Isipelingi esisekulangazelweni akusona isipelingi ngomqondo ophelele wegama. Ngokuya umthelela wayo kanye nomgomo wokugcina, kufana nesifafaza. Iningi leziza zalolu hlobo zisetshenziselwa ukukhuthaza umuntu ukuthi athathe isinyathelo sokuqala ebudlelwaneni, akha ukungezwani okukhulu, abuye ngemuva kokuhlukana nomuntu wabo.
Isipelingi sothando ekulangazelweni kwehlukahlukana nemicikilisho yabahambisanayo yendabuko. Futhi lokho okuphawulwa isenzo esisheshayo. Ibeka isisulu enkambu yamandla esisulu. Ngaphansi kwethonya layo, ukuhamba kuqala ukukhulisa nokuphuthelwa ngumlingisi noma ikhasimende lomkhosi. Unesifiso esingenakunqotshwa ukubona lowo owenza amasiko, aphume naye ukuxhumana naye, imicabango yakhe ihlala kuphela ngabacabangi ngento yokulangazelela kwakhe.
Ukushintsha umuzwa oqhubekayo wokukhathazeka nakho konke lokhu okuhlangenwe nakho, ukuthula kuza kuphela lapho umhlatshelo uvela ukuba abe eduze kwendoda yakhe. Lesi simo sokuhamba sifana kakhulu nokulutha.
Kuyini ukupela okuyingozi ekulangazelweni: imiphumela yesiko
Iziphonso eziningi zothando ngokulangazelela zinezenzo zesikhashana nezilula. Umthelela wabo uyaqhubeka ngqo kuze kunikezwe ilitshe osonkontileka (noma ikhasimende) ngeke litholakale.Isipelingi sabo bonke ababambiqhaza kwisiko, isipelingi esisezingeni eliphakeme libonakaliswa lapho lisetshenziswa ngenhloso:
- Cindezela umuntu esigabeni sokuqala ekuqaleni kobudlelwano, ngokuya ngobukhona bozwela lwemvelo;
- ukuvumelanisa ngemuva kokuxabana okukhulu;
- Phendula imizwa ephelelwe yisikhathi ebudlelwaneni besikhathi eside.
Imiphumela emibi yesiko kulezi zimo ezingenhla izoba mincane, futhi isiko lizosebenza ngokuphelele.
Enye into, uma uthando lokupela ngokulangazelela kwenziwa emqondweni wokuziphindisela noma inzondo noma isiko eliqinile kakhulu liyasetshenziswa. Ngaphezu kwakho konke, kuzohlupheka njengokuphasa. Ukulangazelela okunamandla kwekhasimende okwakhiwa ngesikhathi somcebo kuvame ukuholela isisulu sokunganakwa nokulahlekelwa yintshisekelo empilweni, ekulahlekelweni kokulala, nokudla nokuthula. Ngaphansi kwethonya lesiko, okumangazayo kungaphuka ngokuphelele, engeza otshwala noma ezidakamizweni, thola ukuthambekela kokuzibulala.
Isiphetho esiphukile salowo osolekayo ngeke sehle ngosonkontileka besiko esandleni - ngezenzo zakhe ngomthetho weKarma, nakanjani uzokhokha. Ngakho-ke, isinqumo sokusebenzisa ngokunenzuzo isipelingi esinamandla ekulangazelweni, ikakhulukazi uma umuntu edakiwe, ngokuqinisekile azophinda aphindwe ngamabomu. Ukwenza uzungu lokuvikela oluqinile ekulangazelweni yimthelela emilingo okudingeka kuphela ezimweni ezimbi kakhulu.
Izindlela Zokuzenzela Ukugcwaliseka
Kukhona iningi labapelingi bothando elidala ukuncibilika. Ukuze bajwayelane nemicikilisho ethandwa kakhulu. Zenziwa, kanye nengxenye evamile yomlingo wothando lwe-plonative, ngenyanga ekhula.
