Ukuqonda ukuba abantu abaphambukeli badutyulwa, khumbula uvavanyo lwezengqondo oludumileyo, apho wawuza kuhanjiswa khona ukuzoba isilwanyana esingazange senziwe ngaphambili. Ngokusekwe kwiiparamitha zesilwanyana esingaziwayo, ukutolikwa kobuntu bakho kuyacetyiswa. Ngokufanayo nabaphambukeli.
Ngotshintsho olunye - nangona kungekho mntu ukhe wabona abaphambukeli bokwenyani, kukho isitampu esikhulu sentloko enkulu kunye ne-hurigod eye yakhiwe kunye ne-hurucus ebuthathaka nechumayo. Phantse bonke abantu bayazi okuninzi malunga needragons, i-Unicorns, imikhwa yazo, ukutya, nangona inyani iyintsomi nje. Ukudibana nje kwaye kwamkelwa ngokubanzi.
Ixabiso lokwenyani labaphambukeli ephupheni ngumntu ongaqondakaliyo.
Ixabiso lokwenyani lokulala
Akunamsebenzi ukuba kusondela, ukulala kunye nabaphambukeli kuneyona ntsingiselo. Umzekelo, ubukele iifilimu ezininzi okanye imiboniso yeTV, ikhutshwe kwinqaku elihlekisayo malunga nemfihlakalo, engachazwanga kwaye ayinakuphendula ngendlela yokulala kunye nokuthintelwa.
Ukusombulula iingxaki, kuya kufuneka uthi biledya ephupheni kunye nomntu ongaziwayo, oya kucombulula yonke into kuwe, uza kukunika isutikesi engathandekiyo ukusuka kwiplanethi I-Crypton. Oyena mntu ungamaziyo onamandla onokuqiniseka ukuba nguwe. Awunabanye.
Eyona ntsingiselo iphambili yokulala kunye nabaphambukeli
- Ukubona ephupheni labaphambukeli, kuya kuziva ukungancedi kwakho kwiimeko ezikhoyo, imeko ayikukukhathali, awufuni kufuna ukuphuma kunye nethemba lokufumana uncedo ngaphandle. Vumela ukhunjulwe kwisithuba sokukhanya seLilac-ubuncinci sisiphi isisombululo. Ngokuqinisekileyo awuhambelani nobomi bakho, kodwa awukwazi ukuyitshintsha.
- Uthetha nabaphambukeli, sabelane nabo izicwangciso zakho, thetha imiphefumlo. Ngaba kunjalo, ungasathethi? Misa abantu babeka abantu abakungqongileyo. Mhlawumbi kubonakala ngathi awuqondi, amazwi nezenzo zakho azisebenzi, azixabisi. Kwaye wena uqonde kakhulu? Zama ukuqonda abamelwane bakho ngaphambi kokuba babe ngabantu ongabaziyo.
- Ukuba uphupha ngokuthinjwa kwabaphambukeli-yiParaphrase ye "Mama, abazali ababuyayo" okanye "ndinike enye iplanethi." Ngokwenyani, amaphupha aboniswa yinyani, kwaye uyifumana inganyamezeleki. Nokuba uphupha kangangokuba ulixhoba lamava awoyikekayo okanye amanxuwa, uphupha ngokuba nento enomdla kakhulu, nokuba ukwakhiwa kwegazi. Fumana ibhlog malunga nobomi bakho kwaye ubeke kwi-Intanethi, thatha iifoto. Uya kumangaliswa, abantu abaninzi baya kuba nomdla wokubona ubomi bakho, ngakumbi nakwamanye amazwe. Unento enokuxelela abantu kunokuba babelane. Hlamba idayari yakho ngeyure ngosuku-yinto encinci. Uyakwazi ukuhlawula.
