Okudingekayo emshadweni, yini ama-nuances abalulekile

Umshado - Ingabe isakramente lesonto elibalulekile ngomlando omude. Imicikilisho ehlukahlukene ibanjelwa esontweni, kepha yi-7 kuphela kubo abanikezwa isihloko se- "Sakramente" (ehlukile kunezipho zoMoya oNgcwele): Lokhu kungukuthi isakramente lokubhapathizwa, inhlanganyelo, ukuthuthuka okuncane, ukuphenduka, amawundlu, imishado nobupristi .

Ngenxa yemfihlakalo yomshado, amakholwa ambalwa amakholwa athola isibusiso esivela kuNkulunkulu ukwakha inyunyana yomndeni eqinile, abelethe futhi aveze inzalo. Okudingekayo emshadweni nokuthi ngabe kuqhutshelwa kanjani lesi siko - ake sibheke lesi sihloko ngokuningiliziwe ngezinto zanamuhla.

Yini edingekayo emshadweni?

1. Okokuqala, imvume yomyeni nomakoti kuzodinga, ngoba kuphela lapho ukulungela ukuhlangana kungenzeka ukufeza isakramente elingcwele.
2. Bobabili abasanda kushada kufanele babe ngamaKristu angama-Orthodox. Uma bengazange badlule amasakramenti okubhapathizwa, abakholelwa kuJesu Kristu, khona-ke akenzi mqondo ukuba ashade. Endabeni lapho owesifazane noma owesilisa engenye inkolo, umpristi angabashada, nokho, ngowukuphela kwesimo izingane ezivele emshadweni nakanjani.
3. Lo mbhangqwana kufanele ube nesiqinisekiso sokuthi baphethe umshado ngokusemthethweni. Umshado we-Extramarital awuvunyelwe. Kepha ungashada nganoma yisiphi isikhathi ngemuva komshado - okungenani ngonyaka, okungenani eminyakeni engama-20!
4. Hlela umcimbi onjalo onesizotha njengomshado - hhayi elula njengoba kubonakala. Kungahle kube nobunzima ngokukhethwa kwenombolo yeSakramente: Kuvunyelwe ukushada ngoLwesibili, ngoLwesine ngezinsuku, nakuMigqibelo, ngisho nasezinhlangothini zokuthunyelwe ezinkulu. Uma ungakabiki umshado osemthethweni, kepha ufuna ukushada, bese uqala ukhethe usuku lomshado, bese uya ehhovisi lokubhalisa ukuze ufake isicelo. Futhi uma beshada ngisho nangaphambi kwalokho, ke ukukhetha usuku oluhle ukuxhuma izinhliziyo zabo phambi kukaNkulunkulu, basebenzise ikhalenda lesonto.
5. Kubalulekile ukubheka ukuthi umkhosi womshado kanye nomkhwenyana, futhi umakoti kufanele agqoke ngangokunokwenzeka. Kuvunyelwe ukwakheka okulula kwentombazane. Zombili zibalulekile ekunqandeni iziphambano, futhi umakoti naye uyaphoqelelwa ukumboza amakhanda abo.
6. Abasanda kushada bangabangelwa ngumkhosi oqinile wabavakashi ngokubona kwabo - akukho mingcele noma imikhawulo eqinile.

Imiqhele ehlotshaniswa nomshado

• Abantu abahlobene nedolo lesine ngeke bashade.
• Isakramente lingakwenziwa ngaphezu kweziphindwe kathathu. Okwesine, isonto lizophoqeleka ukwenqaba.
• Akwamukeleki umsakramente, uma owesilisa noma owesifazane eshada nomunye umuntu. Konke ukuxhumana kufanele kuchithwe ngaphambi kwesikhathi futhi kuhlotshiswe umshado osemthethweni ohlanganisiwe.
• OFakazi kudingeka bakhelwe babhapathizwe ngokweqiniso, akufanele badivose.
• Kwabantu abangaphansi kweminyaka eyi-18, umshado womshado awubanjwanga.
• Uma umlingani oyedwa noma bobabili abashade bengaphezu kweminyaka engama-80 noma beba nomehluko omkhulu kuphela ubudala - ngoba umshado uzodinga ukuthola imvume ekhethekile evela kumbhishobhi.
• Kwenqatshelwe ubumbano lwesonto phakathi kwabantu, okuhlobene nomphakathi: ake ahlobene nobaba kanye nendodakazi yokwamukela.
• Uma intombazane ngesikhathi sesakramente ikhulelwe, khona-ke udinga ukuxwayisa uBaba kusenesikhathi (ngesikhathi senhlanganyelo).

