Unganquma kanjani ukuthi umuntu uqamba amanga: Izimpawu eziphambili

Amanga ahlala kaningi emcimbini wanamuhla. Kepha kuyinto eyodwa lapho sikhuluma ngamanga angenacala - ngokwesibonelo, lapho ukhathele kakhulu kusihlwa futhi ungafuni ukuhamba nomngane emcimbini, kepha wesaba ukumcasula, usho ukuthi bayagula, bathi bagule.

Futhi kuhluke ngokuphelele uma amanga esetshenziswa ngenhloso yobugovu - ake sithi, ukuze sikhethe abanye abantu ngokungemthetho. Abaningi manje bazibuza: "Unganquma kanjani ukuthi ubani umuntu oqamba amanga?" Ukuze uzizwe ephephile njalo. Sizozama ukuthola impendulo kuyo kulokho okungezansi.

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Ungayiqonda kanjani leyo ndoda iqamba amanga? I-Psychology inikeza izimpawu ezithile ezibonakaliswa iningi lamacala amaningi. Kodwa-ke, kufanele kukhunjulwe lokho Lezi zimpawu zingakhombisa amathuba amakhulu athi i-interlocutor ayikho ngokweqiniso nani, kepha azinikezi iziqinisekiso eziyi-100% . Yize kunjalo, isizathu sangempela kungenzeka singalinyazwa esifisweni sokukhohlisa, kodwa, ngokwesibonelo, esitokisini sebhanali kungaba kumuntu ngendlela enjalo ngendlela enjalo.

Ngakho-ke, ungenzi iziphetho ezisheshayo, ungakhuthazi amalebula we- "lygun" uze ube nezimpikiswano ezinele. Kulokhu, isaga sabantu siphelele: "Izikhathi eziyisikhombisa zizokufa - futhi."

Kuyathakazelisa! Kuyiqiniso, kuzoba lula kakhulu ukuthi uhlole umuntu wamanga, lapho waziwa kahle ngokuziphatha kwakhe kwemvelo kunalokho okubona okokuqala.

Kepha emuva kwizimpawu zamanga. Zihlukaniswe ngamaqembu amabili aphambili:

1. Ngamazwi.
2. Okungelona izwi.

Isigaba sesibili sizohlukaniswa sibe yi-Memic, physiological kanye nokudla okudlalayo. Ake sixoxe kabanzi ngazo zonke izimpawu zokungathembeki.

Izimpawu Zomzimba

Ukuba khona kwabo kusho ukuthi umuntu usesimweni sokuxineka. Kepha lokho esivele kusicasule le ngcindezi - amanga, athule, injabulo, ukwesaba enye into ehlukile. Kuhlukile lapha ukusho noma yini ayikwazi, ungabuka futhi ucabange kuphela.

Izimpawu ezilandelayo yilezi:

• Ukujuluka kuza ebunzini noma ezindebeni eziphezulu;
• Abafundi bancane;
• Umuntu womile emlonyeni wakhe;
• Ukuphefumula kuba nzima, ngomoya ojulile nokuphefumula okunomsindo;
• Ukushintsha isikhumba sobuso (ubomvu, i-pallor, ukubukeka kwezindawo);
• angaqala ukuthuthumela izicubu zobuso, ngokwesibonelo, amakhona ezindebe;
• Izindebe zibunjiwe, ngenxa yokuthi ukumamatheka kukhipha ijika;
• Umuntu uqala ukugcwala ukhule;
• Izwi liyathuthumela, lishintsha i-timbre yalo, ivolumu nezwi nethoni;
• ukushaya kwenhliziyo kuyashesha;
• "Isikhumba se-Goose" sivela ezandleni;
• Ukuvuthwa okungenzeka;
• Umuntu uqala ukuqina (uma ngaphambi kwalokho ngithe ngokujwayelekile);
• kungadlula;
• kuvame ukushelela amathe.

