Ukudalwa komndeni kungenye yezinhloso eziphambili zempilo cishe yazo yonke intombazane. Baphupha ukushada nezingane futhi baphila ngenenjabulo phambi kwezimbotshana zezinsuku zabo. Kepha, ngeshwa, akuyena wonke umuntu ophumelela ukuhlanganisa isimo sokukhulelwa empilweni. Imvamisa, abafana abafuni ukuzithwesa ngemishado, yize benobudlelwano nonyaka owodwa.
Ngihlala nothandekayo emshadweni womphakathi, kepha akaze aphuthume ukunginikeza. Ukusuka engxoxweni kaFrank, uhlala ethumela, ngakho-ke nginqume ukuphendukela kudokotela wezengqondo ukuze ngiqonde ukuthi kungani umfana engafuni ukushada. Kulesi sihloko, ngizokhuluma ngezizathu eziphambili zokupha umshado futhi ungitshele ukuthi ngingacindezela kanjani ngokucophelela othandekayo ekwamukelweni kwesinqumo esibalulekile.
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Uma umuntu engafuni ukushada, unesizathu esihle sawo. Ngeshwa, abameleli bobulili obunamandla abathandi ukuba ngokusobala, ngakho-ke abesifazane kufanele baqagele kuphela ukuthi kungani isithandwa sabo sikwenza lokho. Ngokusho kochwepheshe bezengqondo, ukungathandi ukushada kungachazwa ngalezi zizathu ezilandelayo:
- Isibonelo esingaphumelelanga sabazali. Lapho umuntu kusukela ebuntwaneni ebheka abazali babazali, khona-ke umshado uyohlotshaniswa nezingxabano nezinkinga. Futhi uma umfana enethuba lokusinda ehlukanisweni lukamama nobaba, angakhula ngombono wokuthi umshado uphela ngokuhlukana. Ukuhlukumezeka kwezingane kuvame ukuvimba indoda endala ukuba yakhe ubuhlobo obunempilo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kungenzeka nje angazi ukuthi angawakha kanjani ubuhlobo obuhle uma engenasibonelo esifanele.
- Ukwesaba umthwalo wemfanelo. Ngohlelo lokuziphatha nangokomzwelo, abafana bakhulela kakhulu kunamantombazane, ngakho-ke, ukulungela umshado kusondele iminyaka engama-30. Kepha kufanele kuqashelwe ukuthi amanye amadoda ngisho nangemva kweminyaka engama-40 awakakulungeli ukuthatha umthwalo wemfanelo nokwenza umndeni. Imvamisa lokhu kungenxa yokungaqiniseki ngokwako uqobo noma isikhundla sayo, kepha futhi ukunganaki kungaba uphawu lokungakhuleki komuntu. Iningi lalaba bantu lithanda ukuchitha isikhathi nabangane, lihlala nabazali futhi alinawo umthombo oqinile weholo.
- Isipiliyoni esingesihle. Ukube le ndoda yaphula umshado wokuqala, khona-ke ukuze zibekele umthwalo ngokugoba umndeni okwesibili ngeke asheshe. Lokhu kungahle kuhlotshaniswe nokuhlukana okubuhlungu noma ukufisa ukujabulela inkululeko. Ngokuvamile enamandla futhi afuna abafazi bangaphambili bashaya ukuzingela ukuze baphinde bathole umndeni, ngoba Le ndoda ibonakala sengathi iskripthi sizophinda nangokuphinda.
- Isifiso sokuhlala uzimele. Amadoda ayayithanda ngempela inkululeko yawo futhi akafuni ukulalela noma ngubani. Abaningi babo bakholelwa ukuthi bazolahlekelwa ukuzimela, umfazi uzolawula zonke izinyathelo futhi noma yisiphi isinqumo kuzodingeka ukuthi sithathwe ndawonye. Abafana abancane bakhathalela ikakhulukazi ukuthi ngeke basakwazi ukuchitha isikhathi nabangane ngangokunokwenzeka, bajwayelane namantombazane nokunye okuningi.
- Umuntu wokudala. Abantu bokudala nabo besaba ukulahlekelwa ukuzimela kwabo, kepha ukungabaza ukushada kuvame ukuchazwa iqiniso lokuthi bahlala besesha umnyuziyamu. Ngokubona kwabo, ubudlelwane baphakade nowesifazane oyedwa uzobeka isiphambano emsebenzini wabo, ngoba ukuze wakhe ubuciko, amadoda anjalo adinga imizwa emisha kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho okusha.