- Abaphambukeli bothusayo bohlobo olungelulo lwe-humanoid, ngamehlo amaninzi kunye ne-tenal bahluza rhoqo ngamantombazana. EJapan, kukho uhlobo olupheleleyo lweencwadi ezinemifanekiso, apho kukho i-monster eyoyikekayo ye-fester, ingabadli kwaye ibadlwengule kwaye bandle ngamandla obomi. Ewe kunjalo, liziingxokolo nje ngokwesini. Akukho nto eyoyikisayo. Ufuna isondo esihle kwaye ungafuni kujongana neziphumo ezingathandekiyo. Ngaba kufanelekile ukutsala umntu ebhedini kuqala? Uyagqiba. Kungakufanelekela ukuba le ndoda icocekile, imnandi kunxibelelwano kwaye ikulungele ukhathalela ukhuseleko lokusebenzisana ngokwesondo. Nangona kunjalo, umngcipheko wamantombazana uphakame kakhulu. Ukuba loo ndoda ithandekayo ayijongwanga kwi-horizon, i-oda i-tetnakl entle nge-Intanethi. Ukuhlupheka kwi-Hormonial ngaphezulu kwe-hormoniends kunye neemozulu zehla ngenxa yokuziphatha kakuhle akulunganga. Yindlela engu-homonal yezaqhwithi ezibangelwa ngunobangela we-hysteria ebhuti, ephela ngenxa yokunganyangeki. Kwaye i-Assikies ekhethekileyo esondeleyo ivele kwii-ofisi zonyango sele emva koko. Ngempumelelo enkulu.
- Ukuba udubula umphambukeli kwimovie yegama elifanayo, yiya kufunda ukuzoba. Imisebenzi yegiger enkulu ayiphuphi. Unencasa entle. Amagcisa akhuthazekileyo ababhali-mbali abanobugcisa nge-Articles yeSecurity bobuchule bobugcisa, kwaye lo msebenzi awuyi kubakhathaza iminyaka engamashumi eminyaka. Siyakholelwa ukuba inkanuko yakho kunye namathuba angasebenziyo ayiqwenga ngaphakathi ngaphakathi nangokungxamisekileyo.
Intsingiselo yabaphambukeli ngamaphupha
Uninzi lweencwadi zamaphupha zithembiso zithembise kwaye zixhase abahlobo ukuba abaphangi babekwenziwa ukuba banxibelelane. Ukuba ufumana igazi kunye nabaphambukeli base-Ihunan, ukuphupha ukubamba kunye nokutshabalalisa eli lizwe, awunakuthembela kubahlobo.
Jonga abaphambukeli ephupheni- kuthetha ukufuna ukuba yinto engaqhelekanga.
Uphupha into "esondeleyo" - Abaphambukeli bakhetha ukuba ubhabhe kwiplanethi yakho, kubonakala ngathi unyuliwe ukusuka kwimbono yabo. Oku kuthetha ukuba ufuna uthando olungenamiqathango. Kumntu okuthandayo ngenxa yento oyiyo, indlela othanda ngayo abantwana abafezekileyo abazali abafezekileyo ezincwadini nakwintengiso yokutya komntwana.
Ngelishwa, kobu bomi, ubudlelwane obufanelekileyo bunqabile. Ukuze kufezekiswe uthando lwabanye abantu, kufuneka iinzame, sebenza, zisebenzele, impumelelo. Akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngokuphupha uthando olugqibeleleyo. Kodwa yilungiselele ukuhlawula i-restiicicy epheleleyo negqibeleleyo.
Ukuqukumbela
Iphupha lokufika, abantu abangabaziyo abanempembelelo, izidalwa ezingaqhelekanga ziyimeko yendalo yomntu. Ukuphupha ngoonobumba kuthetha ukuba nephupha. Kwangelo xesha angabazithembi, woyika kwihlabathi elijikelezileyo, abantu ababengqonge abantu abangaqondakaliyo, ngokungathi bangabaphambukeli. Chitha ixesha elincinci lokufumana eli lizwe, yenza ukuba zihlobo kunye naye. Mhlawumbi kuyavakala ukutyelela ugqirha wengqondo olungileyo kwaye ujonge isisombululo kwisigqibo kunye- olu iya kuba luncedo lomntu ongaqhelekanga.