Imvamisa ngiza esontweni ukuyovuma ukuphenduka ezonweni zami, ngihlanze umphefumulo futhi ngithethelele uNkulunkulu. Lesaphramente engcwele inamandla futhi inamandla kunanoma yimiphi eminye imicikilisho yokuhlanzwa, ngakho-ke ngincoma ukuvuma njalo ethempelini kumuntu ngamunye. Kulesi sihloko, ngizokutshela konke okudingeka ukwazi i-Parishioner, enqunywe kulo mkhosi okokuqala noma ifuna ukwengeza umuzwa ngokomoya wokuvuma ukuvela ngokujulile.
Ukulungiselela ukuvuma izono
Ukulungiselela ukuvuma uvuma okudingayo ngaphambi kwesikhathi. Kungcono ukubuyisela izinsuku ezimbalwa.
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Yini okufanele yenziwe:
- Bhala ephepheni lephepha uhlu lwezono lapho uzophenduka khona uPatushka esontweni.
- Ukuze ufunde izincwadi zesonto, ezichaza zonke izici zesakramente lokuvuma izono.
- Yazi izono zakho abakhona futhi wazinikelanga. Ngasikhathi sinye, awudingi ukufuna ukusola, zama ukuzithethelela phambi kwakho futhi uguqule umthwalo wemfanelo. Okokuqala nje phambi kwabo: "Yebo, ngikwenzile futhi nginecala kuphela ngesenzo."
- Ithiphu yokuthi izono ezizofakwa kuphi ohlwini, kungahle kube nedayari yansuku zonke lapho uzowugubha khona ezakwenzile phakathi nosuku. Ngena kukho abakwenzile okuhle nokubi. Zama imicabango yakho, imizwa kanye nezenzo zakho ukubheka ngokucophelela futhi "ubambe" wena ezifundeni ezingezinhle.
- Cela intethelelo nalabo obacasulile. Zama ukubuyisanisa nezitha. Zama ukuxhumana nalabo esekude bexabana futhi ungakhulumi. Noma ngabe ukuxhumana ungavuseleli, izingxoxo eziqotho zizohlanza umphefumulo nenhliziyo yakho.
- Faka usuku lomkhuleko enkambisweni. Kusihlwa, funda ama-canoni: uphinde ubhekiswe engcupheni ntombi nto.
Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi ukuvunywa komuntu siqu (lapho uzivuma ngokwakho ezonweni futhi ufe) kuhlukelele esonweni (okushiwo - ekuphendukeni okujulile futhi ufisa ukuhlanza ezonweni zokuziphinda ngokuzayo).
Ukuvuma izono kumpristi kuyisigaba esilandelayo. Ngenxa yokuthi kufanele unqobe, utshele umuntu ongakhethi ngezenzo zami ezingakhethi, ungazibona ngokujulile, unqobe imizwa yecala namahloni futhi wenze iziphetho ezifanele.
Uma unobunzima bokudlulisela uhlu lwezono, uthenge incwadi ekhethekile esitolo sebandla, lapho kunencazelo ephelele nesakramente, kanye nohlu olunemininingwane yezono. Futhi, inazo zonke izinto ezidingekayo zendlela yokulungiselela ukuvuma izono.
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Lapho nje uqala ukuzwa ubulukhuni eshawini, lapho ukungaziphathi kahle okuphelele akunikezi ukuphumula futhi imicabango yakho igcwele i-negative, iza isikhathi sokuvuma izono esontweni.
Ukuthethelelwa okuthola ngemuva kokuphenduka okuqotho kukunika umuzwa wokukhululeka nokukhululwa. Yini imithetho yokuvuma izono ikhona:
- Ukuvuma kungavalelwa kathathu ngesonto. Kepha lokhu kuvame ukungabi nakancane. Kungenzeka ukuthi izono zakho azimbi kangako futhi uzodinga ukuphenduka kumpristi kanye kuphela ngenyanga noma ngaphansi. Bukela imizwa yakho. Uma unomuzwa wokuthi kufanelekile ukusindisa futhi, ziza komunye uvumo.
- Ukususa ubuhlakani nemizwa yokuqina, zama ukugxila imicabango ngesifiso esiqotho sokusula umphefumulo wakho kanye nokwazi okungekuhle, ukuthola intethelelo kaNkulunkulu.