- Ayiboni umqondo. Uma indoda esebudlelwaneni oyindodakazi ithola konke akudingayo, ayiqondi ukuthi kungani ukufaka isitembu kuphasiphothi. Ukuziphatha okunjalo kuvame ukulandela umkhondo kulabo abahlala nentombi emshadweni womphakathi. Ochwepheshe bezengqondo abakucebisi ukuthi uqale ukuhlala okuhlangene ngaphambi komshado, ngoba Ezimweni eziningi, ubudlelwane obunjalo bugcina bungekho ngomshado, kepha isehlukaniso. Umshado wombango uvumela umuntu ukuthi athole konke ukuthandwa kwempilo yomshado, kepha ngasikhathi sinye akunamthwalo izibopho ezithandekayo.
- Akunasidingo sokugcizelela. Amadoda avuthiwe ayanele, ngakho ajwayele kuzo zonke izinqumo zawo ezabo. Abathandi uma bezama ukwenza okuthile bakwenze, futhi bazame ukugwema labo abanengcindezi kubo noma bafuna ukulawula. Isinqumo esibaluleke kanjena njengomshado, umfana kumele amukele ngokuzimela, futhi uma engakakwazanga okwamanje, naye akabaze, kodwa akudingekile ukudla.
- Izinhloso zokuphila ezahlukahlukene. Imibhangqwana lapho abantu bebona khona ikusasa labo ngezindlela ezihlukile, kungekudala noma kamuva. Isimo esivame kakhulu yilapho intombazane ifuna izingane, futhi umfana ufuna ukwakha umsebenzi wokuqala. Uyakuqonda ukuthi ukudalwa komndeni okwamanje akufakiwe ezinhlelweni zakhe, ngoba Kuzovimbela ukukhula kwayo enkundleni yobungcweti. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uyabona ukuthi okwamanje akwazanga ukuhlinzeka umkakhe nengane yakhe.
- Ayikho imizwa eqinile. Imbangela yebhanali enkulu yokupha umshado ayikho uthando lwangempela. Lapho umfana enemizwa eqinile, uzama ukuphonsela inselelo izinqumo zakhe ngazo zonke izindlela ezingenzeka futhi, wesaba ukumlahlekelwa, ufuna ukumshada ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka.
Izinhlobo zamadoda
Ukuze uqonde ukuthi kungani indoda ingafuni ukushada nokuthi ingakuyiphonsa kanjani kulokhu, udinga ukuthola ukuthi yimuphi umlingiswa ukuthi unjani nokuthi ungcono kanjani naye. Abamele ubulili obuqinile emvelweni nokuziphatha kungahlukaniswa ngezikhathi ezi-6:
- Ukuvukela. Abafana balolu hlobo bazwakala kakhulu futhi bathule. Uma owokuqala ukuba amemezele ukungabaza ukushada, zihlale okwesibili ngasese futhi zithanda ukuziphonsela lapho ziqonda ukuthi intombazane ilindele izandla nezinhliziyo kuye. Isici esiphelele sabafana yisifiso sokuphikisana nemithetho nokungafuni ukuhlangabezana nokulindelwe kothile. Ukushada ubuntu obunjalo, udinga ukuya kwinkohliso noma, mhlawumbe, noma "uthathe buthaka."
- Ungathandeki. Amadoda angaqinisekile ahlala ancike ombono womunye umuntu, nalapho enza izinqumo esetshenziselwa ukuthembela kubantu abagunyaziwe kakhulu. Kungenzeka ukuthi ubaba, umngani, umphathi noma omunye umuntu. Ukucindezela indoda enjalo kuze kube sekupheleni kwempilo yomshado akunzima, udinga ukolisa kuphela lokho okuphumelelayo, abantu abacebile babheka umshado ngesinyathelo esifanele. Ungaletha futhi izibalo ukuthi wonke umuntu ophumelele nochumayo unonkosikazi okhathalelayo. Kepha kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi ukukhohlisa kufanele kubukeke ngokungathandeki, ngakho-ke akunakufanele ukuba 'kunamathele' imininingwane edingekayo kumuntu osekhanda.
- Narcissistic. Indoda-narcissus yondla imizwa ejulile kumuntu wakubo nasekufeni kwakhe ifuna ukwenza konke kuye kuphela yena nokuhle kwakhe. Ngenxa yalokho, uzovuma ngomshado kuphela uma ebona kulo msizi. Intombazane efuna 'ukwehla' umuntu ongenazimeleyo iyadingeka ukusho okujabulisa ukuhlala ndawonye, ukugcizelela ukududuza nokunakekela umkakhe kumyeni wakhe.
- Ripple. Abafana balolu hlobo abakhathaleli kahle empilweni. Banomusa futhi bavulekile futhi iningi labo emhlabeni abafuni ukudumaza abalithandayo noma libalimaze. Uma ukholisa umgibeli ogcwele umshado uyokhokha izihlobo zakhe nabangane, uzosenza ngokushesha isigwebo salowo othandekayo wakhe.
