Xa uphupha ngesikhululo seenqwelomoya, inokuba ngumgcini weziganeko ezitsha okanye iimpembelelo, ukubiza utshintsho ebomini. Mhlawumbi ukuphunyezwa kwezicwangciso zakho kuya kuncipha ngenxa yobunzima, kodwa ke yonke into iya kugqitywa ngokukhuselekileyo. Kubalulekile ukuba uqonde ukuba utoliko lokulala luxhomekeke kwiimvakalelo zakho.
Ngaba ukhe waziva ukhululekile ephupheni okanye emva kokuhlala okungathandekiyo? Ukuba usebenza kwindawo yomoya, ke, kakhulu, iphupha elifanayo liya kuphupha ngenxa yoku. Kwaye ukuba ulungiselela inqwelo moya, emva koko isikhululo seenqwelomoya sinikwe ngenxa yochulumanco ngale nto.
Nangona kunjalo, nangayiphi na imeko, kufanelekile ukujonga intsingiselo yolu phawu. Ke, uya kuvela ntoni umsindo wesikhululo seenqwelomoya.
Isikhululo senqwelomoya saseFedovskaya
- Ukuba ephupheni ufumene kwisikhululo seenqwelomoya ukuya kudibana nomhlobo wakho, umhlobo okanye omnye umntu, linda kwaya kuba sendaba kude.
- Kodwa ukuba ubusiya nje esakhiweni, lumkela iingxabano ngoogxa noobizelo, lube lutywene.
- Ukuba ukwazile ukuphulukana nento kwisikhululo seenqwelomoya, uya kufumana inkxaso enkulu kunye noncedo, kodwa hayi kwaphela ukusuka apho, ukusuka apho banokulindela khona.
- Yabela umhla kwi-pier yaseMazulwini-ukuya kufika kade. Ikamva elikufuphi kufuneka uphume kwimizuzu elishumi elinesihlanu ngaphambi kwexesha, nokuba kubonakala ngathi uya kuza ngokuqinisekileyo ngexesha.
Ngamaphupha i-denizy lynn
I-Dening Lynn kumbuzo wokuba isikhululo seenqwelomoya siphupha, sihlangabezana nalo mbuzo: Ngaba lixesha lokuphumla? Mhlawumbi udiniwe kakhulu? Ukuhamba okanye ukuphumla kumazwe akude ngekhe kwenzakalisa.Ngokwamaphupha anamhlanje
Kuya kufuneka usebenzise uthando okanye enye imvakalelo engaphantsi kakhulu, kwaye iya kukuzisela ukoneliseka kwaye uve ukuba unokuphumla ukuba yonke into ihamba kakuhle. Uya kuzola kwaye umbulelo othandekayo wokufezekiswa kwentsebenzo yokuvisisani.
Amaphupha aseMpuma
- Ukuba ephupheni ozibonileyo kwisikhululo seenqwelomoya, ke ungathembanga ukugqiba ngokukhawuleza kwimicimbi yakho kwaye ungabi nabunzima, kuya kufuneka ubize ngokugqitywa kwempumelelo yezicwangciso.
- Kwaye ukuba awukafumani indlela yokuphuma, ngaphandle koncedo lomntu onamandla angakwenzi oko.
Ngephupha lenkulungwane ye-XXI
- Ukuba unohlobo oluthile lohambo, ukuhamba okanye ukuhamba ngenqwelomoya kwiplanethi, emva koko umbono kubuthongo wesikhululo seenqwelomoya unokubonisa kuphela imincili. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ungene kwisakhiwo, sele kufanelekile ukuba sihambe, kuba inkxalabo yakho inesizathu.
- Ukuba udibene nomntu, ithembisa iindaba ze-ambulensi, ukuthumela okanye ileta evela kumntu ongakhange uyibone ixesha elide ngenxa yomgama omde phakathi kwakho.
- Ngaba ukhe wayibona indlela yenqwelomoya ngayo inqwelo moya? Kuya kufuneka uyeke abantu ngaphandle kwemeko, unokusebenzisa ithuba lakho eliphakamileyo, ukuthembeka kunye nokungavuleki kuya kuphinda kukhokele engxakini.
