Ukubhabhadiswa kwengane kuwumcimbi obalulekile empilweni yabazali bakhe. Ingane ayikazwisisi ukuthi isakramente phezu kwakhe ukwenzani, futhi abazali kumele beze kulo mcebo ogcwele. Ungabhapathiza nini ingane - ngokushesha emva kokuzalwa noma ezinsukwini ezingama-40? Mhlawumbe kungcono ukulinda kuze kube unyaka? Abazali abaningi bahlushwa lo mbuzo. Kulesi sihloko, ngizokutshela ngamasiko esonto ukuqeda konke ukungabaza ngobhapathizo.
Kungani ubhapathiza ingane?
Emasontweni amaProthestani, kwenqatshelwe ukubhabhathiza umuntu ngaphandle kwemvume yawo yokuzithandela, ngakho-ke izingane azivumeli. Kepha ngokwesiko lama-Orthodox, kuyisiko ukubhabhathiza zonke izingane ezisanda kuzalwa ngokushesha nje lapho zisezinsukwini ezingama-40 ezivela emndenini. Ngemuva kokubhabhadiswa, ingane ithola ingelosi yomuntu siqu futhi ingafinyeleleki embuyweni kaSathane. Akusona yini isizathu sokupenda umthumba okokugcina?
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Obaba beBandla bafundiswa ukuthi ngemuva kokubhapathizwa kobhapathizo, ingane ithola igama elingokomoya futhi iba yilungu eliphelele lebandla. Ufika emoyeni kaMoya, ube yisinyathelo esingokomoya futhi athole ukuvikelwa nokusekelwa kwesonto lendawo yonke. Ubhapathizo luhlanza ingane, isono sokuqala, siyihlanze kokubi.
Obaba besonto bayala abazali ukuthi umuntu akufanele akhethe inkolo. Ngakho-ke, zonke izingane zidinga ukubhapathizwa ngokushesha, bese ziphakamisa ukholo lwe-Orthodox. Lo msebenzi uwela emahlombe hhayi ngabazali bemvelo kuphela, kodwa futhi nonkulunkulu. Ngisho nangaphambi kokuzalwa kwengane, abazali kumele banakekele amasiko okubhapathizwa futhi bakhethe uNkulunkulu kusenesikhathi. Ngemuva kokuzalwa kwengane, umama nje ngeke abe ngamabutho noma isikhathi sokuhlela ukubhabhadiswa kuyo yonke imithetho.
Yiziphi ezinye izinzuzo ezinikeza ukubhapathizwa kusenesikhathi? Ngomuntu obhajadisiwe (wanoma yimuphi unyaka), ungabeka amakhandlela amahle, uku-oda imithandazo. Uma kungazelelwe ingane izogula, ungahlala u-oda umthandazo wezempilo yengane uma yamukelwa ngokusemthethweni kwi-lono yebandla.
Phambilini, abathakathi abamnyama bazingelwa izingane ezingalungiswa ezingakaxazululwa, ngoba imiphefumulo yabo yaba yinhlekelele. Le miphefumulo yayingenayo umgcini wengelosi. Kubo bekungenakwenzeka ukuthandaza, bangcwatshwa ngokungahambi kahle.
Ngezicelo eziningi zabafundi, silungiselele uhlelo lokusebenza "Ikhalenda le-Orthodox" nge-smartphone. Njalo ekuseni uzothola imininingwane ngalolu suku lwamanje: amaholide, okuthunyelwe, izinsuku zokukhumbula, imithandazo, imifanekiso.
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Ingane yobudala
Isiko lokubhapathizelwa osanda kuzalwa ezinsukwini ezingama-40 ngemuva kokuzalwa zihambisana nezizathu zomzimba: ngalesi sikhathi, owesifazane uvimba ukuphuma kwegazi kwegazi ngemuva. Ngesikhathi sokuya esikhathini, akunakwenzeka ukuvakashela isonto futhi ubambe iqhaza kumaSakramente, ngakho-ke ubhapathizo luhlehliselwe izinsuku ezingama-40. Empeleni ungabhapathiza ingane ngokushesha ngemuva kokuzalwa, kepha umama omncane akakakulungeli ukubamba iqhaza kulo mcebo wezempilo.
Phambilini, lesi siko selulekwa ukubhabhathiza amaNombolo Alo ngosuku lwesishiyagalombili ngemuva kokuzalwa, lapho sebeqiniswa yisilonda se-umbilical. Lesi siko abanye abazali nanamuhla. Isibonelo, ugogo angakubiza ukubhabhadiswa kwengane, ngaphandle kwalokho, unokuhlonipha uNkulunkulu.
