene. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, zininzi amagama ahle kakhulu afaneleke ngokugqibeleleyo amantombazana.

Kwaye ukhethe ukusuka kwezinye iintlobo akukho lula. Ngapha koko, abazali baqonda ngokugqibeleleyo ukuba amagxa abo ngumthwalo omkhulu woxanduva. Njengalo gama, umntwana uya kunxiba ubomi bonke. Ngenxa yoko, kufuneka ilungele.

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Ingabonakala ngathi ukhetho lwegama ngumsebenzi olula. Nangona kunjalo, kuphela ngabo bangakhange basebenze ukuba ngumzali ukuba bacinge njalo. Kuba abo sele benabantwana bayazi ukuba kunzima kangakanani ukhetho:

1. Ngokusisiseko, ubunzima bunxulumene nokukhetha igama ukuba onke amalungu osapho. Ewe kunjalo, uninzi lwengqondo lunyanzelisa ukuba ukhetho lufanele ukuba lusekwe kuphela kwiimvakalelo zabazali ngokwabo. Ngapha koko, lo ngumntwana wabo, kwaye abanyanzelekanga ukuba bakholise ngokwakho. Yinyani into yonke into eyahluke ngokupheleleyo. Kwaye uluvo lwezihlobo kulo mbandela udlala indima yokugqibela.
2. Utata nonina akukho lula ukufumanisa ngenxa yenyani yokuba utshintsho lwefashoni. Nokuba ihlekisa kangakanani, isenokuvakala, kodwa yenzeka ngenene. Ngoku amagama anjengoTamara, uthando, iZoya, iGalina iyinto eqhelekileyo. Ubukhulu becala, amagama anjalo ngabantu abazelwe kumaxesha eSoviet. Kwaye ke akunzima ukcinga ukuba abazali boyika ukuba igama lazo ekugqibeleni liya kuba "lubunzima" kwaye umntwana uya kukhula esikolweni.
3. Ihlala yenzeka rhoqo ukuba abazali bajamelane nengxaki enxulumene nomnqweno wokuchaza umntwana ngokuzukisa umntu ovela kwiqela leCawe. Le mnqweno ithandekayo ihlala inobangela ukuxabana kwentsapho. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, zonke izamezwe zifuna ukuba lilungu elincinci lentsapho kwimbeko yakhe. Njengomthetho, ngenxa yeengxabano ezinjalo, abazali kufuneka balilahle ngokupheleleyo lo mbono. Ekubeni ihlabathi kusapho lingaphezulu kwako konke.
4. Iingxaki ezininzi zihambisa kwaye zikhethe igama, linefani nefani kunye ne-patrolymic. Kufanelekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba akukho ngxaki injalo kuphela kumazwe angaphandle. Okokuqala, ayikho into efana ne-patrolimic. Okwesibini, abemi belinye ilizwe abakukhathalelanga ukudityaniswa kwegama labo kunye nefani, kuba kwixa elizayo banokutshintsha. Ngenxa yoko, ayinamsebenzi ukuba athathe igama lefani ethile. Ngokukodwa, xa kuziwa kwintombazana. Ngapha koko, abafazi, njengoko uyazi, emva kokuba umtshato uthathe ifani yendoda.

Kufanelekile ukukhankanya ukuba uninzi lwabazali luphenjelelwa yimfashini kwaye lubize abantwana ngokuhlonitshwa kwamagorha athanda iifilimu okanye iincwadi. Emva kokuphuma kwerekhodi yemali, nakwezona ndawo zangaphambili ze-CIS, abantwana bathathelwa indawo ngamagama abadlali abathandwayo okanye ii-protototypes zabo.

Icawe ayivumeli okufanayo kwaye ngokungakhathali ikhumbuza amaKristu ngemfuneko yokukhokelwa ziinjongo ezahlukeneyo xa ukhetha igama lomntwana.

Kutheni le nto kungafunwanga ukubiza intombazana enegama laphesheya?

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Eminye iminyaka engama-20 eyadlulayo, ootitshala babemangalisiwe xa umfundi evele kwiklasi yabo ngegama le-Angelina okanye iStephanie. Kuba amagama abantu basetyhini abasebenza lula. Kodwa ngoku ayimangalisiyo. Ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, abazali abaninzi bakhetha ukubiza abantwana ngamagama asemzini. Kodwa oku akuvumi kuphela icawe, kodwa neengcali zengqondo. Siza kuzama ukufumanisa ukuba kutheni isimo sengqondo sokucalucalucalulo ngamagama aphesheya.

