Unkosikazi ongavumelekile: izimbangela eziphambili nezimpawu zokuvukela umbuso

Abesifazane bavame ukusonga amadoda ngesithembu futhi bathi iningi labo lishintsha ama-halves abo wesibili. Kepha uma ujula kulo mbuzo, kuzocaca ukuthi abameleli bendawo enhle bathambekele e-Adultra. Ngokusho kwezibalo, cishe ama-35- 40% ezintokazi ezishadile abaxhumana ngocansi "ohlangothini". Ngakhubeka ngalolu lwazi, ngacabanga ngokuthembeka komkami, ikakhulukazi njengoba muva nje kokuziphatha kwaso sekushintshe ngandlela thile. Kulesi sihloko ngizokutshela ukuthi ungaqonda kanjani ukuthi unkosikazi uyashintsha, nokuthi kungani abesifazane beya kuyo.

Kungani abesifazane beshintsha?

Akunakwenzeka ukucacisa ukuvukela kwe-matrimonial. Isinyathelo esinjalo sithathwa njengokukhashelwa, ngoba, ukuvumela umshado, lo mbhangqwana unikeza omunye nomunye isifungo sokwethembeka nothando lwaphakade. Kepha noma kunjalo, kusenokwenzeka ukuchaza isenzo esinjalo. Uma amadoda eguqula ikakhulukazi ngenxa yokuntuleka kocansi nomkakhe noma ngenxa yesifiso sokudalule impilo eseduze, khona-ke abesifazane bangaba nezinye izisusa eziningi.

1. Ukwaneliseka. Uma owesifazane engagculiseki ngobuhlobo obuseduze nomyeni wakhe, khona-ke akukho nkulumo ngesehlukaniso ngesehlukaniso, kungenzeka ukuthi uthole indlela yokujabulela "ngasohlangothini".
2. Ukukhathala ngokomzwelo. Kubalulekile ukuthi owesifazane azizwe futhi abone uthando lomyeni wakhe, kepha impilo kancane kancane ibulala uthando. Isimo sokuhlonipha inhlonipho siyanyamalala, izincomo zisabizwa, futhi ukwanga nezingalo zishonile empulekweni. Kepha uma omunye umuntu eqala ukunika intombazane ukunakwa futhi abonise imizwa yawo, kungekudala uzophendula ukuphindisela, ngoba inhliziyo yakhe ifisa ukuthandana naye.
3. Ukuziphindisela. Lapho esefundile ngokuvukela komuntu umyeni wakhe, abanye besifazane banquma ukumthethelela, kodwa ngasikhathi sinye basuse imicabango emibi abakaphansi kwamandla. Kancane kancane ukubhekana nokubhekana emphefumulweni wabo futhi ekugcineni wathululela ukuziphindisela. Izenzo ezinjalo zivame ukuboniswa emvelweni, ngakho-ke bobabili babika abathembekile bazo ngesiphingi, noma balungise isimo ngendlela yokuthi 'babanjwe'.
4. Ukoma ukuzijabulisa. Kukholakala ukuthi lokhu kungukuqala kwabesilisa, kepha empeleni abesifazane kwesinye isikhathi abanawo nje ukudumisa. Kwabanye abamele ubulili obumangalisayo, ukuvukela umbuso kuphenduka uhlobo lomdlalo, ukumisa abakwazi ukuyeka.

