Ngihlala ngivuma ukuvuma isonto futhi kulesi sihloko ngizokutshela ukuthi ungavuma kanjani. Kubukeka kimi ukuthi noma ubani kumele okungenani kanye nasempilweni yakhe adlule kulokhu, aphenduke ezonweni futhi asule umphefumulo ukuze anciphise impilo yakhe futhi asondele kuNkulunkulu.
Okufanele ukwenze ngaphambi kokuvuma izono
Ngaphambi kokuthi uye esontweni futhi udlule isiko lokuvuma, kuyadingeka ukukulungiselela kahle. Ungazinaki lezi zikhathi ukuze ukuphenduka kudlule kukhululekile kuwe futhi akwenzekanga izikhathi ezingezinhle.
Nazi izigaba ezibalulekile zokulungiselela:
- Kufanele uqaphele izono zakho, uzibhale ngokwengqondo futhi wazi kuwe ukuthi zikhona, futhi umphefumulo wakho udinga ukuhlanzwa.
- Isifiso sokuphenduka kufanele sithembeke. Ungakwenzi "ngaphansi kwenduku", uma ungazizwa ulungele ngokwanele. Ungokholo lwangempela kuphela, olungelona ukholo oluzosiza ukuyeka ezonweni, luvele phambi kukaNkulunkulu wakuzwa.
- Kufanele futhi ukholelwe ukuthi ukuvuma kwemvume kunomthelela ekuhlanzeni ngokomoya ngompristi kanye nemithandazo eqotho, ukuphenduka okuqotho.
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Kuphela ngaphansi kokugcinwa kwale mithetho, isiko kunengqondo. Lapho-ke umphefumulo wakho uzocaca kubo bonke ukungcola, izono, nokholo lwakho kuNkulunkulu luzoqinisa futhi lusize endleleni yokuphila. Yonke unembeza, ungazizwa ngenqubo ngemuva kwemikhono kanye "nomthwalo wemfanelo."
Ngabe ukuvuma kanjani esontweni
Udinga ukwazi ukuxhumana nokuvuma. Okufanele sikusho nokuthi ungaqala kuphi ukuvuma izolo ngaphambi kukaYise, kukutholwe ngani amagama, wonke okholwayo aphoqelekile ukuba aqonde.
Imithetho nezici zokuvuma izono eSontweni Lobu-Orthodox yimi okulandelayo:
- Njengoba ngibhale, yonke imicabango yakho, amagama nezenzo kufanele kube ngobuqotho ngangokunokwenzeka. Uma umphefumulo wakho okungenani unesibungu sokungabaza, ubeke eceleni umkhosi ube umzuzwana ofanele lapho ugcwalisa ukholo ngokwanele, futhi inhloso yakho iyoqina.
- Zama esilinganisweni ukuze uveze umphefumulo nenhliziyo yakho, ungavali futhi ungazami ukugeza okuthile kumpristi. UNkulunkulu ubona konke, ngakho-ke ukufihla noma yini engenamsebenzi ngokuphelele.
- Ukuvuma izono akuyona nje ukuphindaphindwa kwemishini yezono zazo phambi kukaYise. Lokhu kuphenduka kwangempela, ngokweqiniso, ukuhlanganisa nesifiso sokuhlanzwa izono, akusekho okubaphindile futhi kudambise umphefumulo wabo.
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Okufanele ukwenze ngesikhathi sokuvuma:
- Nansi isampula ongakhuluma ngayo ukuvuma esontweni: "Nkosi, ngicela ungixolele izono zami (uhlu). Ngiyaxolisa kakhulu ukuthi ngibenze. Ngiyabonga ngentethelelo yakho futhi ngiyakuthanda. Busisa futhi ugcine ".
- Zizwe ukhululekile ukuze uphendukele kuYise ukuze uthole izeluleko, uzohlala ungitshela futhi ngizokusiza, uzocindezela ezenzweni ezifanele, uzonikeza izeluleko.
- Ngokuyinhloko, iqiniso lokuthi uzokhuluma nokuvuma izono enhlanganyelweni, indima ekhethekile ayidlali, ubuqiniso bakho kuphela kubalulekile kanye nenhloso eqinile yokuzikhulula esonweni, ngaphandle kokuphindaphinda ngemuva kwalokho. Khuluma ngomphefumlo, njengoba ushukumisa inhliziyo yakho. Zizwe ukhululekile awekho amagama.
