Kutheni le nto abantu bethandaza ngaphambi kokuba batye? Bendihlala ndibonakala kum ukuba kukho into engalunganga kuyo, icacile. Indoda leyo yayithandaza kusasa nangokuhlwa, yathetha noThixo, kwaye kulungile. Yintoni ukutya, into yekhaya? Ngapha koko, isibongozo somthandazo sibaluleke kakhulu.
Nam ndiyiqonda le kumzekelo wam. Waqalisa ukuthandaza kuba bekukho iingxaki ngokugaya, kwaye ikholwa eliqhelekileyo licebise ukuba sisidlo sakusasa sinxibelelane noThixo. Ndiqale ndazichaza ngale ndlela: Ndiza kufunda ukuzola, ndingenelele ekutyeni.
Kodwa ebomini lwahluka ngokwahlukileyo. Lo mkhwa undiqonda ngakumbi ukholo lobuKristu, ndatshintsha indlela endijonga ngayo ubomi. Kwaye ndifuna ukwabelana ngolwazi malunga nendlela yokufunda imithandazo ngayo isidlo sasemini nasemva kwesidlo kwaye kutheni kufuneka yenziwe.
Umthandazo ngaphambi kokutya-umbulelo kuThixo ngezipho zakhe
Umthandazo wokubhengeza kwisidlo sasemini usenza sicinge: Kuthetha ntoni ukuba ngumKristu? Uhamba ngempelaveki uye etempileni, kwaye kulungile. Mhlawumbi abaninzi bafunda ulawulo lwangokuhlwa nohlwa. Kodwa ngaba uziva uqhagamshelo noThixo? Ukuba ngumKristu kuthetha ukutshintsha ngaphakathi kwaye kutshintsha ubomi bakho.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukwenza inyathelo ngalinye, ukunxibelelana ngaphakathi noThixo njengophawu ongumntu ophakamileyo. Ngale ndlela, kukho enye yezona zinto zibalulekileyo ebomini bethu. Eli nyathelo esiqhubeka ngalo ubomi bethu.
Ngapha koko, sithatha into eyenziwe nguMdali. Kwaye umthandazo we-Orthodox ngaphambi kokutya usinceda ukuba siqonde le ngcinga inzulu.
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Xa sithandaza kwitafile yesidlo sangokuhlwa, sibulela kuye uThixo ngobomi, ukuphefumla, sidle, sitye, sinemizuzu nganye yobomi bakho.
Isibhengezo somthandazo simngcwalisa isidlo sethu sangokuhlwa, ayenza ayisiyiyo nje into ethile yesondlo, kodwa engcwele, apho ubabalo lukaThixo lufika ebomini bethu.
Kukho umthandazo obongoza uThixo ngaphambi kokutya kwaye sibe yintsingiselo esebenzayo-inyani, sizolile, singene kwincoko noThixo, kwaye isinceda ukuba sikhusele ekuziphatheni ukutya.
Umthandazo wokubulela isibongozo - isiseko sokholo
Namhlanje sihlala kwisingqisho esiqatha, asinalo ixesha lokuyeka, sicinge ngoThixo, siluve ubukho bakhe ngakuyo. Ukutya kuthi, okokuqala, ezinye iindlela zokuzonwabisa, 'uYummy ", esinoxinzelelo.
Ukutya kuba ngumdlalo okanye inkqubo yokutshaja iibhetri, oko kukuthi, into isetyenziswa kakuhle. Ngamanye amaxesha asiqapheli ukungcamla kweemveliso, singxamile ukuginya izahlulo zethu kwaye sibaleke kwimicimbi yethu.
Umthandazo ulungisa le meko lusizi. Ngendlela, abo bantu banemikhwa eluncedo yokuthandaza ngaphambi kokuba batye, kunqabile ukuba baneengxaki zokugaya, abanazo izifo zephecana elipheleleyo.
Emva kokuluma ukutya, kuyanqweneleka ukuthandaza, enkosi uMdali ngenxa yakhe izipho ezenziwe nguye, ukuze ukuqhubela kobomi.
Umthandazo uyanceda:
- lungiselela ngendlela ezolileyo;
- phucula ukugaya;
- Yamkela umbulelo wabo kuThixo;
- Vakalisa uMdali wothando.