   

5. Ukuvuna okulahlekile. Amantombazane ahamba ekuseni, noma okhethiweyo wabo kwakungumuntu wokuqala futhi kuphela owesilisa ngokwezocansi, axazululwa esitsheni senzalo. Ngesinye isikhathi, bavakashelwa ngumqondo wokuthi impilo idlula lapho bematasa ngokuhlupheka okwenziwe ekhaya, kanti abanye ngalesi sikhathi banethuba lokuzijabulisa, nabefana abahlukahlukene. Ngaphezu kwalokho, owesifazane angaphonsa isifiso sokufunda, nokuthi kunjani ukuba nomuntu ohlukile embhedeni.
6. Ukuziqinisa. Amantombazane abalulekile ukwazi ukuthi kuyathandeka futhi kuyamukeleka, futhi uma bengakuzwa ukuqinisekiswa kumyeni wakhe, bazoqala ukubheka nxazonke. Kepha kufanele kuqashelwe ukuthi ngaphambi kokuba insongo ingavamile, imvamisa zikhawulelwe ukufenda.
7. Ingozi. Ubulili obuzenzakalelayo obuvame ukwenzeka ephathini noma ekilabhini, nomuntu ongayazi ngokuphelele. Ukujwayela okusha, ukuxhumana okujabulisayo, ukudansa okusekelwe notshwala kukwenza umsebenzi wabo. Ukuvukela umbuso okwenzeka esimweni esifanayo, abesifazane bavame ukubonwa njengethuba kanye nokuzisola okukhethekile kwenembeza ebuthakathakeni umzuzu ngokuvamile akunalutho.

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Izimpawu zokungathembeki oshade naye

Ukuthola ukuthi ngabe unkosikazi ushintsha, awudingi ukuqasha umphenyi bese uhlela ukubhekwa, yonke into ilula kakhulu. Vele ubheke ngokucophelela umlingani. Ukungathembeki kwayo kungakhombisa izinguquko kumlingiswa, ukubukeka, ekuziphatheni, ekuxhumaneni, njll. Imvamisa, amadoda athi "agqoke" izimpondo iminyaka eminingi, engazi ngokuphelele lokhu, futhi wonke amacala e-banal imali noma i-naivety. Kepha, noma ngabe umfazi wazama kanjani ukufihla iqiniso lokuvukela imbaza yakhe, kungekudala ufunda ngakho konke.

Uma inenekazi linobudlelwano "ohlangothini", khona-ke kuzokwenza umzamo omkhulu wokumfihla hhayi kuphela kumyeni wakhe, kodwa futhi nabantu abaseduze. Njengobudlelwano ekuziphatheni, imvelo nokubukeka kwentombazane ngokuqinisekile kuzoqala ukwenzeka izinguquko ezahlukahlukene okufanele zibe uphawu lwe-alamu lwendoda. Kepha akukubi ukushesha ukwenza izinsolo zomuntu oshade naye, ngoba zingakwazi ngokuphelele. Kepha, ngazi izimpawu eziphambili zokuvukela kwabesifazane, ungakugwema ukungaqondi, okuqinisekisa noma okuphika izinsolo zakho.

1. Umsebenzi ngokweqile. Ukubambezeleka kwaphakade emsebenzini, emuva kwesikhathi sokubuya kusuka kubavakashi, ukubukeka okungazelelwe kwezinto eziphuthumayo, kuvame ukuduzwa endlini ngaphansi kwezimpawu ezahlukahlukene, uhambo lwamaviki onke. Ukuziphatha okunjalo kufanele kuthuswa yindoda uma unkosikazi ngaphambili ayeyindlu evunzini.
2. Ukuguqulwa kwangaphandle. Ngokuqala kwesithandwa, owesifazane uzoqala ukulandela ngokucophelela ukubukeka kwakhe ukuze alondoloze isithakazelo sakhe. Uzokwenza ezemidlalo, ahlale phansi ekudleni, azoshintsha izinwele zakhe, zizokwenzeka kakhulu ukwenza izimonyo kanye ne-manicure.
3. Ukuvela kwezinto ezintsha. Izingubo ezithandekayo, imihlobiso, izimonyo, iwashi nezinye izingubo ezintsha zizodala imibuzo eminingi evela kumngane womshado. Imvamisa, abashintshi baphendula ukuthi enye noma enye into kuthiwa yanikeza umama noma yanikeza ukusebenzisa intombi. Kepha ukube ubengakaze abonwe ngaphambili, kungenzeka ukuthi, izipho zathengwa ngumuntu othanda.