Kwaoko kufanelekile ukuba bakhawuleze ukuba ngokufanayo ayibonisi uhlobo oluthile lokungathandi. Yonke into icacisiwe. Inyani yile yokuba amagama abantu abahlala kumazwe ahlukeneyo bahluke ngokupheleleyo. Kwaye kubantu bomthonyama, umzekelo, iJamani, igama likaTamara liya kubonakala lunzima, kwaye amaKorea kunzima ukuyithetha. Yonke le nto iqhagamshelwe kwiimpawu zolwimi.

Ukuba ubiza ngokuba yintombazana ezalelwe eMelika, uJuliana, awuyi kudala naziphi na iingxaki. Nangona kunjalo, abantu baseRussia, abantu baseUkraine kunye namaBelaus kuya kuba nobunzima obuthile, bethetha eli gama. Kuba indibaniselwano yezandi ayiqhelekanga kakhulu.

Akukho sidingo sokulibala malunga negama lasemzini, eli, ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, lihle, linokwenza uqhutyekwe ngumntwana. Ihlala iyimfuneko ukukhumbula ukuba abantwana abancinci bangabasebenzi kakhulu ngokunxulumene nento abangayiqondi. Kwaye ke, ukuba amathuba okuthile intombazana enegama elingaqhelekanga iya kuba sisigaba eklasini.

Iintsomi malunga nokuchaneka kwegama

Kumaxesha amandulo, amagama ayesoloko ekhethwe ngononophelo. Kwangelo xesha, abazali babengakhokelwa yiminqweno yabo. Bakwahlonela isiko kwaye bakhunjulwa ngokuvalwa. La ngoku amaKristu ayaliwe ngokuqiniseka ukholo kokoucalulo. Nangona kunjalo, kumaxesha amandulo, abantu, kwanabe bakholwa ngokwenyani, bafumana iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zocalucalulo. Cinga ngeenkolelo ezidumileyo kunye nezithintelo malunga nokukhetha kwegama lentombazana.

Intsomi yokuqala ithi umntwana akanakubizwa ehlonitshwayo kwisalali okanye nayiphi na ilali yelali. Ngoku kuya kubonakala yinto engaqhelekanga, kodwa ngezo ntsuku abantu bakholelwa ukuba le ayimkelekanga. Ngokukodwa, ukuba iintsuku zegama elingqinelana negama labantu abanamagama abazinxibileyo. Kwaye kukho iinkcazo ezimbini zoku:

1. Okokuqala, abantu babekholelwa ukuba igama elithile lalinamandla athile. Ukuba ubiza umntwana osandula ukuzalwa ngegama lomntu onekratshi elingonwabisiyo, wonakaliswa ubomi bakhe. Kuba uya kuphinda ikati yomntu, igama lakhe linxibe.
2. Okwesibini, oku kuvalwa ngokunxulumene nabantu abaphumeleleyo. Kwakukholelwa ukuba umntwana wayenokufudukela kwithamsanqa kuye. Ngamanye amagama, unokufaka nje ikamva lomnye umntu. Ngenxa yoko, umntu wesibini wayethandane nobomi obungonwabisiyo nokufa ngama-ambulensi.

Kungenxa yoko le nto abahlali bekhetha ukunika amagama amantombazana kwikhalenda yecawa. Bakholelwa ukuba bayamkhusela umntwana kwimikhosi yemisitho ngale ndlela, kuba wafumana igama awalifumanayo nabakhusela. Babengu-Angel oGumileyo kunye ne-patron engcwele. Kuyaphawuleka ukuba kude kube kude kube ngamanye amaxesha, amaKristu ayekholelwa ukuba wonke umntu wayengumgcini. Kodwa kamva icawe ikwazile ukweyisela onke amakholwa kunye nobukho babangcwele babaxhasi. Kwaye ke, igama legama laqalisa ukunxulumana nokuthantamisa okukhulu.