Ukulungiselela okufanele Imishado

Thola ukuthi yini elindelwe namuhla - i-horoscope yanamuhla kuzo zonke izibonakaliso ze-zodiac

Esontweni ngalinye, kukhona uhlu lwemithetho yokulungiselela kwayo ngaphambi kwenqubo yomshado. Ngakho-ke, kudingeka uzitholele ngaphambi kwabefundisi.

Ngokuqondene nemithetho ejwayelekile, phambi kwesakramente lomshado wesonto, uMlobokazi kanye nomakoti kubalulekile ukuncintisana, vuma futhi ukunamathela kokuthunyelwe izinsuku eziyi-7. Ngalesi sikhathi, abasanda kushada kufanele bahlanze hhayi kuphela imizimba yabo, kodwa futhi nomphefumulo, ufunda njalo imithandazo (okuthi lapho - uzokutshela khona uBaba).

Ukulungiselela umshado kufaka ukwenqatshwa okuphoqelekile kwemikhuba emibi (njengokusetshenziswa kotshwala, ukubhema), futhi kusho futhi ukuvinjelwa ebudlelwaneni obuseduze phakathi kwabalingani.

Futhi kwisakramente kuyadingeka ukuletha isethi yomshado. Lokho akufaka - cabanga ngokuqhubekayo.

Isethi yomshado

Ngezicelo eziningi zabafundi, silungiselele uhlelo lokusebenza "Ikhalenda le-Orthodox" nge-smartphone. Njalo ekuseni uzothola imininingwane ngalolu suku lwamanje: amaholide, okuthunyelwe, izinsuku zokukhumbula, imithandazo, imifanekiso.

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Isethi yomshado imelelwa yizinto ezilandelayo:

1. Izithonjana zikaJesu Kristu nonina waphezulu. Kubalulekile ukukhetha izithombe ku-stylist eyodwa. Kamuva, bayoba ngumqaphi othembekile kumyeni nenkosikazi yakhe, bamukelwa izingane ifa.
2. Izindandatho zomshado ezifanekisela uthando lwaphakade. Banikezwe uBaba ukuze bangcweliswe.
3. Amakhandlela - Amakhandlela abo asanda kushaywa azogcina umcimbi wonke womshado.
4. Rushnik - umyeni wakhe ame kuyo phakathi nesakramente, bese uyishiya ethempelini. Umsele onemibala emhlophe uthengiwe, ngokomfanekiso, kusho ifu lo mbhangqwana afunga kulo ezulwini. Yize kunjalo, akulona ize leyo mishado isesibhakabhakeni, hhayi emhlabeni.
5. I-Union Rushnik, efanekisela izibopho zomshado. Ngalo, ubaba uzoxhuma owesilisa nowesifazane ngesandla.
6. OFakazi babamba ubuhlakani phezu kwekhanda labasanda kushada.
7. Umqhele ufanekisela isibusiso sikaNkulunkulu.
8. Izinduku zamakhandlela. Wonke umkhosi womshado kufanele ushise amakhandlela, futhi izinduku zizovikela izandla zazo kanye nengubo yomakoti nomkhwenyana ekudonseni i-wax.
9. Iwayini (I-Church Wine iyakhethwa - kahors). Lapho kusetshenziswa umkhuleko womthandazo kababa wethu ukuphuza iwayini elisesitshani esisodwa. Isenzo esinjalo, babonisa ngokwemvelo ubunye babo, isifiso sokuba ndawonye nasentabeni, nasenjabulo.

Unjani umshado esontweni

Ake sixoxe manje ngokuthi umshado wenzeka kanjani.

Ethempelini, amalungiselelo wesakramente asaphambi kokufika kwabasanda kushada: Amakhandlela afakwa, amasongo omshado anikezwa umpristi, i-White Rushnik isakazeka umakoti nomkhwenyana. Yenza lokhu kulungiselelwa kufanele kufakazi.

Ngemuva kwesikhashana, izikejana zomkhosi ziza ethempelini, cishe isigamu sehora ngaphambi komshado. Manje bavunyelwa ukuhlangana, kwathi ngaphambi kokuba umyeni efikile kuqala futhi bekufanele ngabe walindela induna yakhe embundwini.

