Ayisiyo yonke iphupha elinokukuxelela ukuba liphi amaphupha efowuni - indlela, ngayo, uninzi lwazo lubhalwe kwiminyaka engama-50 eyadlulayo, ngamanye amaxesha, xa ezo zixhobo zabonakala zimnandi. Nangona kunjalo, i-psychoanalystics yengqondo yanamhlanje ayihlali, ke ngoku uyakukhulisa iphupha lakho kungekuphela nje ngokwamasekela ngokwemigaqo, kodwa nakwiinffini.
Ukutolikwa ngokubanzi kokulala
- "Ifowuni" yamaphupha athathwa njengophawu lonxibelelwano nehlabathi elingaphandle, hayi nabamelwane "abamelwane", kodwa nabahlobo nabahlobo abalungileyo. Ukungafikeleli kulala kamnandi, khumbula iimvakalelo zakho. Ukuba ngexesha lokuphupha kwakho lonwabile, oko kuthetha ukuba iphupha alikho mvume imbi.
"Ngaba" Ngaba "Ngaba" Ngaba "?
- Jonga ifowuni ephathekayo, i "Inkangeleko ethi" Yabonakala ngathi ibaluleke kakhulu: ecaleni kwakho kukho umntu ongenamntu (osebenza naye okanye umhlobo wakho), olwakha ibhokhwe ngasemva kwakho. Mhlawumbi ukhokelwa ngumona, lunika neengcebiso eziyingozi. Cinga kakuhle owevayo!
- Wayentsha kwaye "unobuchule": ubomi baba yimpumelelo, kwaye kuwo onke "amaqaba" ukusuka kwikhondo lomsebenzi kuye. Nangona kunjalo, awukabi nento eyaneleyo. Zama ukuqalisa i-hobby esebenzayo, nyuka.
- "Umbhobho" wamandulo "nge-Antenna uthi: Uyilondolozile kwingqondo ka-Bone. Mhlawumbi kude ubudala-wayikrola ukuthintela ukuba ubuhlobo. Musa ukoyika utshintsho, kodwa nokuzithemba ngokungaboniyo ukuba i-stereotypes yoluntu ayifaneleki.
Imbonakalo "Imibhobho"
- Imodeli eqaqambileyo kuphela evela kwibhokisi (ukusuka kwivenkile): Kungekudala uya kubazi abantu, kwaye iya kuba yintsebenziswano kakhulu. Mhlawumbi umntu uya kuba luncedo ngomsebenzi, kwaye mhlawumbi uya konwaba uthando.
- Eyaphukileyo. Ungayifihli intloko yakho entlabathini! Xa ujamelene nengxaki, uzama ukusombulula kuphela ukubonakaliswa kwakhe kwangaphandle - kodwa "amatye aphantsi komhlaba" "akasayi kukhala naphi na!
- Eyaphukileyo. Kweli phupha, unxibelelana ne-subconating: ugcwele uloyiko, uloyiko lokudala ixesha elide. Endaweni yokuvuka ebusuku kwaye uzigqume ngokwakho ngeengcinga ezimbi, yenza into esebenzayo. Bhalisela iikhosi zonyango, funda indlela yokwenza ukuba i-massage-zizakhono ezilungileyo ukomeleza ubudlelwane.
- Ngawaphi amaphupha efowuni ngefowuni eqhekezayo? Ungowokhuni ", ungazi ukuba uveza abantu. Ukucinga ukuba uyasiqonda isizathu sezenzo zabantu, uhlala uphosakele.
- Ifowuni engaqhelekanga, "ixilongo" yomhlobo, elithethayo, omnye umntu. Uthanda i-shrock kwi "Inoveli yenkonzo", umntu olungileyo, kodwa ngelishwa, esebenza. Ugcina abahlobo, ubancede, benze i-akin kwingcebiso ebalaseleyo ... kwaye xa usenza ntoni?
- Ukuphupha ngomnxeba ongafakwanga kunotoliko olwahlukileyo, kodwa kufanelekile kuphela ngamaphupha enkonzweni: uthando olunyanisiweyo lweqabane lakho. Indoda ikholelwa ekubeni unethamsanqa kakhulu.
Wenzeni?
- Ndithethe kwiselfowuni. Umntu uyakuvala.
- Unxibelelwano lwaphazamiseka ngalo lonke ixesha. Ukulala uthi: Uneengxabano nomntu omthandayo. Ukuze ungasasazeki, unganyamezeli, musa ukuphikisana kwitrafi.
- Beva kakubi ngabo. Akunakwenzeka ukuba ube yi-egos, cinga ngezalamane, azifuni nje, kodwa zifanelwe ngqwalaselo yakho.
- Uye wakhwaza kwityhubhu okanye wanxibelelana ngokweemvakalelo. Ukuxabana kwekhaya - akuyi kukhangelwa, kodwa kuya kuba sisifundo esithile kulwalamano.