- Kuze kube yilapho isiko ungaxhumana nabantu abanolwazi, amakholwa azokutshela ukuthi ungaziphatha kanjani kahle. Kuhle kakhulu uma amathiphu ezoqhamuka kubathandekayo, "abanolwazi".
- Ungabhala phansi zonke izono ezitholakala ephepheni ephepheni, ukuze ungakhohlwa lutho ngesasasa. Kwenze uma kungazethembi kwimemori yakho futhi wesaba ukuthi imizwa izovimba wonke umuntu. Kepha ungasusi - ukuthanda izinto ngokuphelele akulungile.
- Ekuvumizweni kokuqala, umuntu, njengomthetho, kufanele akhumbule zonke izindlu zakhe, kusukela eminyakeni yobudala eneminyaka eyisithupha. Ezikhathini ezalandela, izono azidingeki ukukhumbula uma ungaziphindanga.
- Umpristi uzokubonisa ukuthi kusukela esonweni okuthiwa akuzange. Kepha nze ucabange ukuthi kungani ukhathazeke kakhulu ngakho.
- Ngaphambi kokuqala kokuphenduka, udinga ukusondela endaweni ekhethwe ngokukhethekile esontweni, lapho isiphambano neVangeli likhona. Thintana neminwe emibili encwadini engcwele, ngemuva kwalokho ubaba uzobeka i-epitrohil ekhanda lakho (ucezu lwendwangu olufana nesikhafu).
- Lesi senzo singenziwa ngemuva kokuphenduka, lokhu akudlali indima ekhethekile.
- Ekupheleni kokuvuma, uBaba uzowufunda umthandazo wokusebenzisa kabi izono futhi wenza uphawu lwesiphambano. Kwezinye izimo, i-Parishioner iqokwa yiBitsa - isijeziso sezono ezidingekayo ukuze zihlelwe. Kungaba yiposi noma eminye imikhawulo.
- Uma i-epitia izobonakala ingenakwenzeka noma isinda kakhulu kuwe, ungapheli amandla. Ungahlala ubhekisa kumpristi ngesicelo sokumthambisa kancane.
Ngesikhathi sokuvuma, ungageleza izinyembezi, "Khombisa" imizwa, kwakhiwa inqwaba emphinjeni, kuvinjelwe ukukhuluma. Akudingekile ukwesabisa lokhu - lokhu ukusabela okujwayelekile okwenzeka ngesikhathi sokukhishwa nokukhululwa kwe-negative. Umzimba uphendula kakhulu kokuhlangenwe nakho komphefumlo, futhi izikhathi ezifanayo - uphawu olwe ngalo ngempela endleleni yokuphulukisa.
Bheka ividiyo yokuthi ungavuma kanjani esontweni ngaphambi kwenhlanganyelo okokuqala nokuthi uzothini:
Izikhathi ezibalulekile
Ukungena ethempelini kulandela ezingutsheni ezimnyama ezivaliwe. Abesifazane ngokwengeziwe bamboza isikhafu sekhanda. Musa ukugqoka izingubo ezinama-prints akhanyayo, izinhlamvu zekhathuni, amafilimu nokunye okufanayo. Ngaphambi kokuvuma, yenqaba utshwala, ukubhema, imikhiqizo yezilwane, kufaka amaqanda nobisi.
Ukwakheka akuvunyelwe futhi, kwenqatshelwe kakhulu ukusebenzisa izindebe ze-lipstick. Amantombazane kufanele agqoke ingubo, hhayi ibhulukwe. Kumele kube yinde ngokwanele. Inketho ekahle lapho ivala ama-ankle, kepha njengendlela yokugcina, nakekela okungenani isiketi sivale amadolo.
Ngemuva kokuvuma, ungadlulisela isiko lenhlanganyelo - ngosuku olufanayo noma olandelayo. Akudingekile ukwenza lokhu - qiniseka ukuthi uzokhuluma ngenhliziyo, futhi athathe isinyathelo kuphela ngesifiso esiqotho.