Umshado ngokwawo wenziwa ezinyathelweni ezinjalo:

• Isinyathelo 1. Young Enter the Church, ephelezelwa idikoni. Owesifazane umi ngakwesokunxele sendoda. Baba ngethawula elimhlophe. Umpristi uvela, wenza isibusiso seminyaka emithathu yabasanda kushada, ubanikeze ezandleni zamakhandlela womshado. Indoda nomkayo kufanele bawele ngemuva kwesibusiso ngasinye.
• Isinyathelo 2. I-Deacon iyakhuleka, icele iNkosi ukuthi ithumele isibusiso sayo kwabasanda kushada.
• Isinyathelo 3. Umfundisi wenziwa yizindandatho zomshado zomakoti nomkhwenyana, balala kugqoko olukhethekile. Indandatho yabesilisa isehlangothini lwesobunxele, nabesifazane abanelungelo. Ama-Warentes kufanele ashintshe amasongo kathathu.
• Isinyathelo 4. Lapho-ke kufanele zize enkabeni yethempeli, zihambisa umpristi. Ubuza imibuzo kuye nokuthi bayavuma yini ukwenza umshado ngokuzithandela. Emva kwalokho, iBatyushka ithembisa labo abakhona ukuthi ngabe ubani owaziyo ukuthi kungani inyunyana ingaphethwa.
• Isinyathelo 5. I-Diakon iphinda imikhuleko. Lapho sebeqediwe, oFakazi baphakamisa imiqhele ngaphezulu kwamakhanda asanda kushada.
• Isinyathelo 6. Amandla enziwa ngewayini, abashadikazi badinga ukuphuza amahlandla amathathu ukusuka phansi, kepha benza ama-throats amancane.
• Isinyathelo 7. Umpristi wabe esebancane ngezandla zakhe, kathathu bawachitha azungeze i-Aalo.
• Isinyathelo 8. Wahamba waze wafika emasangweni asebukhosini, athinte izindebe eziphambanweni nasezithombeni. Ubaba ukhuluma inkulumo nenqubo yomshado kubhekwa njengokuqedwa.

Imininingwane eyengeziwe mayelana nomshado

Kunamaphuzu athile akhathaza imibhangqwana eminingi ngaphambi komshado. Ake sibabukeze ngokuqhubekayo:

• Umakoti akakwazi ukungena emgqonyeni, kufanele abe yingubo kuphela. Futhi uma amahlombe noma emuva anqunu egqoke izingubo, khona-ke udinga ukuwamboza ngosizo lweCape.
• Kungakuhle ukuthi uthenge izicathulo eziphansi ezigcwele entombazaneni, ngoba ethempelini kuzofanela ku-simoltane amahora ambalwa, ngalesi sikhathi imilenze ingakhathala kakhulu.
• Kubalulekile ukwenza ukugcizelelwa kwesizotha esikhulu nge-hairstyle kanye nokwakheka kwesakhiwo esisanda kushada. Akunangqondo ukwakha izinwele ezinobuningi, ngoba usafihla ngemuva komqhele.
• Ngomkhwenyana, isimo silula, akunakwenzeka kuye kuphela ukukhombisa ukubhoboza nama-tattoos kuwo wonke umuntu, uma unakho. Uma umuntu egqoka izinwele ezinde, kufanele aqoqwe.
• Zonke izivakashi emcimbini kufanele zibe yisiphambano, abesifazane bamboze amakhanda.
• Ngesikhathi somshado, wonke umuntu kufanele acime umakhalekhukhwini.
• Namuhla, kudume kakhulu uku-oda isithombe esihle ne-video service, somibili umshado nomshado. Uyacelwa ukuthi uqaphele ukuthi ukuze umeme umthwebuli wezithombe noma opharetha wevidiyo ethempelini kuzodingeka ukuthi uthole imvume kusengaphambili futhi uyikhokhele inani elisethiwe.

Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu - ungakhohlwa ngomqondo we-sacral womcimbi womshado. Yize kunjalo, ayikho ezimfanekisweni zangaphandle, kepha esimweni esiqotho sozakwethu ukuzihlambanisa nezibopho zemishado yesonto, ukuhlanganisa uthando lwayo ngesibusiso sikaNkulunkulu.