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Inertia - Ngabe lo mqondo utshengisa ini? Ngaphansi kwalo kuyaqondakala njengempahla yohlelo lwezinzwa kumuntu kancane kakhulu ukudonsela emqondweni owenzekayo, donsa ekuhambeni komsebenzi futhi uwuyeke kancane. Njengomthetho, i-Inertia igcwalisa ezinye izici, ezinjengokuthi:

• Ukunganaki - okungukuthi, umbono ongenandaba nokuzimela, nabanye;
• Ukuthuthuka okuhamba kancane - kuyiqiniso, le mfanelo ayihlali yenzeka.

Uma sibheka izinhlobo zezinto zokushisa, khona-ke i-phlegmatic ibhekwa njenge-inert. I-inertness ilungile noma imbi? Lapha, njengoba besho, kusukela ngaluphi uhlangothi. Lesi simo sinezinzuzo zako, kanye nobubi.

Izinzuzo zimi ngokulandelayo:

1. Umuntu oseceleni ukhombisa ukumelana nokuxineka okumhloniphekayo, okuyinto iningi le-choleric.
2. Ngiyakwazi ukusebenzisa amandla akho ngengqondo, ngaphandle kokuchithwa.
3. Uma ugxile kwesinye isimo, khona-ke ikhokha konke ukunakwa kwakhe, okukuvumela ukuthi uthole imiphumela ehlaba umxhwele. Kepha, enikeza isisebenzi esinjalo ngasikhathi sinye imisebenzi embalwa, qiniseka ukuxwayisa ngakho, ngoba kudingeka asakaze amandla akhe kahle.

Kepha akusebenzi ngaphandle kwamaphutha:

1. Umuntu we-inert ngubani? Lo ngumuntu okuthi akunakwenzeka ukulinda isinyathelo kunoma yimiphi imikhakha yempilo. Abantu balolu hlobo bakhetha ukuziphatha kahle kalula, ngokuya ngendlela yokugeleza ", bengafuni ukwenza izinguquko, futhi bafune ukuguqula umthwalo wemfanelo emahlombe banye abantu.
2. Bazifaka zonke izinhlobo zezindlela ezivela emaphutheni amancane, kunciphisa ukwehlisa isenzo sabo.

Qaphela! Kunomehluko omkhulu phakathi kokudangala kanye nesici esinjalo sokuzalwa kohlelo lwezinzwa njengokungena. Ngenkathi ukudangala kungukuphazamiseka kwengqondo, ukuziphatha ngokweqile kungenzeka kube yinto ejwayelekile kumuntu.

Izimbangela

Kungani abanye abantu bebonisa ukugcwala? Ingabe ikhwalithi enjalo emsulwa, noma yayitholakala empilweni yabantu abadala? Kufanele kuqashelwe lapha ukuthi kunezigaba ezimbili zabantu:

1. Iqembu lokuqala liyi-phlegmatics elisezingeni eliphakeme elivela ekuzalweni, futhi lokhu kungukuhlukahluka kokujwayelekile komzimba wabo.
2. Isigaba sesibili ngabantu, imbangela yokuziphatha okuyi-inert kwalokho okuwubuvila nokungazinzi. Abavele babhekane nezinhloso ezibekwe phambi kwazo, yize kungekho zizathu zezinhloso zalokhu.

Kuyavela ukuthi ukuncwaba kunakho konke ukubaluleka komuntu siqu nezenhlalo.

Impela ngokuhlangana kwadingeka ukuthi uhlangane nesigaba sokuqala sezakhamizi. Bahamba kancane kangangokuba bakwazi ukwethula esimweni sokudangala, njengesiphetho esiqinisa ehlobo. Maye, akwenzi okubi ngokubi, kepha bamane banesimo esinjalo.

Ngokwemvelo, banokuntuleka kobungqabavu, ngakho-ke abakhombisi isithakazelo esandayo ezweni elizungezile. Emehlweni abo, ukukhanya akukaze kukhanye, futhi ngaphakathi akunazo izifiso, izinhloso nezifiso. Kepha ngakho konke lokhu, abakho esimweni sokudangala. Futhi umhlaba wabo wabagculisa.

Mhlawumbe kuzokhala kancane, kepha ngifuna ukwenza isifaniso nesizwe esisodwa sase-Afrika sabantu abangakutholi ukudla, futhi ujwayele ukudla izipho zolwandle, waphonsa ogwini. Yebo, baqoqa nezithelo zezitshalo ezikhula eduze. Futhi inqwaba yempilo yabo isesimweni sokulala.

Kepha kukhona lobu ubuntu abavunyelwa yimfundo engafanele emndenini. Isibonelo, ingane ikhombisa ilukuluku, kepha imibuzo yaphakade yanda kakhulu. Futhi bazama ukuyeka le mizamo ngamazwi athi "emuva", "bathula", "Kungakanani okungaxoxa" nokunye.