Ungawufunda njani umthandazo ngaphambi kwesidlo
Masikhumbule indlela abaphila ngayo ooyihlo bethu. Kubo, isibongozo somthandazo yayisisiseko sobomi. Benza yonke into ngomthandazo kwaye baqala bangenzanga ukuthandaza ngaphambi kwesidlo sangokuhlwa. Iintsapho zabanobuhlobo, ezinkulu, kwaye ekuswelekeni kweminyaka yokutya kwanele wonke umntu.
Isidlo sangokuhlwa sasilungiselela eyona nto ibalulekileyo kwabafazi, umdala wam wamnceda. Ukulungiselela rhoqo ngomthandazo, izitya eziphekiweyo eziphekiweyo. Ngoku esi siko ligqabi. Uninzi lwethu luthelekisa izitya ezenziwe kwivenkile. Kwaye ayaziwa ukuba yintoni injongo yesidlo sasemini esinokuzisa.
Le meko inokulungelelanisa owakho umthandazo ngaphambi kokuqala kokutya. Nokuba awuzange wenze ngesidlo sakho sangokuhlwa, isibongozo ngokunyaniseka kuThixo sinceda ekungcwaliseni, senze iluncedo ngakumbi.
Ukuba ucinga ngokutya, kuya kucacile: Ukutya kukubonakaliswa kwenkxalabo kaThixo ngabantu. Yonke into esemhlabeni yadalwa nguThixo, kwaye ukutya sikusebenzisayo umsebenzi wobomi, ukwandisa inqanaba lamandla, ukuqhubeka nobomi bakho xa uphela, naye udalwe nguThixo. Kufuneka siyixabise le nyaniso kwaye simbulele uThixo ngenyaniso yokuba sinokutya.
Ke ngoko, ekuqaleni kwesidlo kwakhona, khumbula le nto, engqondweni (okanye ngokuvakalayo, ukuba kufanelekile) enkosi ngesidlo sakho sasemini okanye isidlo sangokuhlwa, kwaye sifunde umthandazo wakho wesidlo. Isenokuba sisicatshulwa esikhethekileyo sokutya.
Kodwa ukuba awukwazi ukukhumbula, emva koko ufunde "uBawo" wethu okanye ozitshabalalisiyo, vuyise. " Le yintsikelelo yokuthandaza ngokufunda ngayo, uya kungcwaliswa isidlo sasemini. E-Orthodoxy, intsikelelo enelungelo lokungabi ngababingeleli kuphela, kodwa nawo onke amakholwa. Emva kokufunda umthandazo, wela izitya kwaye ufike kwisidlo sangokuhlwa ngomphefumlo ozolileyo.
Intsingiselo yentsingiselo
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ungathandaze kuphela ngaphambi kokuqalisa ukutya, kodwa uphinde wafundisa abantwana. Abantwana bethu bahlala kwihlabathi elahlukileyo ngokupheleleyo, beza kugqatswa kwemali, ukuze bazuze ubomi obudala.
Ke ngoko, kuya kufuneka, njengabazali, chaza abantwana, ebaluleke kakhulu ehlabathini- lo ngumphefumlo. Ayinakuthengwa nantoni na. Umphefumlo ucocwa kuphela ngokunxibelelana noThixo. Umzekelo wakho uya kuba sisifundo esihle sabantwana bakho: Zithandazele, kwaye ziya kuphinda amagama ezicatshulwa ezingcwele emva kwakho.
Kuphela kusapho, umntwana unokuba sisimo sengqondo esihle nabanye abantu, acacisa amandla amakhulu omthandazo. Ukuba unyana okanye intombi yakho ibona indlela othandaza ngayo ngaphambi kokutya nasemva kokutya, emva koko ziya kuza ngendlela efanayo.
Ukuqonda kwabo ubomi kuya kuba kwahlukile: Kuya kuvela ngakumbi uthando ngakumbi, ukuhlonipha, ukuqonda. Kwaye kuya kubakho esinye isimo sengqondo sokutya-njengento engcwele.
Kuthekani ukuba uyatyelela okanye ukhangela kwi-cafe? Akukho nto iyoyikisayo, ungathandazela. Kwaye ungabhengeza isicatshulwa somthandazo ngelizwi eliphantsi, awuphazamini nabani na.
Njengomthandazo ngaphambi kwesidlo, unokusebenzisa:
- Imithandazo yeCanonical (eyethu ");
- Imithandazo yombulelo, ibonakalisiwe ngamazwi abo;
- Umthandazo okhethekileyo ("Amehlo Bonke ...").