Kufanelekile ukuba ukufumanisa ukuba kule minyaka yayikho esinye isiko elinomdla, ngalo, ngelishwa, aligcinwanga. Kude kube lixesha elithile, abazali bomntwana balahlwa ukwazisa igama lakhe. Yaziwa kuphela kubazali. Esi siko lavela ngenxa yenkolelo yakudala. Ifunda ukuba ingelosi yokufa inokuthatha umntwana kwelinye ilizwe ukuba ayifumanisa igama lakhe.

Ukongeza, abantwana bathatyathwa ukunika amagama amabini. Igama lokuqala lathiwa nguwo wonke umntu, owesibini wayeyimfihlo. Wayesaziwa ngabazali kuphela no-MOPA. Isiko elifanayo linengcaciso efanelekileyo ngokupheleleyo. Njengoko kuchaziwe apha ngasentla, kude kube lixesha elithile, abantu babenenkolela enkulu.

Babekholelwa ukuba ubuhlungu okanye umntu ongendawo unokubangela ukonakala kuphela ukuba bayalazi igama lazo ixhoba. Ngenxa yoko, ukuba uyalifihla igama losana, ngelo xesha abayi kuba nako ukukhonzakalisa, kuba baya kuba namandla. Ewe kunjalo, fihla igama lonke ubomi bam bekungakwazi. Kodwa isigqibo safunyanwa. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, abefundisi bacebisa ukusebenzisa igama elahlukileyo xa ubhaptiziwe.

Ukukhetha kweKhalenda yeCawe-Esona sisombululo silungileyo

Ababingeleli bacebisa ukuba abakholwayo bangazikisi isiko ukuba bakhethe igama ngokwekhalenda ye-Orthodox. Oku kuqhagamshele ngokuthe ngqo kwinto yokuba ngumxhasi ongumntwana onomntwana osikhusela ebomini bakhe bonke. Ewe, ingelosi yogada nayo ikhwaza indlela yakhe ebumnyameni kwaye inceda ukujamelana nobunzima. Nangona kunjalo, ukuthuthuzelwa kwentshukumo yenzelwa ukucela i-Saint Patron.

Ukongeza, ababingeleli bakholelwa ukuba le ntuthuli yabangcwele inokunceda umntu ajongane nazo zonke izilingo, umonakalo, i-Schalu. Idlala indima enkulu, ukuba umntwana wonakalisiwe. Kuba abantwana abancinci abanamandla oMoya, abanakho ukuzimela ngokuzimela neveranda. Rhoqo bafuna uncedo ngaphandle kwabazali kuphela, kodwa nakwizalamane zonke. Kwaye ukuba umntwana akanayo i-patron, emva koko abekho lo monakalo usasebenza.

Ungayikhetha njani igama leenyanga?

Ukuwa ngumbono wokukhetha igama lomntwana kwiKhalenda yeCawe, kufuneka ukhumbule eminye yemithetho elandelayo:

• Ukuba amantombazana azalwe ebusika, kufuneka ukhethe amagama ebusika;
• Kwimeko apho kukho iingcwele ezininzi ngomhla wokuzalwa kwakhe ngosuku lokuzalwa kwakhe, unokukhetha igama eligama;
• Ukukhetha igama ngokweKhalenda yeCawe, kubaluleke kakhulu ukukhumbula ukuba umntwana uza kuphinda ikati yomxhasi weSaint. Ngesi sizathu, akucetyiswa ukukhetha amagama abagwebi;
• Unokukhetha amagama obokelekileyo. Kuba oku kuthathwa njengophawu oluhle;
• Kuya kufuneka uqwalasele inyani yokuba igama liya kuyishiya i-facent kwi-factor yentombazana.

Ukulandela le migaqo ilula yokhetho, umzali ngamnye uya kuba nakho ukukhetha ngokulula igama elifanelekileyo kwintombi yakhe.

Ukuqukumbela

1. Ukuba umntu akanalo igama likaPorron igama, unokufumana imeko enzima kakhulu.
2. Amagama angaphandle angakhokelela ekulimaleni kwengqondo ngokwengqondo emntwaneni, ongamkelekanga ngokupheleleyo kwaye angafuneki.
3. Ngaphambili, ngenxa yeenkolelo, abantwana banikwa amagama amabini ngokuzalwa.