Ngaphansi kwethonya lalokhu kukhuliswa, ingane yaqala, yaqala ukukhombisa ukunganandaba nomhlaba. Abameleli abaningi ababuthakathaka abanomlingiswa onjalo baya emsebenzini, hhayi ngoba baphupha ukuzethemba noma imali, kodwa hhayi ukuhlala ekhaya.

Ungabhekana kanjani ne-inertia

Lapha futhi kuyadingeka ukuhlukanisa izincomo zabantu bokuzalwa kwabantu kanye nalabo abavilapha nje futhi abasebenzi.

Yini okufanele yenze labo abangaphenduki, futhi bavilapha nje?

• Imvamisa ukucindezelwa kungenxa yokuzethemba okuphansi. Lapho-ke kuvela ukuthi ukuqeda lokhu kugula, kuzodingeka ukwanda kokuzethemba. Khuluma umuntu onjalo ukuthi wonke uzophuma azenze kahle. Ngazo zonke izindlela zidumise ngisho nokufeza okuncane.
• Futhi uma ukugxekwa kudingeka kakhulu, khona-ke kubonise ngendlela yokuthi umuntu onamandla angabheka isimo ngaphansi kwe-engela ehlukile, enza iziphetho ezithembekile kuyo. Ukusetha ngokuqinile kuvinjelwe ukucindezelwa, ngoba ukuthi umuntu onjalo uzotholwa kanjani angaphikiswanga ukugxekwa, akwaziwa.

Izincomo ze- "Floating Downtream"

Uma ngabe usuka emvelweni, phatha uhlobo lobuntu obungenayo, khona-ke ngeke kuvimbele ukulalela izeluleko ezengeziwe:

1. Khetha umsebenzi ngendlela yokuthi kuyo ungazizwa uchwepheshe wangempela. Lapho abanye abantu bezohlala befuna usizo, uzozizwa uzethemba wena futhi ungavusa ukuzethemba kwakho.
2. Empilweni, akukho ukuphefumlelwa okuncane? Akunalutho ngokuphelele olungadala ukunentshisekelo kuwe, ukukhanyisa okungenani imizwa ethile? Ngemuva kwalokho kunconywa ukuthola umuntu nje uvutha umbono othile, futhi uhlanganyele naye emizamweni yakhe. Futhi kwangathi ungambozwa uthando olufanayo nowukuthi, kepha ungathola amakhono abaluleke kakhulu avela kuye. Isibonelo, funda ukuthi ungazakha kanjani amasu nokwenziwa okulandelayo, kanye nenjabulo kule nqubo.
3. Kwesinye isikhathi impilo inselele ngamunye wethu. Kudinga ukwenza imizamo ethile, iya kwenye indawo, phuma 'emgodini "wabo. Akunasidingo sokulwela 'ukufihla ikhanda lakho esihlabathini.' Okokuqala, zama ukuhlola ngokweqiniso inqubo kusuka ku-zero kuya kwamaphuzu ayishumi, kuze kube lapho izokunikeza ubunzima. Kepha ngasikhathi sinye ungakhohlwa ngokuthokozela kokugcwaliseka komkhulelwe. Abantu abaningi base-inert bavame ukweqisa izinhloso zezinhloso, injabulo encane kakhulu yokunqoba.
4. Faka izinkulumo ngenkulumo yakho ngombala omuhle onamandla: "Kuhle", "mkhulu", "ngiyayithanda kakhulu." Ochwepheshe bezengqondo bathi imicabango kanye nemicabango yethu kwakha impilo yethu yonke. Ngakho-ke, ekuqaleni, uzovele uqale ukukhuluma izitatimende ezinhle, bese ungaboni ukuthi impilo ezungeze igqamile, ishesha ithakazelisa ngokwengeziwe.

Ekuphetheni

Ungasondela ekuphelweni okunengqondo kwesihloko. Kuyavela ukuthi ukuncwaba akusona isilwane ku-psychology, futhi kaningi kumane kungenye yezinto ezihlukile zohlelo lwezinzwa. Sonke sihlukile ekufuneni kwakho, kepha asikwazi ukuguqula le nkomba.

Vele, kulokhu akunabuvila. Uma uhlushwa ubuhlakani bakho, khombisa ukunganaki futhi ungafuni ukwenza noma yimuphi umzamo, udinga ukuthi ufunde ukuthi ungasebenza kanjani ngokwakho, ngaphezulu kwezakhiwo zakho nokwesaba, ukuqeda ukunqunyelwa kwakho.

Ngifuna nokubona ukuthi ukusekelwa okungokomzwelo kwabanye empeleni kubaluleke kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, uma unaye umuntu onjalo eqenjini noma emndenini, ungalweli ukuyinamathisela, zama okungenani ngezikhathi ezithile ukukhuthaza, ukukhuluma amagama afudumele.

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