- Lungiselela uhlu lwezono eziphelele kwisakramente eliphelele, ukuze ungachithi isikhathi sokukhumbula ukuthi sebekhohliwe.
- Uma izono ezenziwe nguwe zisinda impela, ubaba ngemuva kokuvuma izosongela ipipi - isijeziso, esenza okufanelwe intethelelo. Kufanele kuqondwe ukuthi uzodinga ukwenza imiyalo.
Isikhathi esihle sokuvuma izono singesikhathi sesikhathi sobusuku, noma ekuseni, ngaphambi kokuqala kwenkonzo.
Ngabe ukuvuma kanjani
Kunezindlela eziningi zokuvuma izono:
- Ingqikithi Lapho abantu bekhuluma izono zabo ndawonye ngesikhathi senkonzo ekhethekile.
- Ngokuvumelana nompristi, ungathola izilaleli zakhe futhi uvumele i-tet-a-tet.
- Ezimweni ezihlukile (uma umuntu egula kakhulu, ngokwesibonelo), ubaba angamenywa ekhaya. Okuhlukile kwenziwa kaningi ezimweni lapho "isoni" ekufeni.
Kufanele ulungiselele iqiniso lokuthi ngaphambi kwesakramente, ubaba uzokubuza imibuzo embalwa. Impendulo kuzo kufanele ibe qotho futhi ngaphandle kwamahloni. Imvamisa kunentshisekelo, noma ngabe uvame ukuthandaza, woza ethempelini, ulandele imiyalo yamanga nokunye.
Ngakho-ke, isakramente senzeka ezigabeni eziningana:
- Ingxoxo yokuqala nemibuzo evela kumpristi.
- Cabanga ngezono zakho ohlwini, ukuvezwa kwesifiso sokuphenduka nokuthola intethelelo.
- Ekupheleni kukababa Funda umthandazo futhi wephule uhlu lwezono. Lokhu kusho ukuthi ukuvuma ukuvuma sekuphelile, futhi uthole ukusatshiswa.
- Emva kwalokho, i-epithihili izobekwa ekhanda lakho, efanekisela isibusiso nesihe sikaNkulunkulu. Ekupheleni kwesiko, yenza izindebe ziye eVangelini nasekudluleleni, okuvame ukutholakala ekugcineni kwethempeli.
Bheka ividiyo yokuthi ungalungisa kanjani izono zokuvuma izono:
Yini okufanele uphenduke ngokuvuma izono?
Ukuze ungabi nobunzima ekuhambeleni kokuqala kwisakramente, kufanele wazi ukuthi yini okufanele ukhulume ngokuvuma izono. Kwenzeka kaningi ukuthi abantu bazama ukwakha izenzo zabo kuphela "izinhloko", bakhohlwa ukuthi ukuphenduka kufanele kusuka enhliziyweni. Nginxusa ukuthi ungakunakekeli ukunemba kwamagama, kepha ukusho konke, ukuthi umphefumulo wakho uzizwa kanjani. Ungakwazi ngisho nokuzwakala ngokutholwa, umehluko muni? UNkulunkulu uyakuzwa futhi akuqonde.
Nazi ezinye izincomo:
- Ungalokothi uzame ukuzithethelela phambi kukaYise, ungasoli ekwahlulekeni kwakho, izinkathazo nasezonweni zabanye abantu. Vuma ukuthi nguwe kuphela obangela bona.
- Izindaba ezinde ezinemininingwane eminingi nazo azidingeki. Ungapela ngale ndlela, ungamama noma intombi, bese ubhala zonke izono zonke. Amaqiniso kuphela - ngaphandle kwezilinganiso, izincazelo kanye nokucaciswa. Cabanga ngokuthi kungani konke kungadingeki.
- Ungaphenduka: Ngezono eziyisikhombisa ezifayo, imizwa engemihle oyikhombise abantu, embizeni, ongadala umuntu ukuba alimaze.
Futhi khumbula: Akunandaba ukuthi uyayazi yini imithetho noma cha. Ebandleni kuzohlala kutshelwa futhi kuzokutshela, kusiza uma ukhohlwe ngokuthile. Ungesabi ukubukeka ubuwula futhi bube nzima, vele ube qotho ulalele inhliziyo yakho.