- Ibizwe kumntu: Ukulala uthi uhlala unomntu oxhomekeke kuwo.
- Uvile umnxeba, kodwa awuthathi ifowuni? Shiya ifowuni ephathekayo ephupheni ngaphandle kokuqwalaselwa: uyakoyika ngamandla obunxulumene nekamva, kwaye uzama ukuba kude ekusombululeni iingxaki zesi sicwangciso. Kodwa akufuneki woyike-nonke egxalabeni.
- Umnxeba wayeqhelene - masitsho ukuba yingoma oyenzileyo kwinani elithile? Kungekudala iqhelene iya kuqhakamshelana nawe uncedo. Kodwa cinga kakuhle: Ngaba ngokwenene kuyimfuneko kuye uncedo lwakho, okanye ufuna nje ukukopa imisebenzi yakho kuwe?
- Ngaba ufumene ifowuni njengesipho? Umsitho othile uya kuguqula ubomi bakho ngemilenze entlokweni yakho. Kodwa ungakhathazeki: Umntu okuthanda ngokunyanisekileyo, bonke baya kuthatha isigqibo.
- Ngaba uphulukene "nombhobho"? Ukususela ebomini bakho kuya kuthatha umntu obalulekileyo- mhlawumbi kuya kufikelela kwesinye isixeko. Ewe, indawo engcwele ayenzeki nto ingenanto, kwaye uya kubahlobo abatsha ... kodwa ukubathemba ngokungaboniyo akufuneki - isimo sabo sengqondo siya kuba sinobuhlobo kuwe kunokuba sibe nobuhlobo.
- Ngokuchasene noko, ukufumana iselfowuni kukuphumelela. Into oyisebenzileyo ixesha elide, iya kunika iziqhamo ezisisigidimi.
- Khangela umnxeba: Kubomi bokwenyani, unee-Intanethi Kubalulekile ukuba ubathintele ekuhambeni kwexesha ngenxa yokuqhubela phambili - umzekelo, ukuva malunga neprojekthi yeshishini elinomdla.
- Ukwaphula umnxeba kwiselfowuni (nokuba ngabom): Uziva unesithukuthezi, nokuba unayo inkampani enkulu yabahlobo okanye usapho olomeleleyo. Akukho nto, unyamezele le mvakalelo eyoyikisayo ayide, kungekudala yonke into izakutshintsha ibe ngcono!
- Uyiphosile kwaye uyibethe: Ndandibhideka kwibali elikrokrelayo, unokuphulukana nepropathi yakho, kwaye ubukhulu obukhulu. Cinga kakuhle ukuba ubhalisela kwaye unikezela ngokubambisana!
- Uthenge iseli: ukuthoba kakhulu okanye ukuthoba kakhulu, ke iindlela zokwenza imali iqhubekeka kuwe. Utoliko lwesibini: Ukhangela umfazi ofanelekileyo (amadoda), kwaye kwiqabane ekufuneka ujonge ngakumbi, kungenjalo ukuze uhlale kwipenshini.
- Uyibile: Umhlobo olungileyo okanye isalamane siya kukudanisa kakhulu. Mhlawumbi ngokwakhe akazukukhutyekiswa, kodwa "ukhulula" loo nto, emva koko ungafuni ukumnika isandla kwintlanganiso.
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UDavid Loft uphupha
- Esi siTolitisa sokutolikwa kwefowuni njengeminqweno yakho 'yokunyuka ", oko kukuthi, ukwandisa imeko yakho yentlalo.
- Nokulala nako kunokubonisa umnqweno wakho ukulawula, lawula imeko. Yintoni le uyithethileyo 'kumbhobho'? La magama ungathanda ukuthetha kubomi bokwenyani.
- Ngamanye amaxesha ifowuni ephupheni kuthetha ukhuseleko. Ngubani kwaye kutheni ubize? Utheni? Ukulala kwiimeko ezininzi izinto kuya kukuxelela.
Incwadi yamaphupha iphela
- Uzamile ukulungisa ifowuni ephathekayo: kubunzima ekunxibelelaneni nabantu kunye neminye imiba.
- Yiva umnxeba kukuqikelela kwemeko yakho yokwenyani. Zeziphi iimvakalelo ezenze ukuba le fowuni ikuwe? Uyonwabile, ucaphukile ("undiyekeleni!"), Ukoyikiswa?
- Uthethe kwifowuni, kodwa ngaba kukho iingxaki zokunxibelelana, ukubiza? Ngokwenyani, kubonakala ngathi awumameli uluvo lwakho.
- Kukho enye inkcazo yokutolikwa okuthandekayo, icocekile nguFreud. Ukuba indoda iphuphe ifowuni ephathekayo, iqinisekile ukuba ubungakanani bungabalulekanga, kwaye ukuba isidima sakhe sebhayinti yeparameter ezincinci, ayilunganga kangako.