Ngokuphupha kukaMiller
- I-SosheSmen njengombono ofanayo ufuzisemele intlanganiso ebalulekileyo okanye intlanganiso eya kunceda ukusombulula imicimbi eyimfuneko, iingxaki ezikude zixhonywe kuwe.
- Ukuba uyintombazana kwaye ephupheni osele uphulukene nesikhululo seenqwelomoya, lixesha lokuba ucinge ngezinto eziphambili zobomi bakho. Mhlawumbi awuyenzi into obungathanda ngayo, okanye ukhokele indlela yokuphila engalunganga. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba iphupha likuzisile imvakalelo yoxinzelelo, kuya kufuneka ulinde ngokuthathwa kwesigqibo esibalulekileyo ukuze ufumane ixesha elifanelekileyo.
Kwiphupha elipheleleyo lexesha elitsha
Ndiphuphe, isikhululo seenqwelomoya sibonisa umnqweno wakho wokuhamba, tshintsha imeko, fumana i-adventure, kodwa ungahlali kwindawo enye. Kuya kufuneka uqale ngokukhawuleza into entsha, qala ukwenza into ongayithathi uthatha isigqibo sokwenza ngaphambili.Ngamaphupha ukusuka kwi-z
Iphupha lokuba uza kubhabha, ongenelele olu vuyo, inqwelo moya kunye nokuqhuba abantu - yonke le nto ikubonisa ukuba uya kufumana uthando lokwenene, iimvakalelo zokuphakamisa ezulwini.
Ezinye iitoliki:
- Abafazi abatshatileyo ephupheni apho bakhoyo ekwenzeni iBerle yaseMazulwini, uthembisa ukuvela kwamathuba amatsha, ukusombulula iingxaki, ukuphinda unxibelelane nabantu abadala ebomini.
- Ukuba ndifikelele ukuba, ukwazile ukutshata kumanxuwa, ukuntywila kunye neengxabano, iphupha elinje likuxelela ukuba kungekudala uza kuhlawula yonke loo nto kwaye ubeke i-stachers ezisemlilweni phambi kwalo mzuzu.
- Ukuba i-moya iphupha lakho yayingenanto, kuthetha, yilungiselele iziganeko ezingathandekiyo, kuya kufuneka uqale ukuqalisa ngokuchanekileyo iimali kwaye ukwala ukuthenga okukhulu.
- Kodwa ukuba isakhiwo, ngokuchaseneyo, sasincinci sabantu, ixesha elonwabileyo liya kuza ebomini bakho xa ithamsanqa lakho kunye nethemba liya kuba ngowona mphezulu. Eli lixesha elifanelekileyo lokukwazi ukuzikhusela wena kunye nosapho lwakho lube lubomi obuchumileyo kwixa elizayo.
- Kwakhona amathemba onokuthembisa ukuba ukwakhiwa kwesikhululo seenqwelomoya ephupheni kwakumhle, mtsha kwaye kumnandi. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ngokuchaseneyo, linda iingozi zethemba kunye nezicwangciso.
- Ukuba uphupha ngathi ufike kade kwindiza, inokuthetha ngokuhloniphiliza kunye nokungakhathali kwakho, ukuba awuyi kuba nakho ukufezekisa isabelo esibalulekileyo kuwe. Kuya kufuneka uhlale ngemini yendlu yedwa kunye nawe ukuze ubone ukuba ufuna ntoni ukubona izinto eziza kuqala.
- Ukudlula kubhaliso lwesikhululo seenqwelomoya luphawu oluhle, njengoko wakubonisa ukuvela kwamathuba okwenza ezinye izicwangciso zakho ezingenakwenzeka ngaphambili.
- Amantombazana amancinci anje ngephupha aqikelela ukubonakala kwendoda ebomini babo, onokuba ngumyeni wabo wexesha elizayo, kodwa nokuba akukho naliphi na imvakalelo engalibalekiyo iya kuzisa.