Izimpawu nezimpawu zokulingisa

• Ukusebenza kokunyakaza okungahleliwe okungahleliwe (kunyakazisa umlenze, uhamba uzungeze igumbi nokunye);
• kuvame ukuvela emlonyeni, ezindlebeni, emehlweni, ikakhulukazi - ekhaleni;
• izandla zenjoloba noma ze-scrary, iminwe, intamo, ikhanda nokunye;
• Ukushaya izindebe, izipikili;
• noma uvikele ukuxhumana ngqo noma, kunalokho, kubukeka emehlweni ngaso sonke isikhathi;
• amashiya amashiya;
• I-Grips izandla ngelokhi;
• weqa imilenze yakhe noma;
• ufihla izandla zakhe emaphaketheni noma ngabe kuphi i-interlocutor ayikwazi ukubabona (ngaphansi kwetafula);
• yehlisa ikhanda lakhe, udonsa isilevu;
• Amamatheka angathintwa, hhayi isihloko;
• Ukumamatheka "grinning" ngokumbiwa.

Izimpawu zomlomo

• Ngokulangazelela ukuzama ukukholisa abanye ekubumbeni kwakhe ubumsulwa (kusebenzisa izifungo ezahlukahlukene, kusekhona lapha);
• Ayifuni noma yenqaba ngokuphelele ukukhuluma ngesihloko esithile, phendula umbuzo;
• Ukuzama ukuthuka, kukhuluma ngendlela exoshwayo, okucasulayo, ukusebenzisa amagama ethuna;
• Noma, ngokuphambene nalokho, ukuzama ukudala isihawu, uzwela, ukuzihlelela - uyavumelana nakho konke, ngaphandle kokuthi eqamba amanga;
• ugwema izimpendulo ezingathandeki emibuzweni "yebo" noma "cha";
• Ngokuphumelelayo uphendula imibuzo eqondile, zama ukungakhulumi okuningi;
• ukhombisa isimo sengqondo sokunganakwa ngamabomu ngesihloko sengxoxo;
• Enye yezimpawu ezithandwayo zokukhohlisa ngumzamo ojwayelekile wokushintsha isihloko sengxoxo.

Kuyathakazelisa! Abantu abasengeziwe kanye nabantu abasebenza emphakathini bahambisana kaningi kunokuba bathande kakhulu nalabo abathanda indlela yokuphila eyenziwe ekhaya.

Ungakuqonda kanjani, ukuqamba amanga noma cha?

Izazi zezengqondo zeluleka ukunaka kokuziphatha kwe-interlocutor yabo:

• Imigqa ivame ukwenza imiphethi ejwayelekile engxoxweni, imizwa yabo ishintsha ngokushesha, baphinda into efanayo kaningana;
• Akukho kuhlangana ngamazwi nangezinkulumo: kushiwo into eyodwa, futhi ebusweni babo balotshwe ngokuphelele;
• Ku-LGUNOV futhi kubonakala ngokushintshwa kwemizwa esheshayo;
• Ngokwemiphumela yocwaningo, kwatholakala ukuthi abantu abaqotho babheka amehlo ka-interlocutor cishe abangu-70% wengxoxo, futhi umqambimanga ugwema ukuxhumana okubukwayo, ngakho-ke batholakala ngamehlo kuphela ama-30%;
• Abakhohlisi abanolwazi ngokuhlukile abayichithi iso ohlangothini, obukeka lungelona mvelo futhi luwuphawu lwayo lokulwa;
• Futhi, lapho umuntu ekhuluma iqiniso, ezama ukukhumbula imininingwane yesikhathi esedlule, kususa amehlo eceleni, futhi umqambimanga avamisile ukwenza lokhu - empeleni akanalutho lokukhumbula.

Ekuphetheni

Masifingqe isihloko. Kungenzeka yini ukuthi nakanjani banqume ukuthi umuntu uqamba amanga? Yebo, uma usebenzisa umtshina wamanga futhi wenze isheke elifanele kulo. (Yize bekukhona amacala lapho amanga anolwazi akwazi ukudlula kuleli divayisi. Lokhu, ngokwesibonelo, kwatshelwa kwifilimu ethandwayo "Hannibal: ukukhuphuka").

Uma umane uzama ukuthola amanga kunoma yiziphi izinto, awukwazi ukuba ne-100% uqinisekile ukuthi akulungile. Kuze kube manje, abantu, ngeshwa, bangenele ukufunda imicabango yabanye abantu, ngakho-ke, kukhona okuhlala kuvalwa abanye. Ihlala kuphela ukwenza ukucatshangelwa, zinake ngokukhethekile ubuntu obusolisayo, ungavumelani nokunikezwa okungathandeki futhi ngaso sonke isikhathi gcina ikhanda lakho emahlombe. Ngiyethemba ukuthi i-athikili yayikuthokozisa!

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