Sekuyisikhathi eside ngibe ngumuntu okholwayo, ngifunda esontweni nsuku zonke futhi ngicabanga ngomkhuleko. Ngivame ukubuzwa ukuthi ngingawugcina kanjani umshado nothando lomyeni wakho. Namuhla ngizokutshela ukuthi yimiphi imithandazo okudingeka yenziwe eNkosini ukuze alondoloze uthando lwengxenye yabo yesibili.
Siza uNkulunkulu ngokulondolozwa komshado nomndeni
Kumuntu ngamunye, umndeni uyinani eliphakeme kakhulu. Okokuqala siphila futhi sikhula emndenini laphozalwa khona, futhi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi kulowo owadalwa wona. Ukukhethwa kwempilo ye-satellite kungenye yezixazululo ezibaluleke kakhulu, ikakhulukazi owesifazane ohlala efuna ukubona umvikeli nokusekelwa okungazelelwe kumyeni wakhe. Ngakho-ke kwenzeka ukuthi impilo idilize ibe yizimo ezingemnandi lapho kunokungabaza mayelana nenqaba yomndeni kanye nobudlelwano bothando. Ngingazivikela kanjani kulokhu futhi ngizethembe okuqinile endodeni yakho nangomshado?
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Ukusetshenziswa kwezipesheli ezahlukahlukene, imicikilisho nothando izipelingi kungqubuzana ngokwezigaba imithetho kaNkulunkulu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, inkolo yethu ibheka ukusetshenziswa kwemilingo nokuvutha ngesono esikhulu ukujezisa kulo lonke ulukhuni. Ngokusebenzisa izindlela ezinjalo, ungalimaza kuphela. Thuthukisa isimo ngokuguqukela ezindleleni zokuhlukanisa ngeke zisebenze. Kodwa-ke, akudingekile ukuphelelwa yithemba, ngoba enkolweni yethu yobuKristu kukhona nezindlela ezivusayo zokuqinisa umndeni futhi athuthukise ukuxhumana nabathandekayo.
Umkhuleko, ukuze umyeni ethandile umkayo angaphezu kwempilo, azosiza ekugwemeni izingxabano eziningi zansuku zonke, avule ubuso obusha bothando nenjabulo yabesifazane. Ukucela iNkosi kaSomandla ukuba akunikeze wena nomuntu okhethiweyo wakho ukuba baqonde, ukubekezela nokulalela kuhle kakhulu, ngoba imishado idalwe ngempela ezulwini futhi kudingeka isekele amabutho asezulwini.
Yiziphi izeluleko zokwenza inkolo ye-Orthodox Kube ngabesifazane abashayisana nezinkinga empilweni yomndeni
Into ebaluleke kunazo zonke lapho ufunda umthandazo amandla okholo atshalwa ngowesifazane esithembisweni sakhe esingcwele. Yimuphi umthandazo okufanele uwukhethele, kufanele utshele umphefumulo nenhliziyo, akudingekile ukuthi uthathe imibhalo eyenziwe ngomumo emiBhalweni noma kweminye imibhalo. Ungazikhethela amagama uma ufuna ukwenza ubuntu bakho.
Ukuze konke okusendleleni enhle kuwe nomyeni wakho, landela lezi zincomo:
- Ukukhetha amagama nezinkulumo ukuxhumana neNkosi, akunakwenzeka ukufisa noma ngubani ububi noma inkathazo. Kubaluleke kakhulu ngoba injabulo yakho akufanele ibe nomthelela omubi kwabanye abantu. Qondisisa ukuthi awulweli, ngoba uNkulunkulu unikeza wonke umuntu lokho akufunayo.
- Thandaza kaningi ngangokunokwenzeka, kuzokusiza ukuvumelanisa nawe ngendlela enhle futhi ubone izinguquko ezibalulekile ngokushesha okukhulu. Kungcono ukufunda imibhalo engcwele kaningana ngosuku (ekuseni nakusihlwa). Uma umkhathi wendlu uqala ukushisa, esikhundleni sokuya emizweni emibi nasezinkanwini ezimbi, thintana noNkulunkulu bese umcela ukuthi abeke ingxabano ethule nangokuthula.