Usuku lobhapathizo ludinga ukudingidwa nomyeni wakhe futhi ukhethe ukunganqumeli. Abaningi bakhetha ingane ye-Santa Patron futhi kusemini lokukhumbula kwakhe ingane. Kubuye kube ngokwesiko ukunikeza unkulunkulu, njengomsunguli ongcwele.
Isiko sokubhabhadiswa singabamba ugogo noma ubaba wengane ngisho nosuku lwesibili noma lwesithathu ngemuva kokuzalwa uma ingane izalwa ibuthakathaka kakhulu. Ukuze wenze lokhu, kudingeka ufunde umkhuleko ufafaze imvuthuluka yamanzi angcwele. Ngemuva kokubuyisa ingane, ibandla lobupristi selivele libhapathiziwe.
Uma ingane yazalwa igulayo noma yasinda ekulimaleni okujwayelekile, ubhapathizo lwenziwa kusenesikhathi: Kuhlotshaniswa nobungozi bempilo yakhe. Ingane ebhajadisiweyo ingaphulwa esontweni, ukuze inikeze usizo olungokomoya. Nge-Indelise akunakwenzeka, noma ngabe abazali bakhe bebalekile.
Kungenzeka yini ukubhabhadisa ingane uma usuku lwama-40 ngemuva kokuzalwa kwehla eholidini leposi noma esontweni? Isakramente lokubhapathizwa senziwa nganoma yiluphi usuku, okuthunyelwe noma iholide akusona isithiyo emkomeni. Kodwa-ke, uma abapristi benza ebambe imfucumfucu yemikhosi, khona-ke kwa- christening kungahlehlisa ezinsukwini ezingenamuntu. Lokhu kungenxa yomthwalo omkhulu wobaba abangcwele, hhayi ukwenqaba ngenxa yeholide lesonto.
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Yiluphi usuku lwesonto olungcono ukubhabhathiza ingane? Isonto alihlanganyeli ezinsukwini zoKhristu kwesokudla nokungalungile. ISakramente Lokubhapathizwa lenziwa nganoma yisiphi isikhathi, kuyadingeka nje ukuxoxisana kusengaphambili noYise. Noma amaholide esonto, noma okuthunyelwe, akukho zinkolelo-ze (unyaka weqa, ngokwesibonelo) akusona isithiyo ekubhapathizweni.Isakramente lobhapathizo lungaba ngumkhosi wangasese kanye nokuhlangana. Imvamisa, izingane zibhalwe ngobhapathizo engxenyeni yokuqala yesonto ukwenza isakramente ngasekupheleni kwesonto. Kuya ngezinceku zesonto uqobo, akukho okubhaliwe ngalokhu eVangelini.
Ukubamba iqhaza kwisakramente
Ungasilungiselela kanjani umcimbi obaluleke kangaka njengoKhringodi? Okokuqala, udinga ukukhetha okhohlisayo. Kuyafiseleka ukuthi kwakungumama nobaba. Kepha noma ngabe kunomzali oyedwa, futhi kuvunyelwe. Kufanele kukhunjulwe ukuthi ungumuntu sabanakumelela obabananelane nabo bazohlala nabo kuze kube sekupheleni kwempilo yengane, ngakho-ke awukwazi ukuvumela ukukhetha kwabantu abangahleliwe. Imfuneko - ukukholwa kwe-Orthodox. Kuze kube manje, isonto lama-Orthodox liyavumela ukuthi abazali abakhulumile bangamalungu esonto lamakholwa amadala.
Ungabhabhathiza kanjani ingane? Lokhu kuzonakekela umpristi. Abazali bengane kufanele bafunde uphawu bokholo ngokuzwakalayo ukuze bakwazile ukufakazela ukubalwa kwabo kwesonto lama-Orthodox. Lo mkhuleko uphinde ufunde isamusikazi, ngakho-ke ukuhlubuka kungena ngengozi kwisabala lesonto.
Isonto liyakwenqabela ukuba khona kwabantu bezinye izinkolo kwisakramente lokubhapathizwa, ngakho-ke kudingeka uthole kusengaphambili abangane bethu - noma ngabe yinhlangano yezenkolo.
Izinwele ezimboziwe ngesikhathi sokubhapathizwa zigcina uNkulunkulu.
Akwamukeleki ukuza emkomeni wokubhapathizwa ngenhlonipho enhliziyweni, ngemuva kwamahlazo omndeni. Kufanele uqale kabusha konke, kuphela ngemuva kwalokho uye endaweni engcwele.