- Pedant. Kubantu abahamba ngezinyawo, konke kufanele kubulewe emashalofini, imicabango iyalelwa, amasu ayabhekwa. Uma owesifazane efuna ukushada nomuntu onjalo, khona-ke udinga ukukhuluma naye ngqo. Akudingekile ukuthi ukhulume ngokungaqondakali, kepha ngokuqondile, ukuxoxa ngosuku oluqondile lomshado, usuku lokuthenga izingubo kanye nemvunulo, indawo yokudlela yomkhosi, njll. Kubalulekile futhi ukubala inani kusengaphambili ukuthi kufanele usebenzise. Ngokucabanga nokwenza isinqumo, kuzodingeka u-pedant isikhashana. Vele, uzoba nesandla kwicebo elihlongozwayo elihlongozwayo ushintsho lwalo olungcono ukuvuma.
- Ngokucophelela. Ngohlobo lwendoda "ngokucophelela", kubalulekile kuphela lokho anakho, ngoba 'kungukuthi "Akhe" wesaba ukulahlekelwa kakhulu emhlabeni. Ngakho-ke ukuthi angancamela ukunquma ukunikela, kudingeka ubonise ukuzimela, ukuphikisana okungekho emshadweni awunazibopho phambi kwakhe futhi nganoma yisiphi isikhathi lapho ungasindisa.
Ngenzeni?
Akunandaba ukuthi isifiso siqine kangakanani, umfazi kufanele azi ukuthi singaziphathi kanjani nasothandekayo. Isenzo esingalungile noma ibinzana elichithekileko elichithekile lingabhubhisa ngokuphelele ubuhlobo, futhi othandekayo umane uzobaleka. Izazi zezengqondo zeluleka ngokwezigaba ukuvikela okulandelayo:- Isikhumbuzi saphakade somshado. Uma owesilisa engafuni ukushada, khona-ke akufanele ukukhumbuza ukujaha nosuku nsuku zonke ngesifiso sakhe. Khumbula, ukuziphatha okucasulayo kuyacasula futhi kuxoshwe.
- Isihloko somshado siyi-taboo yabathandekayo. Lapho izihlobo nabangane babuzwa njalo ukuthi ngabe umshado maduze nje, indoda ingaqala ukuqala ukuphikisana nalo mcimbi. Abanye besifazane babonakala beseduze nabantu bangasiza ukusunduza othandekayo ukuze enze umnikelo, kepha akunjalo. Esikhundleni salokho, uzobona nentombazane, hhayi nje ukuzwa ukuthi kukhulunywa njalo ngomshado. Kungcono ukubuza abantu ezindaweni eziseduzane ukuthi bangathinteki isihloko esinjalo esiswibo.
- Ultimatum - Cha! Amanye amantombazane nave akholelwa ukuthi i-ultimatum izosiza indoda ngokushesha ukunquma ngomshado. Eqinisweni, lokhu kuziphatha kumane nje kuxoxe futhi kusaba khona, ngakho-ke umfana uzothola amakhulu ezaba, ngakho-ke kuphela ukungazihlanganisi ne-UZami eshadile enombala okhethekile.
- Akunasidingo sokujaha izehlakalo. Uma umbuzo womshado waxoxwa ngawo ngebhangqa, kepha usuku oluthile aluhlelwanga, kusho ukuthi umfana akakakulungeli okwamanje. Imvamisa, ngaphandle kokubona inqubekela phambili, amantombazane aqala ukukhumbuza ngezikhathi ezithile ngengxoxo noma ngokuqondile abuze umbuzo: "Sizoya nini ehhovisi lokubhalisa?" Kepha kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi lapho umbuzo uzwakala kaningi, kulapho umfana engabaza khona ukuthi kuyakudinga yini.
Ngeshwa, ayikho iresiphi eyodwa, ukuthi ungamcindezela kanjani umuntu ngomshado, ngoba wonke umuntu ungumuntu ngamunye, futhi udinga indlela ekhethekile. Owesifazane kuzofanela akhombise ukuhlakanipha futhi abekezele, ngaphandle kwalokho angamane alahlekelwe yindoda yakhe ethandekayo ngenxa yokubekezela kwabo. Guys, naphezu kobudoda babo, banqikaza kakhulu, ngakho-ke badinga isikhathi sokunquma ngesinyathelo esifanele kangaka.
Umphumela
- Ukungabaza kwabantu bashada kungaba ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukahlukene.
- Umfana ngamunye udinga indlela ekhethekile, ebheka izici zakhe zengqondo nezokuziphatha.
- Ukuphikelela kanye nokuqiniseka kuyebisa amadoda, ngakho-ke akufanele uwafake u-Ultimatum futhi ukhumbule njalo ngomshado.