   

4. Izingcingo ezisolisayo kanye ne-SMS. Uma unkosikazi ngezikhathi ezithile eshaya izingcingo, futhi kaningi kusihlwa, futhi ahamba ayokhuluma nelinye igumbi noma awela, khona-ke lolu isibonakaliso esicacile sokuthi ufihla okuthile. Ukuqaphela lokho kuziphatha, akudingekile ukuhlela ukuphenya, esikhundleni salokho kungcono ukuhlola ifoni oshade naye, kodwa kuyadingeka ukukwenza ngokucophelela nangokungabonakali.
5. Ushintsho ebudlelwaneni obusondelene. Ngokuqala kwesithandwa sentombazane, njengomthetho, baqala ngokwenqaba abayeni babo e-Intyma. Futhi kulezo zimo eziqabulayo lapho zisavuma ukuya ocansini, ziziphatha kahle, ngaphandle kwemizwa futhi zicasule. Kumele kwaziwe ukuthi kwezinye izikhathi isimo esiphambene singase sibhekwe, i.e. Unkosikazi wavele wakhuthazela futhi uqale wadla. Njengomthetho, lokhu kungenxa yokuzisola ngesibindi sothandekayo.
6. Ushintsho ekuziphatheni. Ngokuqala kwenoveli, lona wesifazane uqala ukunaka okuncane koshade naye nokuningi kuye nezidingo zawo. Ukuqabula, ukuvalelisa, izingxoxo kanye nezinganekwane ezihlanganyelwe zanyamalala kancane kancane ebudlelwaneni. Ukuxhumana kuya ngokuya kusemthethweni, kwesinye isikhathi ubudlova nobudlova kubonakaliswa. Kwesinye isikhathi amantombazane, kunalokho, abe lusizo ngokwengeziwe futhi anothando, okuvame ukuchazwa yisifiso sokuthulisa icala labo lokuvukela umbuso. Kepha uma ukuziphatha kokholwayo kulandelwa ekuziphatheni nasekubonisweni, ngakho-ke, kungenzeka ukuthi uzama 'ukuguqula' amehlo akhe nomyeni wakhe.
7. Ukuxabana njalo. Ukungena ebudlelwaneni nobulili nendoda, owesifazane kufanele abekezele ngokomzwelo. Ngenxa yalokho, uthando wukuthi, uqala ukuzwa imizwa eqinile ngesithandwa sakhe, kuyilapho ukunganaki kuye kuvela kumyeni wakhe, okuthi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi kukhula kube ubutha. Noma yimaphi amagama nezenzo zoMlingani osemthethweni zizomcasule owesifazane. Ukuhlambalaza okungapheli nokugxekwa kuzodala izingxabano zansuku zonke namahlazo.

Uma izinto eziningi ezisohlwini zihambelana nokuziphatha komfazi, khona-ke ngamathuba amaningi, kungaphikiswa ukuthi kuyashintsha. Ekugcineni qinisekisa lokhu, kunconywa ukubheka izinto zakhe zomuntu, kepha udinga ukukwenza ngemfihlo, ngokwesibonelo, lapho kusendlini yokugezela noma ukulala. Amaqiniso aqinisekise angaba amakhondomu esikhwameni, iphunga lamafutha awesilisa ezingutsheni, asetshenziswe amathikithi avela ku-cinema nokunye okutholakele okungajwayelekile.

Umphumela omfishane

• Cishe ama-35- 40% abesifazane abaguqula abayeni bawo, futhi ingxenye yabo abazi ngayo.
• Imvamisa, ukukhashelwa komkakhe kuchazwa ukungagculiseki ngokocansi noma ukuntuleka ukunakwa okuvela kumlingani.
• Ukungathembeki konkosikazi kukhombisa izinguquko ekuziphatheni kwayo, umlingiswa wayo nokubukeka.