- Landelela imicabango nezenzo zakho usuku lonke. Misa ukuqubuka kwentukuthelo yakho nokuthukuthela. Ngemuva kwakho konke, uma ungazisebenzeli ngokwakho futhi usabise ubudlelwane, akukho okungakusiza. OPhezukonke wanikeza indoda isipho esikhulu sokuzikhethela kwamahhala, ngakho-ke yisebenzise ukuze kusizakale, futhi ungalimazi.
- Zama ukuvakashela isonto kaningi. Zuza indoda nezingane kulokhu. Khuluma nomndeni wakho ngenkolo nakuNkulunkulu. Kuhle kakhulu uma umyeni wakho eqala nokufunda njalo ngemikhuleko, kuzoqinisa isithembiso sakho ngenxa yokuthi kuwuphawu lokuthi unesifiso sobabili.
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Yiziphi izimpawu ezibonisa isehlukaniso emndenini futhi zidinga ukukhanga uNkulunkulu
Kufanele ukhathazeke ngenhlala-kahle yomndeni wokuzwa, uma okuvezwa okulandelayo kusaqala ukuqaphela:- Akukho ukuqonda kwangaphambili, okuzithambisa kanye nokubekezelelana phakathi kwabashadikazi. Lezo zimo ezazingeke ziklonyelise futhi ziphonse ukunakwa, manje kuholele ekuxabaneni okungathi sína.
- Umyeni wayenesifiso sokuhlinzeka umndeni kubo bonke okuhle kakhulu, kanye nokugcwaliseka kwemisebenzi yabesilisa ejwayelekile kakhulu.
- Ubaba waba nentshisekelo kakhulu empilweni yezingane futhi achithe isikhathi kanye nabo kuphela ukuze aphoqelele. Lapho indoda iyeka ukubona ukubaluleka kokubamba iqhaza kwakhe kwinqubo yezemfundo, lolu uphawu olukhanyayo lokungalingani kwalo lwangaphakathi.
- Usola ukuthi owesilisa unowesifazane ohlukile, noma umemezela ngokuqondile umndeni wakhe. Le nkinga inganqotshwa uma ungakwehli izandla zakho futhi ulondoloze ukholo oluqinile ekuhlakanipheni kweNkosi ye-Providence.
- Ukudana komoya kanye nokwehla kwamandla nakho kuwuphawu olubi, hhayi oluphilayo olufanele ngomshado. Zungeza ukunakekelwa kwakho kwesibili nothando futhi ungayeki ukuthandaza kuJehova ngenhloso yenhlala-kahle.
Ukusetshenziswa njalo kwezindlela zobu-Orthodox ngokomoya kungasebenza kanjani kumyeni wakhe
Uma ubhekana nezingelosi ngenhloso eqotho yokuzithuthukisa, umyeni wakho kanye ne-OReliance yakho yothando, ngesikhathi esifushane lapho ungabona ushintsho oluhle kuyo yonke le mikhakha. Uma wenza konke ngokufanele, nemizwa nemizwa edingekayo, inqubekela phambili elandelayo kufanele ibonakale:
- Indoda izovuselelwa ngokwengeziwe, inothando futhi inokuthula. Uzobona ukuthi kusuka engxenyeni yakhe kubonakalisa kancane kancane isinyathelo sokuzisebenzisa nokuzithuthukisa.
- Amadoda azoba namandla namandla okusebenza, ukuqaliswa kwamaphrojekthi amasha. Uzozizwa enesifiso esinamandla ngempela sokunikela umndeni wakhe okuhle. Uma ngaphambi kwalokho, umyeni wakhe wakugwema umsebenzi wayo wesikole, akenzanga lutho oluzodlula okomoya, ngakho-ke konke kuzoshintsha kakhulu, ngoba isifiso sokuhlinzeka umndeni siyisimo semvelo sendoda evamile. Ungalindela futhi izimanga ezimnandi, ezingakwazanga ukuphupha ngaphambili. Manje ngeke kudingeke ukukholisa umuntu okhethiwe ukuthi athenge okuthile. Uzokwenza lokhu ngesicelo sakhe, ekhombisa isinyathelo kuqala.
- Isigamu sakho sesibili siya ngokuya sikhuluma ngobunyekeli bakho nobunye, kusukela lapho ubuyisela imali esele emndenini, indoda ibuye iphinde ibone okuwukuphela kwayo nonkosikazi wakhe, wake wamholela emqheleni. Ukwethembeka kwakhe akubonakali ngamazwi kuphela, kodwa nasezenzweni. Ungayeka ukukhathazeka ukuthi othile angabhubhisa umshado.