Ngemuva kweChristoning, abazali bengane bambozwa ngetafula futhi baphatha abangane. Kulolu suku, kuyisiko ukunikeza izingane ezikhumbulekayo ukuze iholide likhunjulwe impilo.
Kufanele kukhunjulwe ukuthi isiko elibhapathizo lithatha isikhathi eside: lingahlala lisuka kumaminithi angama-40 lize ngehora nokuningi. Ngakho-ke, udinga ukulungiselela kusengaphambili inqubo yesikhathi eside.
Izibopho zesiphambano
Ngokwesiko lama-Orthodox, uNkulunkulu ukuwa kwawo akufanele wenqabe ukubamba iqhaza kwisakramente lokubhapathizwa kwengane uma ebaphakamisa. Ukwenqaba kubhekwa njengesono esikhulu.
Indima yentombazane yentombazane ingenziwa ngumpristi uqobo. Kubalulekile ukuba ngunkulunkulu.
U-Go'ents Pratencents kufanele asize umama kamama wabo ukuba abhekane nemisebenzi kamama. Ukunakekelwa kwebele kuhlotshaniswa nobunzima obuningi obungahlukanisa abazali phakathi kwabo. Lo mthetho ujabulisa uNkulunkulu.
Ngaphezu kokusiza umama wengane, uNkulunkulu uzothandazela nsuku zonke nsuku zonke ukuze i-gossonson, ikakhulukazi ngaphambi kokulala. Baphinde bathandazela ingane yabo engokomoya ngamaholide nangeSonto ku-Liturgy.
Isiphambano siphoqelekile ukuthi sithathe ingxenye esebenzayo ekwakhekeni ngokomoya kwengane. Bamnika izithonjana, awele, izincwadi ezingokomoya. Lapho ingane ifunda ukufunda, inikezwa iVangeli futhi liyalela okholweni. Futhi emthunzini kankulunkulu kuhlanganisa inhlangano yengane: Kufanele bamtshele ngesakramente lenhlanganyelo futhi bangene esontweni ukuze bathathe izipho ezingcwele.
Ngaphambi kokubhapathizwa kwengane, obabanababa abakhulume abakhulume ngobabanekubekela kufanele bahlale esimweni somkhuleko, bazikhawulele kwezokuxhumana, bavikele ukuxabana kanye nokuxhumana okukhulu nabalingani babo. Kungcono ukuyeka lolu suku kusuka ku-Rapid: Ukudla kuphela ukudla kwe-lenure ngamanani amancane. Ngosuku lokubhapathizwa, kuyadingeka ukuvuma nangezikhathi ngezikhathi ezithile izipho ezingcwele.
Unkulunkulu kufanele alungiselele ingane:
- I-Baptisbal Diaper (hryonma);
- shirtty;
- I-Chapecchik (intombazane kuphela).
Unkulunkulu uthenga isiphambano sesiliva futhi ukhokhela isiko lesonto. Isiphambano singcono ukuthenga esitolo sesonto ukuze singcweliswe. Uma uthenge kwenye indawo, udinga ukungcwelisa kusengaphambili. Kufanele kube nokubethelwa kanye nokubhaliwe esiphambanweni: Gcina bese Gcina.
Encwadini! I-Baptisbal Diaper (Kryzhm) nehembe ngemuva kweChrinbring angasusi. Zimbozwe yingane uma egula. Izambatho zokubhabhadiswa zigcinwa, bese umama udlulisela ukuba zigcine umuntu umuntu omdala ekhipha indodana (noma indodakazi).
Ungagqoka kanjani eChristening? Izingubo kufanele zibe nesizotha futhi zingabizi. Abesifazane bagqoka iziketi futhi bamboze i-headcarf (hhayi ngesihloko, okuyi-handerchief). Kwenqatshelwe ukuza esontweni ngezandla ezivulekile kanye nentambo ejulile, ukusikeka okukhulu esiketi nasezithendeni eziphakeme.
Ukuwa komoya osemusha kwenqatshelwe ukuza esontweni ngezimfudu, ama-spikes, amaketanga aminyene kanye nokwakheka okukhanyayo: isonto liyindawo yokukhanya, hhayi i-shit.
Isudi kuNkulunkulu akufanele likhanye futhi libangele. Ehlobo, akunakwenzeka ukuza ngezingubo ngaphandle kwemikhono (i-t-shirt, i-t-shirt) kanye nezimfushane, noma ngabe kushisa emgwaqweni. Akwamukeleki ukuza esontweni ngama-tattoos emzimbeni. Uma sezivele zitholakala, kungcono ukumboza le ndawo ngezingubo.