Ukuvikela uzungu komoya (ngokulangazelela)
Lesi siqephu esingezansi sibizwa ngesimo sezulu esinomoya. Ngokufanelekile, kuyadingeka ukukwenza ngaphandle, ethangeni lemvelo - ensimini noma ehlathini. Uma kungekho kungenzeka, ungafunda amagama angabhekwa futhi ekhaya, ngewindi elivulekile. Umbhalo Olandelayo:
"Imimoya EMhlaba, Amavoti Aqinile, Ushaya Futhi Usakaza, Kube Isigqila SikaNkulunkulu (Igama lokuhileleka) Ukuvumelana. USwing, shayela futhi womile, ukhuluma nami (igama lakho) Sitshele. Ukuze ephusheni alizange lilele ngokwanele, angizange ngiyokudla, angizange ngiphuze ngiphuze, angifikanga ukuhamba. Ukuze kungahambi ngokwengeziwe uNkulunkulu (Igama lokuhileleka) EGulbe, wahamba, wangcwatshwa, kudabukisa kimi. Amagama ami anembile futhi aqinile, imicabango yami yesiqhingi namaketanga. Isifiso - Ummese ubukhali, izinhlungu zinamandla. Akube njalo".
Thanda ukupela kwababili bomndeni
Lesi siko singasizakala umfazi, uma umyeni eyeka ukunaka kuye futhi ubudlelwano babo buyabhekana nesigaba sokupholisa.Ngaphambi kokubamba isiko, lowo oshade naye kufanele athenge amasokisi amasha. Kuyadingeka ukwenza lokhu ngesizungu ngokuphelele, ukuba khona kwabanye abathengi akunakulunga. Ukukhokhela izimpahla nokuyithola kumthengisi, kuyadingeka ukuhleba:
"Hhayi amasokisi athenge, kepha kuhle (igama lomyeni) kuthama".
Njengoba usufikile ekhaya, amasokisi adinga ukuguqulwa ngaphakathi ngaphandle amukele isiphambano esincane sethamu elifanayo namasokisi anemibala. Esezinhlelweni zokufekethisa, ukubiza uzungu:
"Hhayi ukuwela i-embroider, kodwa enhliziyweni yami yokulawula, inhliziyo yenceku kaNkulunkulu (igama lomyeni) lithungwe."
Lapho iziphambano zifekethisiwe, amasokisi adinga ukugoqwa, amboze ngezintende zezandla futhi asho olunye uzungu:
"Namuhla, kusasa, kuze kube phakade, izinyanga, iminyaka eminingi, ziyosindiswa ngamasokisi abandayo, ngiyosindisa efulawa yenhliziyo. Nginikeza amasokisi, nginikele. Amasokisi avela kimi, anginike kimi - hhayi ihora, naphakade. "
Amasokisi akwakheni adinga ukwethulwa noshade naye njengesipho. Kwenze kube ngcono ngoLwesithathu noma ngoLwesihlanu, ngokushesha nje ngemuva kokuphela kwesiko (ngale njongo, isiko uqobo lwalo lungabanjwa kulezi zinsuku zeviki).
Thanda ukupela ucezu lwenyama
Isiko lilungele amantombazane aphupha ukunakekelwa komuntu. Ukufeza, udinga ukuthenga ucezu lwenyama kusengaphambili, lungiselela izithonjana ezi-3 - uMsindisi, intombi kanye neNicholas.
I-rite yenziwa yedwa. Inqubo:
- Uboya egumbini, buthe izithonjana ezi-3 etafuleni, babeke ucezu lwenyama olubhekene nabo.
- Donsela izingalo zakho phezu kwenyama, intende kufanele ibukeke.
- Faka phakathi ukubona ngeso lengqondo - ukwenza kabusha isithombe sendoda esetshenzisiwe imicabango, ukwethula imininingwane engachazwa ngayo.
- Lapho bekwazile ukuvumelanisa, bamemezele uzungu: "Inja yenja ijaha kanjani, izinkanyezi ezivame njalo, nenceku (Igama likaGuy) Yonke indawo engangiya kuyo futhi yathuthukiswa ekulangazelweni. Inja ikhonkotha, umnyango uvaliwe. Nami, inceku kaNkulunkulu (igama lakho) , Inhliziyo yenceku (Igama likaGuy) Ngikhiya, ngikhiye, ngingcwatshwe, ngingcwatshwe. Izindebe, amazinyo, ukhiye olwandle olwandle. Amen ".
- Ngemuva kokufunda icebo, inyama kufanele yondliwa inja elahlekile.