- Ungaqiniseka ukuthi izingane (uma zikhona manje) nazo zizozwa izinguquko ezinhle ezivela ekhanda lomndeni. Ubaba uzophinde abe nesithakazelo esiqotho ezindabeni zezingane zakhe, alwele ukuchitha isikhathi esithe xaxa nabo. Imikhuleko izosiza ekwenzeni umyeni wakhe abe yisibonelo esihle ezinganeni ezifunda ikakhulu zibheke abazali bazo.
- Uma kukhona amahlazo ngaphambili, izingxabano noma izehlakalo ezibucayi, manje konke kuzokwehlisa umoya, futhi isimo esingokomzwelo endlini sizothola amathoni ahluke ngokuphelele.
Ukuguqulwa isimo, vele, ngeke kuthikani hhayi nje kuphela inhloko yomndeni, kodwa futhi nowesifazane ophuma emoyeni wakho ngokuxhumana noMninimandla onke. Inala ejwayelekile izokusiza ukuba uthole ukuthula nomusa.
Kunoma yisiphi isimo, intombazane enobuhlakani izokwazi ukwenza, idonswa uthando nomusa, izobusa ukwethuka kanye nokuqonda, ukuqonda okusobala kwendawo yakhe yangempela yafika lapho kuzofika khona. Izindaba Zasekhaya zizobhalwa futhi zilethe owesifazane injabulo evela kulokho angenza akwenze okuthile okuwusizo ezihlotsheni futhi adale induduzo eyenziwe ngenduduzo.
Ukugcina
- Kuyadingeka ukuthethelela oPhezukonke ngokugada nosizo, uma umyeni eqala ukuziphatha nakancane, njengasekuqaleni kwendlela ehlanganyelwe. I-Laine, ulaka, ukuhaha, ukuhlambalaza, umhawu, izinhlamba zonke izinkomba zobudlelwano phakathi kwabantu. Lapho nje ubona ukuthi izimpawu ezesabekayo zaqala ukuvela empilweni, ngokushesha zama ukuguqukela kusizo lwama-celers.
- Uma umfazi enza konke okuhle, khona-ke izinguquko ezinhle kufanele zivele ngokushesha okukhulu empilweni yomndeni. Imizwa emnene izophangwa ngamandla angekho emthethweni, indoda iyophatha okhethiweyo yakhe ngokucophelela futhi athuke. Zonke izingxabano zizokwehla, bese zinyamalala ngokuphelele ekubeni yikho. Konke lokho obekucasulile engxenyeni yesibili kuzonyamalala futhi kuzothathelwa indawo izimfanelo ezinhle nezenzo.
- Ukuthandaza enhlalakahleni yendoda yakhe, owesifazane futhi kubo kunikeza ukuguqulwa kwabo bobabili ngokomoya nangokomzimba. Ukuthethelela okuqotho, okudinga umthandazo, ukuncibilikisa zonke izinhlamba eziqongelelwe eminyakeni edlule yeRussia. Ukususa imithwalo esindayo yokuthola ama-ramp, owesifazane uzozwa indlela emangalisayo yokuphefumlelwa namandla. Izifo ezazihlupha le ntombazane isikhathi eside zizophulukiswa futhi zingaphinde zikhunjulwe ngisho nangaphambi kokwelashwa.
- Vakashela izinsizakalo zesonto, ulalele izintshumayelo bese uzama ukuhlala ngazo zonke izindlela. Kuzothandeka uma kufanele wabele isikhathi sokusebenzela isonto neNkosi. Ngangokunokwenzeka, yenza ukubeka, ungashiyi enkingeni kulabo abadinga ukunakekela kwakho nosizo, noma ngabe ungumuntu ongaziwa ngokuphelele.
- Qaphela izenzo zakho, amagama nezenzo. Hlaziya futhi ushintshe okungekho isandla ekuqiniseni izibopho zomndeni. Ngangokunokwenzeka, hlanza i-negative yonke empilweni yakho, ngoba izenzo ezinjalo zizokhombisa ukungamushi kokulungela kwakho nokuzimisela koshintsho oluhle.